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So I went on my girls laptop today and her Facebook was open and it was a message she sent to her ex. It was basically saying she missed him but she needed to let him know how she used to feel and wanted closure. I called her and asked why she was messaging him and if she ever did anything with him. She told me they met up about 7 months ago to see each other cus he was moving to Arizona. She was sad cus they were real close and they ended up kissing at the park. After that she left right away and hasnt seen him since. They still texted each other alot after this happened. I saw her phone records and asked whose number this was she text alot and she told me it was his. I said I didnt like her texting her ex so she stopped. This was before I even knew they had kissed. So now I found out she kissed him and still kept in contact 7 months later. What would you do? I love her and I know she loves me but the difference is I would never put my self in the situation she put herself in. We live together and were planning on getting married next year. Now I dont know what to do. I didnt have to much trust her in before and now im going to have even less. Im hurt more than anything that if I never would of seen the message she never wouldve told me.