Mature discussion about making love vs. #%$$#%$

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1.Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
2.What makes a good lover, is it someone that has a feel for just knowing just what to do or is it someone that enjoys giving just as much as receiving?
3.Do you go the extra length to please your partner even if you aren't satisfied?
4.If someone lets you hit after going out once or twice are the both of you easy or is possible that you are just really feeling each other?
5.Do you prefer a traditional "safe" partner or do you enjoy someone that is willing to try new things and is there a limit to what you will participate in?
6. If you are infected with a S.T.D. and you know it would you still have sex?
7. If your partner wanted to involve toys and some involved them being put in you would you object? (males)
8. Is music a yay or nay for you?
9. Is drug consumption ok before engaging in sex? (extacy,MDMA,Viagra etc)
10. What's the difference to you between making love and $@@+##@?
 
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1. Yes
2. Both especially when you dont have to ask them to do it.
3. Yes but im kinda vocal so they know what I want
4. Depends
5. New things. Yes there is def a limit though
6. Only if they knew ahead of time
7. She can use a toy but nothing is going in me
8. Ive always though it was overrated.
9. Sure.
10. Eye contact.
 

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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH


1.No, it honestly just isn't the same when I don't love the person

2.Both
3.Yes
4.Good question, I think it really depends.
5.I like someone who will try new things. There is no limit to what I will do, I've done some crazy things

6. I would let the person I'm going to have sex with know beforehand, If they agree it's on them.
7. Sadly there is no limit to what I will do, I can say no now but once I'm in the heat of the moment...
8. I don't need music but it's definitely better with the right music.
9. I don't mind if my partner takes drugs while having sex. I've had sex while high and drunk. I've tried to while on ecstasy but I'm unable to get hard while on it. Sex while high is so much better for both parties

10. Making love I'm way more into the person though and what they are feeling. I feel like we are connected
 
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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH


1.Can you make love to someone you are not in love with? Making love and having sex are two different things - but yes, you can. 
2.What makes a good lover, is it someone that has a feel for just knowing just what to do or is it someone that enjoys giving just as much as receiving? A combination of experience, general know-how, and actually wanting to be good
3.Do you go the extra length to please your partner even if you aren't satisfied? Yes. I personally get off on her getting off on me.
4.If someone lets you hit after going out once or twice are the both of you easy or is possible that you are just really feeling each other? Could be that you're feeling eachother, both extra thirsty at the particular moment in time, or both easy. Very situational.
5.Do you prefer a traditional "safe" partner or do you enjoy someone that is willing to try new things and is there a limit to what you will participate in? I'm rather unexperienced so as long as she as at least on the same level as me and willing to go further I'm entertained. Not interested in crossing the line of 'normalcy' though.
6. If you are infected with a S.T.D. and you know it would you still have sex? I would explicitly tell my partner what I have and the risks involved. common courtesy. 
7. If your partner wanted to involve toys and some involved them being put in you would you object? (males) I will never be interested in that.
8. Is music a yay or nay for you? This is the difference between making love and having sex again. If I'm just beating/smashing/destroying then music is a must... but when it's really intimate, sometimes no direct background noise can enhance the whole experience.
9. Is drug consumption ok before engaging in sex? (extacy,MDMA,Viagra etc) It is OK but should be made note of.
10. What's the difference to you between making love and $@@+##@? *@#$%+% is simply the act of getting off.... masturbating with a vagina, if you will. Making love is a one on one experience shared between two people that has value and can be way better sometimes.
 
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1. Making love is just passionate sex.  You can do that with a very attractive woman who you are in lust with.
2. Pretty much they please you without you having to hint at anything
3. Yes I do. I take my sexual performance reviews very serious.
4. Means she is easy or you swagged out to the maxium.
5. New things are a must. No Limit so we Ugh all night like Master P
6. Yes
7.

8. Music is cool sometimes, nothing that takes your attention away for the sex tho
9. No drugs, just malt liquor and weed
10. Its a thin line between Love and Smang. Making love is when you care for the others needs too.
 
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So my dude MonStar you would have sex with an STD you said. Would you notify your partner knowing that it would be a deal breaker?
 

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Yes
Combination of the two

Yeah but only cause she's wifey

Varies but she a jump 


Safe but open minded {i do have a limit like girls that try to munch butt 
, why?
)

No

&#$% outta here

Don't really care for it

My girl rolls right before every time 


Kissing
 
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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

So my dude MonStar you would have sex with an STD you said. Would you notify your partner knowing that it would be a deal breaker?
depends on what it is.  If its aids, herpes then yeah but otherwise naw I'll just get it cleared up and try to stall.

  
 
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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH


1.Can you make love to someone you are not in love with?
2.What makes a good lover, is it someone that has a feel for just knowing just what to do or is it someone that enjoys giving just as much as receiving?
3.Do you go the extra length to please your partner even if you aren't satisfied?
4.If someone lets you hit after going out once or twice are the both of you easy or is possible that you are just really feeling each other?
5.Do you prefer a traditional "safe" partner or do you enjoy someone that is willing to try new things and is there a limit to what you will participate in?
6. If you are infected with a S.T.D. and you know it would you still have sex?
7. If your partner wanted to involve toys and some involved them being put in you would you object? (males)
8. Is music a yay or nay for you?
9. Is drug consumption ok before engaging in sex? (extacy,MDMA,Viagra etc)
10. What's the difference to you between making love and $@@+##@?
1. Yea
2. Love is a two-way street. It ain't the beauty it's the duty...


3. Yea, but know when and when not too.

4. Next Question *Jay-Z Voice*

5. Usually traditional women have a wild side to them that wants to experience new things...

6. I don't know...Never had one. 

7. Hell No

8. Music is cool

9. Its fun one or two times, but some good bud is all you need. 


10. Nothing, drunk or not drunk i guess. 
 
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