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Ok NT I have a dilemma.
My parents are seriously considering adopting a child from Haiti. I think it's awesome and I know they could change a child's life and I love them forbeing the selfless, giving people that they are. My initial reaction was YES, OF COURSE!
But now I'm sitting here thinking of all the pros and cons, and I am honestly torn. I feel horrible for even being torn, because this is a homeless,parent-less child.
My main concerns are:
1) Money. They're not poor, but they're not rich. I don't want my parents struggling, and I know a child would put them in a tight situation. Iwant them to live comfortably and not have to worry about money.
2) They are almost 50. That's no age to bring in a young child, IMO. They should be thinking about retirement and such, not about starting the parenthoodcycle over again, right?
ahhh this is hard. Am I just being selfish? What are your thoughts, NT?
My parents are seriously considering adopting a child from Haiti. I think it's awesome and I know they could change a child's life and I love them forbeing the selfless, giving people that they are. My initial reaction was YES, OF COURSE!
But now I'm sitting here thinking of all the pros and cons, and I am honestly torn. I feel horrible for even being torn, because this is a homeless,parent-less child.
My main concerns are:
1) Money. They're not poor, but they're not rich. I don't want my parents struggling, and I know a child would put them in a tight situation. Iwant them to live comfortably and not have to worry about money.
2) They are almost 50. That's no age to bring in a young child, IMO. They should be thinking about retirement and such, not about starting the parenthoodcycle over again, right?
ahhh this is hard. Am I just being selfish? What are your thoughts, NT?