Recent content by hughtavious

yea i know all that about the username and IP. i'm really not trying to hide anything. don't really care if they read it or not. i just didn't want my regular name out there, in case it gave anything personal away. i wasn't trying to take crazy precautions is what i'm saying. in terms of...

again thanks for this. to be honest theres a sad part about this. and i think it took me some time to get my head straight to see. i'm not ok now i'm still heartbroken and it was amplified by the stress of a decision. but i'm a little better and i'm coming to terms with the fact that this might...

thanks homie. i feel like this may have been something i needed to hear.

you're probably right lol but i couldn't care less at this point. almost would rather them be reading it anyway btw thank you all for the responses and insight it helps bouncing this stuff off of other people

they did. they called me in for questioning twice with a court stenographer. they assign an investigator to your case and after it was over he walked me out because i had told them what it's been doing to me personally. i asked him exactly who he was and he we had a brief conversation within...

lol no they're not terrorists. i would hope terrorists get a lot longer than 3 years

yea they do surveillance. i don't have proof but phone taps as well. the job isn't, but the people who oversee is a form of the FBI pretty much. i can't put into words how much they dictate your personal life. what's it's done to me mentally in terms of coming between someone you love is...

the thing is that i'm not the one that cares about the weddings or events and stuff like that. i care about her and only her, i feel my relationship is more important than "one big party". she said she's the only child and only grandchild and that she wants to have a wedding it's something...

in terms of the first part, if we were to be broken up and then they gave me the job based on that...and then down the road got back together they would find out and i would be forced to leave the job.

i appreciate all the responses. i just want to reiterate the fact and hopefully get some insight on the family aspect of it. i'm looking at the future possibilities of having to leave people of of important events regardless of whether i'm employed or not. i'm talking the wedding...

the application process for this job wasn't available until the time i applied. it's offered every so often. i won't know if i have the job until the summer. my hearing is in june and the can take up to 30 days to make a decision. seeing as though her father is the reason for the hold up...

i would have married her had things not turned out this way. up until now it wasn't a guarantee her dad would be a problem. but after having my attorney reach out to them, he basically said if they want to make it an issue they can. not saying i still wouldn't marry her, i just can't see how to...

I've thought about that. the job does exist in other states with less stringent rules at least for my employment. but it still affects my father, cousin and friends who wouldn't be relocating

i'll preface this by saying that i know there's probably a more fitting place to present this especially on the internet. niketalk means a lot to me i have been a member for about 15 years now. it's my solace. so for anyone taking the time to read this, comment or not, i appreciate you. as i...

alwas sad to see a tv personality from your youth pass away. rip