Married NTers: Do you and your SO argue more or less than when you were dating?

[eye see soles]

My girl and I were just arguing over when we would want to have our first child. I told her I want to have it before I'm 30, but she threw a wrench in those plans. She wants to be in the Navy and while I support her 110%, I don't want it to affect the plans we already have set.

We got in a lightweight argument about how it's her life and she's going to do what she wants, but I reminded her that we had already decided on it, and just wanting to be in the Navy shouldn't affect those plans.

It's really a small thing, but as she said it's going to come up again, but as we aren't married yet, I decided it best to leave well enough alone.

For those married NTers, do you think you argue more now that you're married than before when you were just dating?

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Won't be too many married people on NT to answer that.

 

[air max 87]

nah we argue the same, considering were just stubborn people to begin with

she calls me messy, i say shes a neat freak, basic @+!@

that and shes Cuban, and Cuban women are born to argue

 

[theswoosh]

^ More than you think.


Having a child and buying a home are the most important things you will decide as a couple until its time for retirement. Arguing about this and moving forward as a couple if healthy. Bickering about BS is a whole other story.

 

[vietstar]

Won't be too many married people on NT to answer that.

 

[chadleroy]

Originally Posted by air max 87

nah we argue the same, considering were just stubborn people to begin with

she calls me messy, i say shes a neat freak, basic @+!@

that and shes Cuban, and Cuban women are born to argue

TRUTH

 

[infyrno23]

Me & My wife argue very little, but when we do argue its World War 3.
Trini Women + Liquor = Argument.

I say me and her argue less now that we are married... we pretty much got that all out when we were dating lol