Anyone feel like they don't really got any true friends anymore?

Discussion in 'General' started by 22stylez, Mar 1, 2009.

  1. 22stylez

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    i feel like i'm growing apart from all my homies. i dunno if everyone is growing up or if i'm just growing apart from them. i don't feel the samechillen with them anymore and the past two nights i've been just staying at home. part of me is alright with that part of me is like damnnn i wish i hadsome real homies cause i just dont feel the "true friends" i got right now are really true to me. they seem kinda fake to me[​IMG] i dunno if anyone else feels the same way but this is what i'm feelingright now. some of my "homies" are acting real shady right now they barely hit me up and the @$!##@ part is i'm only 21. i don't go to schoolanymore as i already am working full time and i dunno

    i think i'ma just start chillen with this one girl i'm beginning to talk to.
     
  2. chris steez

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    Don't be so dependant on your "friends"...i know what it feels like though...trust me. I hate when i ask what they going to do on sat or fri andthey say they dont know. I ask them to chill..."they'll see". Nex thing you know they chillin out somewhere and dont even hit you up...I hate it.
     
  3. westillballin

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    i feel what you saying. keep it 100 with them and let them know how you feeling about their actions. but like said above don't be dependent on them. Justdo you.
     
  4. timelessflight

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    Most of my good friends are married, so I don't really bother to ask to hang out. Lately I've been on chill mode, pretty much distant fromeverybody(women as well) and for some reason I like it.
     
  5. rellnye

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    Literally took the words out of my mouth. Its #@$*%! up too.

    I just go to the movies solo every other weekend or watch a game.
     
  6. 22stylez

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    exactly what they do to me sometimes yea on some nights i'll just be chillen at home watchin a rented movie or just wastin my time on thetube. or on NT
     
  7. jawnyquest

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    never had true friends.. never wanted em
    i got a bunch of flaky, flipfloppin associates.. and it's fine by me..
     
  8. athievingenius

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    nice avy o.p
     
  9. i nasmatic i

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    I'm in the same situation.

    Most of it is due to me being a bit of a loner (for the most part) though.
     
  10. ubuibeme

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    I have one true friend who I can call on for anything...all the others are associates.. [​IMG]
     
  11. infamousod

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    poor baby

    NT will always be your friend
     
  12. usa pride4life

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    Some of y'all soundin real bitter [​IMG]
     
  13. northparkblind

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    Count me in.

    I feel like i cant trust anyone.

    but i <3 NT.
     
  14. 22stylez

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    how do yall deal with somethin like that? like some of yall seem cool about not having any true friends. i mean i'm beginning to feel the same way too buti dunno in the back of my head i'm wondering what i'ma do on friday/saturday nights or special events etc.
     
  15. n3ff 3000

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  16. tmukg21

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    need to work harder to evolve a few into true friends [​IMG]
    time will tell
     
  17. coolnificent

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  18. finnns2003

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    yep.
     
  19. timelessflight

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    not everybody is sociable or that it's just hard for folks to trust other people.
     
  20. sneakerking757

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    NT > my "friends".
     
  21. 23kidd

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  22. rafiki zeeki

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    man, feel sorry for u lonely guys out there...talking to yourselves...and having AIM convo's with yourself...[​IMG]
    come on atleast talk to SmarterChild...
     
  23. chiqga

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    I feel lucky to have a couple of true friends. [​IMG]
     
  24. gregzzy23

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    I'm glad to have 5 people I consider true friends, 2 of them I consider brothers almost. Every other person out there is an associate to me...
     
  25. ballinamillion1

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    I have maybe a few 1-2 that I can call on for anything, and like a cousin that I can call on for anything minus the fact that this dude said Happy Birthday tome 1 week late. He was like u mad I was like hell naw man u cool. I admit that I had a little bit of lawrys salt after that. But in college A LOT of ppl arekinda nerdy, and the dudes I party with are extremely flakey.... So I choose to be by myself 50-60% of the time.