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How much time do y'all spend a day texting or talking to broads, any position or role on your roster. What your total time commitment looking like?

I've been on some other stuff lately man. Any time not spent following my passions and getting better feels like a waste.

Literally gotta force myself to put in any effort in terms of communication, I'd rather be working.
I feel like I gotta force myself too then it comes down to conversation. Outside of sex a lot of these chicks have nothing to talk about..

You Damn near have the entire conversation with these females now day in day out.. It's silly..
 
How many date(s) can you go on with two different girls if you want the subsequent ones as well with both of them simultaneously? Lol.
 
You do realize that these **** have a personality of yogurt. Women don't have to be charming and be dope, like we do. Like if I acted like a lot of them do, I'd get zero play. Lol its good tho
 
I'm all for chatting but the conversations with girls these days is like pulling teeth. I'll rock out for a minute with a shorty then I won't text her for a day or two then she'll just stop texting period. Like these girls don't want to put in half of my half assed effort so what the **** is the point?


It's why I have a couple shorties I'm ******* on the regular and everyone else is just time killers.
You do realize that these **** have a personality of yogurt. Women don't have to be charming and be dope, like we do. Like if I acted like a lot of them do, I'd get zero play. Lol its good tho
This pretty much sums it up. Especially the bolded portion.

I think part of the fact I can't do the long *** convo thing is because, in most cases, the woman is sitting there expecting you to lead the conversation and create dialogue.

But how the **** am I supposed to be interested in creating dialogue when half these broads can't have an intellectual conversation outside of what happened last week on Game of Thrones or how The Alchemist made them feel.

I'm jaded as hell, bros.
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I respect the ones that want to hook up and not hook up on an initial meeting, but I wish it wasn't a blowout for the latter.

Physical has always led to greener pastures for ya boy and a good time for both HEY but stay humble though WE MUST.
 
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I'm married and i just hung out with this girl over the weekend just cause she hits me up here and there BUT I crossed the line since shes one of my boys ex 
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I'm married and i just hung out with this girl over the weekend just cause she hits me up here and there BUT I crossed the line since shes one of my boys ex 
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You're married and taking shots at your boy's ex.

Fam. I don't meed that stress.
 
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Yea I rather not waste my time, with their bland conversations, keep smashing that one lol

What are you looking for if you have that smash whenever you want?
 
How much time do y'all spend a day texting or talking to broads, any position or role on your roster. What your total time commitment looking like?

I've been on some other stuff lately man. Any time not spent following my passions and getting better feels like a waste.

Literally gotta force myself to put in any effort in terms of communication, I'd rather be working.
Same here

I tried to juggle 3 chicks a couple years ago and it was a failure. Between full time work and trying to perfect my craft on the pitch, it was damn near impossible. My off days were usually spent sleeping in between the 2-a-day training sessions. A few of them got mad as hell at me, cause I wouldn't txt them all day. I'm actually out there putting in work, I can't be on my phone all day.
 
Same here

I tried to juggle 3 chicks a couple years ago and it was a failure. Between full time work and trying to perfect my craft on the pitch, it was damn near impossible. My off days were usually spent sleeping in between the 2-a-day training sessions. A few of them got mad as hell at me, cause I wouldn't txt them all day. I'm actually out there putting in work, I can't be on my phone all day.
They would get mad at you for not texting even when you let them know that you're at work and busy?
 
Yea I rather not waste my time, with their bland conversations, keep smashing that one lol

What are you looking for if you have that smash whenever you want?
a female that makes you want to forget other chicks existed... I've only felt that way a couple times... that don't come around too often .. most of these chicks are so disposable it's crazy..
 
 
As much as I try, I just can't do it.

But I agree that you definitely need to be speaking to more than one woman these days. I try to limit myself to three.

I honestly don't even have the energy half the time to hold half-assed conversations where I have to pretend to be interested, though. Dating got me jaded, bros.
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This is too damn true.

I'm tired just from having to keep my game up.
 
How much time do y'all spend a day texting or talking to broads, any position or role on your roster. What your total time commitment looking like?

I've been on some other stuff lately man. Any time not spent following my passions and getting better feels like a waste.

Literally gotta force myself to put in any effort in terms of communication, I'd rather be working.
Same here

I tried to juggle 3 chicks a couple years ago and it was a failure. Between full time work and trying to perfect my craft on the pitch, it was damn near impossible. My off days were usually spent sleeping in between the 2-a-day training sessions. A few of them got mad as hell at me, cause I wouldn't txt them all day. I'm actually out there putting in work, I can't be on my phone all day.

I hear you man. Some women for real get jealous when you invest your time into things other than them. :lol: :smh:
 
Its funny this came up bc I was just thinking about finding me another go to prospect.

Nowadays u gotta have 2 or 3 star players on your team u can rely on the clutch, at the same time staying under your salary cap.

My pockets kinda small so I dont have the cap space for the superstar baddies, gotta work thru the draft or deal with the mid level exception types.
 
If you single you need a couple of options to hold you down. Just don't go for broke ya feel me. These women will strip you blind on some well it was nice knowing you.

But explore homie try different kind of women, being single was great just off the experiences and meeting women who open ya mind to worlds you don't know much about.
 
The purpose of being single is to be A) friends with benefits, or B) one night stands. Nothing to be said here. Don't settle down, until all those desires to trick have left your system.
 
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Personally, I wouldn't talk to 2 women looking for something serious because that's committing too much time. I also let them know from jump that I'm not looking for something serious r/t me just getting out of a LT relationship. Now if they choose to think they can make me "change my mind" then it's on them, but at least I was real upfront. 

I'm 30 btw (thinks back to my 19 yr old days on this forum lol)
 
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Guys put this in perspective:  

Some of you dont want to talk to mulitple women for moral reasons, and I respect that. Others dont see how you manage all the personalities.  I understand that.  Others still don't want to do it off the assumption that they may find that "one" and dont want to ruin it.  I can relate to that.

But have yall ever really thought about how many men a women may have talking to her at any particular time?

Most women have a man to talk to, a man they're smashing, a man that gives them rides, a play friend, a guy shes been cool with since way back when, hang out buddies, coworkers, social media friends, college buddies, etc.  We all know this.  Now she may say there's nothing serious going on, but these are men we're talking about, and every one of them is looking to smash ultimately.

U have to understand that a woman sees nothing wrong with this.  As a matter of fact, most women who are dating actually believe that its ok to date multiple men at the same time with the expectation one of them will end up being Mr Right.

What Im trying to say is that most women see the male/female relationship dynamic like an episode of the bachelorette.  They actually feel like they can find a life partner by weeding out the hoards of men they exchange information with.  So they dont mind talking to different men at a time, from all walks of life.  What they will tell you is that there is no intention, but if "something happens," they will roll with it.  They set it up so that there's always a man available, and they use that "maybe one day my true king will come forward" spiel as a way to justify it.

I say all that to say, if you're a single man, and you're only talking to one woman, you're most definitely gonna get played.  Talking to mulitiples at least gives you leverage, and combats loneliness when that "one" starts to drop off.  

Dating in 2017 is like looking for a job.  Even if you find a dream job you want, that dream job may not want you, so to cover your own ***** its best to have mulitple prospects, for your own sake.

Ok thats my sermon for the day lol.
 
Gave my number to 2 chicks in one night.

One started texting me.

Wasn't sure which one it was :lol:

Almost slipped too

Put my NT detective on and figured out which one it was. I would've preferred the other one :smh:
 
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