ASIDE FROM BEING SOMEWHAT UNATTRACTIVE, WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?? (ANOTHER THREAD ABOUT GIRLS)

Lockheed

Lockheed

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I'm far from the best looking guy. Hell I'm probably the only guy in my family that cant get girls. It's crazy. My peers smoke, drink, dont workout and look good as hell. I don't smoke or drink but I'm downright atrocious. Like what it is? I eat like crap and masturbate fairly often I'll admit. Man like earlier today this chick that I was introduced to by her mom has been acting kind of snobby since then. Like as we were leaving to go home it seemed she just couldn't stand being next me. Like wtf. What can I do to fix this?!?! Will exercising help??? I know eating healty will. I deleted all my ****ing porn too (all 2 TB of it). What's up yall talk to me. I want girls. And please dont say some corny bull**** like "looks dont matter" because in this day and age it totally does. This ain't the 90s anymore.
 
TURBO UNO said:
You should change up the wardrobe, maybe your old look isn’t helping you. Also, don’t be afraid to smile at women. Doesn’t matter if you have zero plans to holler at them, believe me a smile opens doors.
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They look away instantly. I dont get the chance to.
 
If you're unattractive due to being overweight, then you gotta lose that weight to gain that confidence and girls will catch on. If you're just physically unattractive, then just focus on your personality and make girls laugh lol

Charisma, confidence, and good hygiene would be stuff I'd focus on if you can't change your looks. Also don't be negative - what if that girl today couldn't stand being next to you because she was insecure herself? Also, are you picky? Like are you asking chicks out that are like 5-6/10 or are you trying for like dime pieces?
 
You need to change your attitude son.
Go out there like it’s game 7 and play to win.
It’s all about confidence, all youse gotta do is imagine in your head you already smashed whatever gurl in front of you. Play it cool and stop acting weird, you don’t have to bring up you don’t smoke or drink all the time. Get a new haircut, go to the gym and start loving ya self famo. Then smash that gurl who you say is snobby, next time whip it out on the way home. Show her who really snobby outchea
 
Gotta go to places where there’s the most girls and maximize opportunities. It’s a numbers game. I have a boy who’s overweight so it’s tough for him to bag chicks but he also goes nowhere that there are girls so dudes been single forever.

if you’re a college student, go to events and parties, volunteer, etc

if you’re past college age or not in school, go out every Saturday to a bar or club, go to concerts, and so on.

you gotta put yourself out there. Be ambitious. Make the first move. Practicing talking to girls will only make you better at it. There’s no magic answer. You gotta find what you’re good at it and capitalize on it.

If you’re funny make her laugh. If you’re smart, find a girl you can talk to about smart people stuff. You a nerd talk about nerdy stuff til you find a chick who’s into that. Everyone is good at different things when it comes to socializing with women.
 
Lockheed said:
They look away instantly. I dont get the chance to.
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Not all look away, in fact I’m pretty sure YOU’RE the one to look away first. I’m starting to think you have a problem with being shy/making eye contact and you’re upset now that girls haven’t thrown themselves at you. Trust that not every girl is going to fall for you, not all girls are lusting after dudes like that BUT.....you have to stay focused and follow through with eye contact while smiling.

I’ve made girls smile walking towards them while not even talking to them, simply having a convo with my 12 year old nephew. The girl thought I was smiling at her when really my nephew said something funny and I just happen to face her direction. Trust me, smile no matter what and wait to see their reaction. If she’s receptive then proceed with the chit chat.
 
Being attractive or unattractive is more than just looks.

Looks is one of the ways you can be attractive. You already failed in that so try something else.
 
Start off with women on your level (being as though you have confidence issues) I would’ve said never feel like any woman is out of your league but, you haven’t met that level yet, I presume.

HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR! Make sure your well groom, have good hygiene.

TALK WITH CONVICTION! A woman tell if you’re insecure or up-tight.

Although you may insecure, do not let a woman use or take of advantage of you. Don’t offer gifts or money. You just have to build confidence bro. Psyche yourself into have a positive and encouraging mindset.
 
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