Do you guys wait a few minutes to REspond to text messages from girls?

snow pl0w

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One of my friend said he does this to create interest and not look too available (insecure much?), lol. I told him if a girl is hitting you up she'salready interested. The only time I really wait is if I'm legitimately busy doing something. But there are times I just choose not to respond, and maybeend up reviewing the convo the next day and reconsidering talk to them again. And if a girl took too long to hit me back on a frequent basis I'd delete her#. With everyone using 3g data BlackBerries and iPhones there's really no need to be stalling on the phone. I have no problem showing off my qwerty wordsper minute and shooting texts/bbms back and forth at record paces, lol.
 
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I usually wait a minute or 2 but that's only because I like to review what I wrote and make sure it's good.
 
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na i respond as i recieve them...if im paying attention to my phone at the time
 

snow pl0w

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Originally Posted by Lazy B

Yeah responding too fast makes you seem mad thirsty.

Not really, but actually seeing the message and waiting to respond makes you an insecure lame. I mean if you're trying to be a funny man and toss her ajoke I can see saving a draft maybe take a second to craft something epic..but normal convo..you see the incoming..then start staring at your clock until acertain amount of time goes by..lol you = laaaaame. Don't be surprised if shorty gets hip to your middle school tactics and tells you to kick rocks.
 
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Originally Posted by snow pl0w

Originally Posted by Lazy B

Yeah responding too fast makes you seem mad thirsty.

Not really, but actually seeing the message and waiting to respond makes you an insecure lame. I mean if you're trying to be a funny man and toss her a joke I can see saving a draft maybe take a second to craft something epic..but normal convo..you see the incoming..then start staring at your clock until a certain amount of time goes by..lol you = laaaaame. Don't be surprised if shorty gets hip to your middle school tactics and tells you to kick rocks.
Who does that though? I'm talking about hitting herback 10 seconds after. Wait a few seconds. Don't have the thumb on the send button as soon as you get the incoming. No one said anything about a fewminutes.
 
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I always change the tempo of the conversation,

sometimes fast sometimes slow...... if I take longer to respond I feeel it causes surprise like opening a present lol
 
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Originally Posted by Lazy B

Originally Posted by Elocin023

Originally Posted by Lazy B

Yeah responding too fast makes you seem mad thirsty.

says who?
Well, I can see you're always thirsty. Texting at 3 AM to see "What's up?"
right. You never answered the question though.
Where do ppl come up with this stuff?
 
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no, the #!@* for?
if i'm by the phone when the message comes in then i'll respond.. no reason to stall.
 
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at some of these responses.

I just reply when i get the chance. I dont purposely wait a while and do it, i just text back when i already thought about what im gonna say.
 
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Everyone is on to this little rule already.
Females will appreciate a man who acts natural is not strategizing every minor detail.
 
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I sometimes take 30 mins to write back. I read the text and then I totaly forget about txing.untill I'm like damn how come they haven't respnonded...nI see that I haven txt shhhhhh
 
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