If your wife/husband died...

Discussion in 'General' started by worldbeefreeg, Feb 19, 2009.

  1. worldbeefreeg

    worldbeefreeg

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    Would you re-marry?

    I don't know if I could. I'm sure I would still try to do me with various ladies[​IMG], but in terms of actually giving my heart to another woman I don't think Icould, I would feel like I was betraying her.

    You Never know though, when my grandma died of lung cancer my grandpa remarried twice even though both marriages quickly ended up in divorce. It's hardbeing lonley I guess.
     
  2. mideastbeast

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    Depends how old I am.
     
  3. jessiegras

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    I don't think I could, it would just seem weird.
     
  4. needsomejays

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    damn idk if i could, that would be really hard to do, like you said it would kinda feel like betraying her, but i guess everyone needs to move on sometime,still a tough one
     
  5. thousandaire

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    Yeah because I'm sure they would
     
  6. wkn916

    wkn916 formerly l2icel3oi9i6

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    i dont think i could remarry if my wife died. i dont think i could ever settle down with another woman with my wife's death in the back of my head. i wouldthink about my wife's death everyday..
     
  7. kangaroobombs

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    hells yeah!!!!!!!!
    finally some freedom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  8. albooboo5

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    Hell yeah free pass. No one wants to eat the same cereal errday. I would wait a respectable amount of time though.
     
  9. tkthegirl

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    Man my grandpops got a new girl two weeks after my step grandma died, but he old school so....6th wife may be coming.

    I don't know I'd have to be in the situation and it also depends on how old I am.
     
  10. worldbeefreeg

    worldbeefreeg

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    Grandpa was a playa
     
  11. ny mavurs

    ny mavurs

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    NEVER
     
  12. johnnyredstorm

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    Depends on the age, how she died, how long we were together, if we had kids etc.
    I could myself going the Mel Gibson route in Lethal Weapon though if my wife died young.
     
  13. dgk3188

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    i probably wouldn't be able to go out there and date/re-marry too soon...but if your wife really loved you i think that she would want you to move on andfind another woman that makes you happy
     
  14. akf0dy7

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    i think i would date again but never re-marry. i say that now but you never know you might "fall in love" all over again.
     
  15. iluvjordanxi

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    yes and only if I was in my 20s-50s if not then I'll just grow old by myself.
     
  16. ohstyles

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    I don't understand how you can justify being with other women short of marriage as somehow less of a "betrayal."
     
  17. BaltimoreLove

    BaltimoreLove formerly peterjamesthe3rd

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    i wouldn't...
     
  18. mangudai954

    mangudai954

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    There are way too many variables to cut it to just yes or no.
     
  19. reduce523

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    I would why not. You only get one life. And if I died I dont want people mourning me. Im dead your alive so live.
     
  20. russ tha g

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    I wouldn't trust any +@@% to keep their legs closed past my funeral... you're damn right I'd move on.
     
  21. jfmartimcdandruff

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    Yeah yall would...

    My grandfather did.

    It's because you just get lonely after a while. You need a companion.
     
  22. crazy ebw

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    I try not to think about stuff like that...
     
  23. acidicality

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    yeah, you gotta move on as hard as it is...if you keep dwelling on it that'd be horrible
     
  24. youngtriz

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    naw i couldnt... i would still smash. but never commit long term again....
     
  25. eight2one

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    i would give it a 5 year grace period