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i think im a good dude you treat me well and ill treat you the same.
are you a natural good hearted person?
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what a dumb #+#!@Originally Posted by tim teufel
was having this convo with a co worker who likes to lend out money to people just to have the right to talk bad about them behind their backshe feels even tho she talks trash about them that she helps them out so it still makes her a good person. i told her that actually makes her a loser and she stopped talking to me.overall what makes you a good hearted person?
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I am very giving kind loyal trustworthy etc.....but that is what makes me so harsh. I demand/expect a lot out of myself and the sad thing is that others pale in comparison to the standard I set for myself. You cannot project your qualities on to others....they will always let you down and frustrate you. The circle of good genuine people continues to shrink and shrink.
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QFE
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I am not sure what QFE stands for...(forgive me I am old...or feel old), but I will assume you are in agreement, haha. It is a shame that some good people feel the need to stoop down or lower there moral standards to engage with all the fake, heartless, self absorbed people out there who truly don't give an F about anything but themselves.
As I have gotten older I had to limit my interaction with lazy, leech people who take take take but never give in return. I don't mind being used, in the right way and appreciated, the problem comes in when people misuse and abuse one's kindness.
People say I can be harsh...but I simply tell the truth and the fact is the truth hurts some folks and most people enjoy living the lie they do. Ignorance is bliss for some.
As I have gotten older I had to limit my interaction with lazy, leech people who take take take but never give in return. I don't mind being used, in the right way and appreciated, the problem comes in when people misuse and abuse one's kindness.
People say I can be harsh...but I simply tell the truth and the fact is the truth hurts some folks and most people enjoy living the lie they do. Ignorance is bliss for some.
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I'd like to think others think I am, because I do. I like seeing others happy and having a good time. I used to be shy as %#!* and keep to myself, but now I'm all about having a good time and making sure others are doing well themselves, no matter the situation.
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I agreed cause i find myself having certain expectations of human beings and people I know and having to deal with disappointment when those expectations are not met
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What the jesus said. To elaborate, I $$%%%*+ hate people..but I realize that they are just dumb, narrow minded, egotistical, worthless pieces of #$#%..but I also realize that they are so dumb they don't even know it.
I tolerate their stupidity, mostly as a recreational activity because I get enjoyment out of seeing just how outrageously moronic and pathetic they are.
Outside the cruel satisfaction I get out of that, I am nice out of sympathy.
Natural, free flowing, sympathy.
I tolerate their stupidity, mostly as a recreational activity because I get enjoyment out of seeing just how outrageously moronic and pathetic they are.
Outside the cruel satisfaction I get out of that, I am nice out of sympathy.
Natural, free flowing, sympathy.
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Depends who you ask.
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I'd like to think so... I don't hold grudges, i don't get up tight about meaningless things...
I generally talk politely with people, especially those who are older than me. I do charity work
about once a month and give to charities regularly. And i surprised myself last week when i found a wallet
in the parking lot on campus with a couple hundred bucks, and didn't even think twice about taking it... turned
it right in to the campus police... so yeah i think i do ok. i get irritated with certain people though, and i'm sometime a bit
stereotypical. I don't always give people a fair chance before i judge them. And i'm not all that patient, but i'm working on that.
I generally talk politely with people, especially those who are older than me. I do charity work
about once a month and give to charities regularly. And i surprised myself last week when i found a wallet
in the parking lot on campus with a couple hundred bucks, and didn't even think twice about taking it... turned
it right in to the campus police... so yeah i think i do ok. i get irritated with certain people though, and i'm sometime a bit
stereotypical. I don't always give people a fair chance before i judge them. And i'm not all that patient, but i'm working on that.
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too bad you can't say that about your intelligence
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Yeah, and I think it gets me friendzoneded alot
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Yup thats how I am but people try to take advantage of my good hearted nature/ kindness for weakness
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Depends on who you ask...but I genuinely know I am.
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i was a **** a cold hearted %@% hole when i was younger. now im just a mellowed out $%%%@. im like george foreman and how he transformed from a cold hearted killer to a good hearted smart dude..
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Im a nice dude.....
but turn into a jerk when I notice peeps taking advantage
but turn into a jerk when I notice peeps taking advantage
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im good...
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Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
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I agreed cause i find myself having certain expectations of human beings and people I know and having to deal with disappointment when those expectations are not met
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Yes and it kind of sucks..
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to people I care about I am
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Everyone sees themselves as a good person. Even the 'bad' ones do some mental gymnastics and still come to the conclusion that they are good. Asking people is pointless. And the idea that you are 'naturally' good, as if it's something innate, is false. We're all human, fully capable of being good or bad. It's our understanding of good (or morality) that differs. Like in OPs case, backbiting to her isn't wrong, when to most people it is. So she probably still sees herself as a good person.
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i am....and sometimes it bites me in the ***
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i feel like im a good guy with some bad tendencies. I'm not perfect.
