I didn't know choosing not to smoke, not be a heaving drinker, and choosing not to download music wa

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  1. fdub

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    This is from a chick I met on Tinder, but we happen to "friend" each other on FB.
    For the record, I never told her I don't go to strip clubs. I told her, I've never been to one. I'm not really angry because rejection to me is becoming to be the norm to me. I just didn't think me choosing not to do what others do was such a bad thing. I'm 28 and still very late on a lot of things that people probably experienced 8-10 years ago(Sheltered). This rejection is a sign that I need to focus on getting in my career(Police officer) and let the women come to me. Now, is choosing not smoke, be a heavy drinker a bad thing these days?
     
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  2. shotsrangout

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    It's a chick off tinder. We really doing this?

    Move on. I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there that like straight edge dudes. Just go look for them.
     
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  3. luckyluchiano

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    Care how tinder chicks feel brehs

     
  4. tr1ll

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    I mean shes single for a reason.....
     
  5. jaypesoz

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    You can't be letting a Tinder chick get you evaluating your life choices :lol:
     
  6. Mark Antony

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    Find someone that aligns with your ideals. She's flawed and knows it, but is not entirely wrong. You would be judging her for doing those things most young adults indulge in, you're judging her now. Those aren't bad qualities to have, but based on your posts I doubt they come from a moral center, more a fear of living life.
     
  7. nazdrowie

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    If you are in MD, I recommend Fuegos for your first strip club, or head out to the block in Baltimore
     
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  8. Mark Antony

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    DMV dudes almost feel like we gotta take this dude under our wing.
     
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  9. fdub

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    I'm not judging her, if she chooses to be a drinker, then so be it. I never told that would never date a chick that drinks. She just assumed that I'm judging her. I mean, it is what it is.. Not changing for anyone.
     
  10. buddhachris

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    you are a mean person [​IMG], fam head to Bazz n Crue in forestville if you want to have an enjoyable first Strip experience

    and why are you worried about heavy drinking and blowing trees if you want to be a fed?
     
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  11. ijumpmani

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    Fuegos *cringe*
     
  12. oidreez

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    Chick looks off anyway... f her

    but back to you, I would need to know a bit about you. Are you that straight laced that you think dl'ing musing is deplorable?
     
  13. sea manup

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    shes just insecure OP, you dont need that drama in your life

    on to the next one 
     
  14. SC kid

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    GIVE HER THE EWD RESPONSE FAMB
     
  15. 1c3m4m

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    I've learned as I got older its not always you, you can be a hell of a guy just looking in the wrong places, like the dude stated above shes single for a reason

    Alot of these women have issues and are very selective, which is not cool because everyone has faults, but in this social network driven age, everyone is looking for that 'perfect' significant other

    Keep trying OP, you will flourish sooner than you think
     
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  16. don adidada

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    I get what youre saying but your coming off judgemental/morally superior. Just gotta tell them "Im cool if you do but I don't."
     
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  17. lamekilla

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    She's letting you know not to waste your time OP. There's nothing wrong with you or your values
     
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  18. fantastic4our

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    This :lol:

    You might be a square but that's okay. Do not let a miscellaneous Tinder broad be the reason you question such things.
     
  19. kabobstyle

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    Ole girl just lost out on her DD for life
     
  20. erupt

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    I don't smoke or download music but if you actually used the word deplorable to describe how you felt about downloading music then I can see why she said that :lol:


    She's a Tinderoni, tho. Don't eem stress it.
     
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