I feel this. I feel pre social media, women were considered "the prize". We chased them, courted them etc. Now men are taking women off pedestals and putting themselves on it and now the response from women is "he thinks he's the prize" or "men want us to chase them so bad" etc
Men dont want...
I'm a guy that's intellectual, cool, athletic/in-shape, successful, ambitious, going places in life, not bad looking, respectful, protective, strong when needed, sensitive when needed, expressive, self-confident, and can deal with adversity and come out on top anyway.