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[verynecessary]

Originally Posted by gatorad3

my voice when I talk is like super low that I have to repeat myself couple times for people to hear me

i hate that... being a soft-spoken guy with a deep voice. it still happens to me once in a while, and it's frustrating as hell, especiallywhen ppl say "stop mumbling." makes you want to bust them in the nose

you have to force yourself to project more... your voice, your intentions, your personality. it takes some energy, but it's like exercise. you'll beable to work up to a point where you can sustain it.

stop putting so much importance on what other people think, and more on what you think, and it'll be easier to say it.

 

[c5a5d5a5]

chances are, you will grow out of it

if not you may need counselling

 

[the takeover]

Grow a pair

 

[ajchick23]

Honestly just start out small. For example..

Maybe sit next to some people in class and strike up a conversation.

you: Hi. how are you? I'm ___. *smile*
person(s): good hey im ___
you: so where you from? major? etc..

It may sound obvious..but RELAX think before you speak..don't try to force humor.

Practice eye contact/smiling/etc with people you know or in the mirror..

Chew gum too..because nobody wants to make friends with somebody that has bad breath.

 

[phillypg1]

 

[daemacho]

i would think once you lost that gut and were able to see ya +@%@, you'd get some confidence. Guess not.

 

[dakingii]

damn yall dudes are mad immature

 

[sir rob a lot]

Originally Posted by 23MichaelJordan45

Originally Posted by Rico x Hood

Conversate isn't word.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/conversate

You must have missed..... Usage: slang

The proper verb of Conversation is converse.

 

[boogie bwoy]

first thing you need to learn is how to loosen up man. w/out the juice. smile when you conversate esp. w/ females. secondly learn to laugh @ urself. you seemto take yourself a lil'

serious. laugh. a great + for social conversations as it will prob. shed you from being soft-spoken to projecting ur voice when conversating. it'll taketime but you'll get out of ur shell.
o 'n congrats losing 100+.

 

[nationaltruckerdave]

Congrats on losing the weight, but being fat has nothing to do with getting girls.. I get enough girls and I'm fat myself.. Just open up bro

 

[nationaltruckerdave]

Congrats on losing the weight, but being fat has nothing to do with getting girls.. I get enough girls and I'm fat myself.. Just open up bro.

 

[ktaylor]

Originally Posted by 23MichaelJordan45

Originally Posted by Rico x Hood

Conversate isn't word.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/conversate

damn son.

 

[jose cansec0]

YNS my man...

 

[eight2one]

just start acting like you do when youre drunk.

 

[aubstuh86]

theres a plethora of these creatures that are single, have at it.



nah congrats on losing weight tho, u got nothin to lose... are u not confident even after u lost weight?

 

[that guy]

Originally Posted by 18key

I used to be quiet. Just start speaking your mind more. Whatever comes, speak it. It's always nice to have more than 2 people carry a group conversation. Eventually it will become natural, and you wont have problems anymore

This

 

[k2theablam]

Read this book. Seriously.

 

[greyscalemethod]

Used to be the same way 2 years ago. Opened up, found a circle of friends with the same interests, and now I have no problems. I'm still quiet from time totime, but only around those I don't like/get along with, cause I might say the wrong thing.

 

[razzle dazzle]

Originally Posted by Iansmk

pics or your still fat

Nah, but OP said he lost 100 lbs... Post pics, we'll decide what's best for you

 

[ptrakarn23]

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Read this book. Seriously.

how long is this book? anybody got a copy they wouldnt mind selling?

 

[amberelise04]

^ That's a GREAT literary resource! You should definitely read it.

 

[Nujavez]

Thanks yall for the advice\help, applying the stuff ya'll say here in everyday life and SLOWLY improving myself especially at my work. Will try toget that book, only $9 on amazon.com. I would post pics but I know some ppl on here... maybe when there's a PYP... wheneer that'll happen and maybeya'll remember my SN and this topic.