I'd never thought i'd do this but i need some advice/opinions... (Yes pic)

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  1. rayray84

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    Whatup NT fam,

    Went to a friends bday party on Saturday and it wasnt the best party at all (partly cause i hated a lot of people, but that's another story), but managedto find a few good people and hang out with them for most of the night... When we went outside for a smoke an ex gf from 5 years ago sees me and pulls me asideand says 'OMG, i havent seen you in years' and we start chatting...

    Now, after about 10 mins into the conversation, she starts asking me questions like "How do i compare against the other girls you've sleptwith?", "Do you still find me attractive?" etc. and its pretty much all personal/sex related questions she's asking me straight up eventhough this is the first time i've seen her in about 5 years...

    When she leaves, she says she'd love to catch up sometime and so we exchange numbers...

    Now, i need some help:
    - Should i call her? Even though she was the one that asked for my number?
    - If i'm going to call her, how long should i wait till i ring her? Mind you its been 2 days now...
    - From what i take from this incident, i'm getting the impression she just wants to get down and dirty [​IMG] with me? But deep down inside i actually want something more from this

    And finally... A pic...

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  2. cucumbercool

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    Don't call. If you have to text her after 3 days with a simple "hey"
     
  3. flaming hot cheetos

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    I am FHC, and I agree with this statement.
     
  4. guccimanelaflare

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    hell yea! dont think twice....may i ask why you broke up in the first place?
     
  5. 03silverbullet

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    are you female?
     
  6. guccimanelaflare

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    dawg u bugging , he didnt just meet shorty , this is someone that knows him and is clearly DIGGING you
     
  7. brettthejett

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    word.

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    depends on how/why you broke up in the first place.
     
  8. rayray84

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    Her parents always got in the way all the time, so i thought it'd be better to end it straight away..
     
  9. flaming hot cheetos

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    werd. I dont care the fact he already knows her and she might want to jump his bones...still gotta play it cooool my man
     
  10. rayray84

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    Nah... Just someone that wants more to life than just sex...[​IMG]... Word to this thread ( http://niketalk.com/topic/160341?page=9 )
     
  11. atlien seeko

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    You could have called/text her the night you got the number. There's rare occations where I put a time limit on how long I wait to call a chick. Ifyou're interested in eachother, then you want to be in touch. And you should have been able to tell from her body language and dialog if she just wanted tosmash. Chances are pretty high that that's the case.
     
  12. rayray84

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    From her body language, she pretty much was ready but i didnt want it to end that way cause i want more from it in the end...
     
  13. atlien seeko

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    But the thing is, if that's all she wants, usually you cant change people. But your situation is different because you have dated her before. I say talkto her on the phone. Have a long talk with her. And as much as she tries to get to your house or invite you over, turn it down and just connect mentally withher until it's a good time to tell her how you feel. Try to conjure up feelings from her, but not too hard. If you dont get anything, keep it moving, orsmash and keep it moving if she's still interested. Good luck.
     
  14. cucumbercool

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    But SHE gave HIM her number. He is not obligated to call. If she wants him that bad she can reach him.
    However with their past in mind that is why he is allowed the pass to text her. It shows you care sort of but you really are not striving too hard.
     
  15. atlien seeko

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    Trust me, it really doesnt matter when you call in most situations. It's what you say. "cuecumbercool" sounds synonymous to "striving toohard"
     
  16. rayray84

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    Thanks for the opinion/advice guys... Keep it coming...
     
  17. ai3mac1

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    Smash and dash
     
  18. rayray84

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    Knew someone was going to say this eventually...[​IMG]
     
  19. desoiation1

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    if you do decide to get back with her just be sure she wants to get back for the same reasons you do. she may not want a serious relationship like you.
     
  20. durty pancakes

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    Body shots?
     
  21. waylon

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    time constraints are dumb if you feel like reaching out then do it, waiting 3 days doesnt make you anycooler.
     
  22. Al Anastasia

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    Just call her.
     
  23. mangudai954

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    Doesn't seem like she wants what you want you may end up hurting yourself.
     
  24. undefinedinc

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    I would say wait it out for a little, send her a text in a couple of days just saying "Whats up". She could just want an ego stroke thats why sheasked how does she compare to other females so don't get too excited only to let yourself down in the end. Good luck
     
  25. eight2one

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    i say yall get a telly...you get some buns and quality time...win win right?