ANYONE NOT ENJOY SEX ANYMORE/AS MUCH? (MATURE DISCUSSION PLEASE)

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by HarlemToTheBronx

Originally Posted by MisterP0315

I'm mad I was pushing the start button.

 

[br00klynrebel]

The ONLY kinda pr0n i watch is chicks masturbatin. but seriously I think i have the same problem. I end up closing my eyes while beatin shorties and thinkingabout some asian chick masturbating and her patticake creamin. that usually does it for me. Damn I think I need an asian chick in my life.

 

[timelessflight]

never gets old for me. I'm a nympho and love $##*!

 

[eight2one]

sex is amazing!

 

[sloanboy]

Originally Posted by jgalan713

Naw bro, I still enjoy it as much as the first day.
Sex is something that doesn't get old to me.

 

[keithahundred]

Originally Posted by JayHood23

Originally Posted by Keithahundred

I don't see how sex a drive can deminish from fappin, maybe I'm just a nympho. Weekend girl do you fap

keith you a real thirsty cat word to the sig, you take no prisoners

Yeah man I know it's sad LOL, I wonder if any females from atl is on this joint.... Hmmmmm

 

[deletedelete]

i don't enjoy sex anymore and it's definitely not from an excess of it

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i don't enjoy sex anymore and it's definitely not from an excess of it

thas cuz the dudes you mess with dont know how to put it down properly

 

[henz0]

Originally Posted by Sorkoram

Originally Posted by MR MONDAY NIIGHT

 

[deletedelete]

Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i don't enjoy sex anymore and it's definitely not from an excess of it

thas cuz the dudes you mess with dont know how to put it down properly

i don't mess with anyone

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i don't enjoy sex anymore and it's definitely not from an excess of it

I'll give you that 3+ hours of good loving---my ailment is a curse for me and a gift for the ladies.

 

[kickinheadz1010]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY

i don't enjoy sex anymore and it's definitely not from an excess of it

I'll give you that 3+ hours of good loving---my ailment is a curse for me and a gift for the ladies.

Sex is about procreation and intimacy..not about running a marathon or setting records.

Anyways, your problem may have to do with your perception of the act. GL with that.

 

[keedasneak23]

Originally Posted by UTVOL23

Originally Posted by Kn0wledgeable

no. stop watching porn and masterbating so much and you'll be ok.

on a side note: it be hurting me when i'm going inside a chick cause some of em dont get wet enough. feels like im rubbing against sandpaper or something true story. suggestions would be nice on how to get the Vajayjay to splash waterfalls. Real talk i thought it would hurt chicks too when this type of situation occurred but i asked shorty last week if it hurts her and she said hell no it feels good....so sucks for me

Shes probably lyin to ya so as not to hurt your feelings. When its dry its not good for anyone. Step your game up its on you to get her drippin wet. Shes not wet cause shes not into it.

Oh how right u^ are. Me & my homegirls have talk bout this b4. When're as girls ain't as wet as should be we all usually said it was horrible sexor we weren't that much into or he just had no type of foreplay game smh.....sad but true

 

[br00klynrebel]

Yo some girls just arent blessed with that wet box. nothing but lube can save em.

 

[rightguard]

im pretty sure the only thing that will stray any man away from sex for a brief stint is if he gets a close encounter with receiving an std or having apregnancy scare where he is not ready to have a baby......then after the scare is over the hormones come back

 

[keithahundred]

Some of chics are just dry straight up one moment they a waterfall the next it's like a sand storm, maybe because of the rubber though. When them thingsget dry I think my man hood be getting choked. KEEDASNEEK IS THAT YOU IN THE AVY

 

[smedroc]

Originally Posted by abeautifulhaze

Your body ain't meant to be constantly stimulated by your hand and turned on by the most extreme and realistic images of sex out there.

Our sexual drive is perfected like an Italian sportscar, evolved for the survival of our species.

When you start fapping and OD'd on porn, you Fin up your whole sex cycle. Changing your sex drive and imprinting stuff on your brain thats hard to get off. Even LL in his prime got addicted to porn and it messed him up. So it don't matter how much buns you getting....You're making yourself chemically dependent on masturbation and porno.

Plus you really turning yourself into a *#%**. Selling yourself short....at the end of the day you just made love to your hand and spit your kids, your essence onto a napkin or w/e. Thats not whats up.

S_ is like digital drugs and our generation is hooked. Part of the reason cats are so messed up mentally and socially nowadays.

I'm not trying to be no Saint or stand on a soapbox...cause y'all already know I get it in with the strippers and such and I had a HD full thanks to BHS...just telling my dudes like it is. Take care of ya joint don't beat it up and trick it nh.

You will feel a world of difference.

true story

but still, when i dont fap for a while i start beastin over anything and everything

i need a nut not to restore clear thinking

ima try it though f' it.... No fapping for 1 month!!!! who's with me?!?!

(nh)

 

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by Faint Dj3

Sounds like its time for you to fall in love....I swear it makes sex 10x better when you "making love" vs "smashing"...
but then again, NT is full of youngins who dont know what im talking about

/thread

 

[oidreez]

wow at the advice in here

 

[dynasty raider]

Originally Posted by Smedroc

Originally Posted by abeautifulhaze

Your body ain't meant to be constantly stimulated by your hand and turned on by the most extreme and realistic images of sex out there.

Our sexual drive is perfected like an Italian sportscar, evolved for the survival of our species.

When you start fapping and OD'd on porn, you Fin up your whole sex cycle. Changing your sex drive and imprinting stuff on your brain thats hard to get off. Even LL in his prime got addicted to porn and it messed him up. So it don't matter how much buns you getting....You're making yourself chemically dependent on masturbation and porno.

Plus you really turning yourself into a *#%**. Selling yourself short....at the end of the day you just made love to your hand and spit your kids, your essence onto a napkin or w/e. Thats not whats up.

S_ is like digital drugs and our generation is hooked. Part of the reason cats are so messed up mentally and socially nowadays.

I'm not trying to be no Saint or stand on a soapbox...cause y'all already know I get it in with the strippers and such and I had a HD full thanks to BHS...just telling my dudes like it is. Take care of ya joint don't beat it up and trick it nh.

You will feel a world of difference.

true story

but still, when i dont fap for a while i start beastin over anything and everything

i need a nut not to restore clear thinking

ima try it though f' it.... No fapping for 1 month!!!! who's with me?!?!

(nh)

I wouldn't have said it all like that, but it is true.

Even when you're in a relationship like me, don't touch yourself for a while and when your girl does something even slightly sexy you're ready tojump her, heart racing and all. I'm trying to tone down my addiction a little especially since I have a never ending supply of living breathing sexsleeping next to me every night.

 

[r31j23]

thanks to this thread imma stop fapping. damn i dont know how imma go to sleep though

 

[noslickremarks]

Sex is overrated..... Less sex usually = better relationship in the long run because your partner may become uninteresting.....
It's like eating the same food everyday.... you get tired of the same thing..... eat it less and you will appreciate it more when you get it

 

[definition of dopeness]

Man i'm going through this now. I know i enjoy it still, i'm just burnt out on it. For a long period in my life sex = oxygen, but now i can go withoutit for days. And i've been in a relationship with my girl for damn near 4 years, and she knows how high my sexual appetite used to be and now it's noteven a fraction of that. My girl was a virgin when i met her, now she on her Spike Lee $$!!, on some she's gotta have it type $$!!, and i just don'tever feel like goin' in. I don't know what it is, my people say it's stress, but i dont feel stressed in the least bit. Hopefully it's just aphase or some $$!!. Cause i don't see how anybody can get tired of sex...

 

[throwedindagame]

I've gone through that stage OP is referring too. I think hes putting it out lightly, but I know what your getting at. You can be with the baddest chick inthe world and %$** just be

. It's all in your head. Forstarters though:

Make sure your girl is either giving you head or at least some form of foreplay otherwise its not happening. A lot of girls expect dudes to be"ready" at any instant, but there are alot of factors that can play into this not happening. As men get older, a lot of us develop external stressfulwhich can subconsciously effect our performance. If your OD worried about getting into Med school for example, you probably wont be smashing thatnight

. This happens to a lot of guys. Most dudes lie about it or try anact hard...puns intended. Remove all stressors from your life if possible and make sure the girls your with aint just "lying dead" If your stillhaving trouble......

My advice

Stop watching porn for at least 6 months, in combination with masturbation especially and go from there. Porn really messes with your both of your heads. A lotof girls will just sit and wait and will expect you to make all the moves which is fine. At this point its all you. Eliminate porn x masturbation combo and youwill see a difference. Other nters have gone into depth on this subject so I will leave it at that, However:

Masturbating to Porn seems to be the biggest problem with dudes who go through this. Your brain needs to be rewired again.

Many doctors say this problem was less common in young men before the advent broadband. True story

Other issues
Anti-Anxiety medicnes (if your on them). I was on some that threw my game off. Get of these ASAP. Either switch to a different med or just don't take emand deal with your anxiety naturally.

Stress - See above. Ironically the anti anxiety and stress are paradoxical. You take the anxiety medicnes to deal with anxiety from strees. So I dunno.....

Talk to your partner: this is alot easier with a girlfriend so i suggest you make moves towards getting one. Jumpoffs will not give you the time of day if yournot performing. A girlfriend will be more understanding

 

[teamjordan79]

this happened to me too.... i stopped watching porn and fapping when i was with my girl, but now that i dont get to see her for a while im back to old habitssmh im gonna have to stop soon