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so i was dating a chick for 3 1/2 years......we kinda cooled off on eachother towards da end...and technically on a mutual "break" not broken up.
so you know in da back of your mind when you agree to those kinds of terms your basically a restricted free agent, free to talk to other teams (and go to tryouts
)
but da lines of communications were very much good speaking daily...one day i see "da other guy" as i ran into both of em headed to a get together
with my girl cousin and her friend...*awkward*..me and money were grillin eachother da entire time and shorty had da
face
so she calls me later that night and tells me it wasn't what i though...(sure %%%%!..) fast forward about a week and 1/2 ago, she tells me she wants to get back to me
100% as soon as january comes, as some sort of new resolution and i tentatively agree...i mean she had come over 2 weeks prior to fix her laptop and we ended up
doing something......(plus i had my fun on da side too as a restrictive free agent)
fast forward da top of da week, and she's talking to me da way Jay-z was talking when he wanted to leave dame and biggs and rocafella....on some "i always want you there
no matter what happens, i'll always love you" i looked at that like
"something's up" so i started to press her since she was talking about random clinic visits and whatnot...
i put da squeeze on her and she eventually conceded to me that she wound up pregnant, and her mom is making her keep it (religious type) so i took da news REAL bad...
begged her not to have it and to come back to me (she's only a month pregnant afterall, nothing a lil pill can't solve)....all fell on def ears
*shrugs*
all my peoples are basically telling me that she's taking da L cuz she basically just started messing wit da dude october, and da FIRST time they smashed he knocked her up
i even made sure i spoke to da moms and make sure on whats going on....we both had a mutual agreement that she's having it too early (she turns 21 in january) but she forbids
her daughters to have any kind of abortion.
so i basically tell shorty "we can't be friends" on da strength that da leash of "on a break" was obviously violated, i feel betrayed...and i can NEVER picture myself smashin her ever again
once she pops a kid out, cardinal rule 1 is NEVER mess wit chicks w/ kids...its a straight up trap if you get em preggo too....cuz after they had one, they'll NEVER take out
da subsequent pregnancies.
FOOTNOTES
1. dated a chick for 3 1/2 years
2. took a break, she ends up messing wit a dude and he gets her pregnant ( i feel bad for that idiot..lolz)
3. i feel betrayed but relieved it wasn't me that did it
4. she still only 20 and da potential baby father is 23
5. mom forbids abortions so she's GOTTA have it, even if she's only a month pregnant and at that time a simple pill will let her cancel da pregnancy
overall i feel good that im solo, but da withdrawal of being of a 3 1/2 year relationship creeps up on me...sucks alot, and i still feel real betrayed and cheated...i mean
i would've been cool wit her doin her on da side..but pregnant?!
i didn't expect her to become another statistic...
discuss.
so you know in da back of your mind when you agree to those kinds of terms your basically a restricted free agent, free to talk to other teams (and go to tryouts
but da lines of communications were very much good speaking daily...one day i see "da other guy" as i ran into both of em headed to a get together
with my girl cousin and her friend...*awkward*..me and money were grillin eachother da entire time and shorty had da
so she calls me later that night and tells me it wasn't what i though...(sure %%%%!..) fast forward about a week and 1/2 ago, she tells me she wants to get back to me
100% as soon as january comes, as some sort of new resolution and i tentatively agree...i mean she had come over 2 weeks prior to fix her laptop and we ended up
doing something......(plus i had my fun on da side too as a restrictive free agent)
fast forward da top of da week, and she's talking to me da way Jay-z was talking when he wanted to leave dame and biggs and rocafella....on some "i always want you there
no matter what happens, i'll always love you" i looked at that like
i put da squeeze on her and she eventually conceded to me that she wound up pregnant, and her mom is making her keep it (religious type) so i took da news REAL bad...
begged her not to have it and to come back to me (she's only a month pregnant afterall, nothing a lil pill can't solve)....all fell on def ears
all my peoples are basically telling me that she's taking da L cuz she basically just started messing wit da dude october, and da FIRST time they smashed he knocked her up
i even made sure i spoke to da moms and make sure on whats going on....we both had a mutual agreement that she's having it too early (she turns 21 in january) but she forbids
her daughters to have any kind of abortion.
so i basically tell shorty "we can't be friends" on da strength that da leash of "on a break" was obviously violated, i feel betrayed...and i can NEVER picture myself smashin her ever again
once she pops a kid out, cardinal rule 1 is NEVER mess wit chicks w/ kids...its a straight up trap if you get em preggo too....cuz after they had one, they'll NEVER take out
da subsequent pregnancies.
FOOTNOTES
1. dated a chick for 3 1/2 years
2. took a break, she ends up messing wit a dude and he gets her pregnant ( i feel bad for that idiot..lolz)
3. i feel betrayed but relieved it wasn't me that did it
4. she still only 20 and da potential baby father is 23
5. mom forbids abortions so she's GOTTA have it, even if she's only a month pregnant and at that time a simple pill will let her cancel da pregnancy
overall i feel good that im solo, but da withdrawal of being of a 3 1/2 year relationship creeps up on me...sucks alot, and i still feel real betrayed and cheated...i mean
i would've been cool wit her doin her on da side..but pregnant?!
discuss.
