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- Mar 2, 2010
A few months ago I broke up with my g/f of 3 yrs; it had turned into a long distance thing, so its demise was all too predictable. Unjustifiable negative banter occurred post break up.
It got really hostile, then in like Feb we talked but it clicked that there was zero point in talking to a girl I literally may never see again (she refused to see me) - I mean someone might as well be dead to me if I don't ever get to see them. And I am not going to give some girl all kinds of intel if I don't get to see her naked in return.
But then a few days ago I found an old letter from her, prob from about a year ago and it made me reminisce (going thru withdrawal
). So I reached out to her via email and we've been emailing/bbming/phoning back and forth for a couple days; more or less having constructive break up discussions.
My question is, is there a point? She lives 1,000 miles away, are John Legend "Another Agains" a viable option? "Oh I love it, but I hate it, she's my favorite again." Or maybe you have to be a multi platinum RnB singer to have girls let you fly in and poke for a few nights w/o strings? Right now we have bigger priorities than a relationship, but perhaps we keep in touch, she stays in shape, and in 2013 I let her pick something out at Tiffany & Co. I just want to keep her close, who knows what the future holds...
It got really hostile, then in like Feb we talked but it clicked that there was zero point in talking to a girl I literally may never see again (she refused to see me) - I mean someone might as well be dead to me if I don't ever get to see them. And I am not going to give some girl all kinds of intel if I don't get to see her naked in return.
But then a few days ago I found an old letter from her, prob from about a year ago and it made me reminisce (going thru withdrawal
My question is, is there a point? She lives 1,000 miles away, are John Legend "Another Agains" a viable option? "Oh I love it, but I hate it, she's my favorite again." Or maybe you have to be a multi platinum RnB singer to have girls let you fly in and poke for a few nights w/o strings? Right now we have bigger priorities than a relationship, but perhaps we keep in touch, she stays in shape, and in 2013 I let her pick something out at Tiffany & Co. I just want to keep her close, who knows what the future holds...