Girl Problem aka Ex Problem. Vol Help Me Out NT.

Discussion in 'General' started by kiiidthrash, Dec 18, 2009.

  1. kiiidthrash

    kiiidthrash

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    I broke up with this one girl a while back(3months)(no pics, my bad NT)

    found out she was a lowkey JO[​IMG], anywho after we broke up. hermyspace page has all this $+* bout new guyS.and now shes in a gang[​IMG] andthat she was recently in jail[​IMG]

    now she homeless.[​IMG],.,,, and went to my aunts house yesterday(where ilived/with her too when she was first homeless) and basically trying "be cool" with them.

    i spoke to my cousin she said her and her parents didnt want to kick her out and be mean, but she was most deffinately not shown love. she left walking talkingbout she was gonna get money too pay her phone

    and prob ho herself out[​IMG][​IMG][​IMG], i HATE this girl, she was just tryna live there again, and tryna play that sad card. but hopefully the fam saw through it THIS time.

    NT, how do i deal with this. i can either tell my girl cousin to "check" her[​IMG]

    restraining order?[​IMG][​IMG][​IMG]

    how do i make em not contact me, my fam and relatives???
    i have not returning any texts/calls for 3 months and she dont get it...
    any other methods???
    please help me out this is gonna ruin my return to cali[​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG]
     
  2. pmighty

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    i didnt read any of that but whenever you put "no pics" in your story......you're not goin to get too many responses fam bro
     
  3. cocolicious

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    I'm not understanding your story.
     
  4. blue23jordan

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    read up to no pics and started typing this reply.
     
  5. bluedeniro

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  6. snsd

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    Why would she go to your aunt's house? She has no relationship with them and you two aren't together anymore so why would your aunt let her stay?

    And you need pics
     
  7. trapmuzik617

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    sig check
     
  8. mistahcookie

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    exactly. tell your aunt to give her the boot son
     
  9. kiiidthrash

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    i think she did that so they can feel sorry for her and let her live there, but they didnt say anything[​IMG].

    my aunt is the nicest.. so she just let her chill there for a bit, then she left.

    how do i get a restraining order??? efff that.[​IMG]
     
  10. charliecontacto

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    Call The Cops and have her kicked out.

    /Thread.
     
  11. biggatree

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    Had to read that three times before I understood any of it.

    First of all, if ya'll were living together, that's no j/o situation. That's a relationship. Especially since your family is involved.

    Secondly, you sound real shook right now. Man up. She's not family. Call her and tell her the deal. You scared of this chick?
     
  12. blaz3n

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  13. kiiidthrash

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    yea they were involed,
    but she was a lowkey JO..found out and damnnn...ever since we broke up, i saw it more[​IMG]
    i dont wanna call her, what if she keeps calling me? i have shunned her three months.
    im afaid she will keep coming back[​IMG] and my aunt being the nicest willjust let her visit....
    also im having a party in jan. and im afaid shes gonna raid it, by calling the cops[​IMG]
     
  14. Master Zik

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    No pics, you're bad?

    %##% you
     
  15. psykho

    psykho Banned

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    I'm guessing your ex looks like a ****
     
  16. kiiidthrash

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    na she doesnt,

    she was one of those girls that looks good, so she starts needing the attention like a needle.
     
  17. knightngale

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    so she's homeless yet has a phone?
     
  18. menacei2is0ciety

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  19. psykho

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    Well, I don't get your story fully.. soo can't really give you advice, except did you learn not to wife JO's? [​IMG]
     
  20. biggatree

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    There's too much 'nice' going on from the sounds of it. She's taking your aunt for a ride. If you really care about your aunt,take care of this NOW.You need to send a clear message to this broad. Don't worry about some party. Put an end to this ASAP.
     
  21. kiiidthrash

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    yea. she needed to pay it, my cousin said it got disconnected while at the house.

    and she left "to go get some money" aka ho'ing herself out [​IMG][​IMG][​IMG]

    how do i send that message though??? ignoring isnt helping.
    and shes a "copcaller" meaning if i sent my cousin, shes gonna call the cops[​IMG]

    she just wont get off the jock SMH
     
  22. biggatree

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    Ignoring will get you nowhere. This girl obviously needs attention, and the less you give her, the more she'll go out of her way to try andget it.

    From the sounds of it, you're a passive aggressive dude. If you fear confrontation, your problem will never be solved.
     
  23. nationaltruckerdave

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    No pics = no help
     
  24. kiiidthrash

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    thanks for ur help fam...
    but i think if i call her let her know wassup she gonna show up one day.
    and im not gonna control myself and backhand this girl[​IMG]
    i just told my girl cousin to tell her she not welcomed anymore.
    hopefully that helps.
    man what the hell she doing showing up to my aunts house[​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG]
     
  25. produccionfrescos

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