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My girl and I were just arguing over when we would want to have our first child. I told her I want to have it before I'm 30, but she threw a wrench in those plans. She wants to be in the Navy and while I support her 110%, I don't want it to affect the plans we already have set.
We got in a lightweight argument about how it's her life and she's going to do what she wants, but I reminded her that we had already decided on it, and just wanting to be in the Navy shouldn't affect those plans.
It's really a small thing, but as she said it's going to come up again, but as we aren't married yet, I decided it best to leave well enough alone.
For those married NTers, do you think you argue more now that you're married than before when you were just dating?
We got in a lightweight argument about how it's her life and she's going to do what she wants, but I reminded her that we had already decided on it, and just wanting to be in the Navy shouldn't affect those plans.
It's really a small thing, but as she said it's going to come up again, but as we aren't married yet, I decided it best to leave well enough alone.
For those married NTers, do you think you argue more now that you're married than before when you were just dating?