I might have just been friendzoned... Help me cope, NT.

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  1. 18key

    18key

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    Yeah, I think I got friendzoned... HARD. Like, front page of Facebook, comment shown to everyone, freindzoned.
    It sort of went like this...
    Yesterday I went to an alcohol diversion class. From my phone, during the class I post "alcohol diversion class ftl."
    She started the convo with a wall post. We go back and forth a couple times. Then she posts this,
    Her "... I have a hard time imagining you in an alcohol diversion class"
    Me: "Is that cause I'm such a good kid or something? (jokingly)"
    "I dont know... you're (my name) ... you're just too sweet to be bad, haha." (I'm kind of [​IMG]/[​IMG] at this point)

    I see we're both online at this point, so I start a chat, trying to avoid the friendzone with
    "I'm too sweet, huh? I dont know if thats a good thing or a bad thing"
    Her response: "Shut up! Its a good thing"
    After a minute more of talking about that, I follow that up asking how shes been (we hadnt talked in a while) and she logs off. [​IMG][​IMG]

    Did I get friendzoned? I've never dealt with this before NT. I dont know what to do.

    Clifnotes for the lazy people:
    I try to avoid getting friendzoned.
    I lost?
     
  2. cucumbercool

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    keep joking around with the flirting. If you're friendzoned you got no worries.
    "Come over..jk : D...na jk about jk..come over"
     
  3. mjbetch

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    i wouldn't say you're there yet.
     
  4. jumpman247

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    Doesn't sound friendzoned to me.
     
  5. solefood229

    solefood229

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    yea you on the friendzone bus

    1. Your to sweet = not smashing

    2. You send a message and she doesn't reply= YNS

    3. Next you will be good "friends" and she doesn't want to mess up your relationship



    But there are ways to get around this if you put in a lil work
     
  6. enrique23

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    idk, maybe something came up and she had to log off? i wouldnt call you friendzoned yet. you MIGHT still have a shot
     
  7. BaltimoreLove

    BaltimoreLove formerly peterjamesthe3rd

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    not yet.. play your position smart...
     
  8. 18key

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    ^ Thats the same thing I was thinking. One word changed everything. "Sweet." %!#+#, how the *@%@ you know if I'm too sweet when you aint givingme a chance?

    But, if the frist 3 replies are that I'm not fz'd, maybe I can pull this off.
     
  9. geminifly

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    Your not friendzoned, I think something just came up and she had to log off.

    Keep dropping hints and see if she bites and if not then move in.
     
  10. coolnificent

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    For a more accurate assessment pictures must be provided [​IMG]
     
  11. 18key

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    Come on man, first words...
     
  12. jfmartimcdandruff

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    That's not even close to friendzone bro

    keep flirting?
     
  13. nothinafter

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    so you think you're friendzoned because she thinks you're sweet???

    son how old are you?? [​IMG]

    KIDS[​IMG]
     
  14. jackel56

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    friend zone hits me close to heart
     
  15. 18key

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    NothinAfter, Its more than that. It's more, this + she's canceled plans to chill multiple times and we used to work together. Like I said, I'm notsure about this because I HAVE been friendzoned by a girl when she called me sweet. "You're just too nice and sweet for my tastes." [​IMG] Girls not knowing what they want ftl
     
  16. wkn916

    wkn916 formerly l2icel3oi9i6

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    it doesn't look like it's over yet..try again.
     
  17. mr monday niight

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    kill her

    if you cant have her, no one else can
     
  18. yimoney23

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    your not friendzoned yet. keep on trying...
     
  19. be23forlife

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    your in simpzone, on your way to friendzone, man up...get your pimphand strong, see whats really good with her, if nothings crackin, keep it movin...
     
  20. flyasthe sky

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    [​IMG]
    [​IMG] thats real
     
  21. davidisgodly

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    Girl tried to do it to me, I'm not having that so i broke off all ties so I can start new again. I feel like a newborn baby, baby.


    You probably came off as too needy or wanting. You need to sit back and let confidence explore the desired.


    that sounds like friendzone is happening. you ask so much questions. your such an insecure little B.
     
  22. snaggykicks

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    [​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG][​IMG]
     
  23. pmighty

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    that doesnt sound like a "friendzone" to pmighty
     
  24. eight2one

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    you gotta come stronger then that.
     
  25. DownByLaw

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    You deserve to be friendzoned for making a dumb #%$ topic like this.