No thread for no fap November this year?

2 weeks clean today but still checking pron every once in a while 
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Stop watching porn!

Masturbation isn't unhealthy in and of itself, it's watching porn that destroys your dopamine levels.
 
My new girl is big on giving handies, I couldn't do it if I tried famb

Sorry :smokin

that's a girl who's big on not liking you. I haven't gotten a hand job from a girl since like high school. No one truly "gets" hand jobs, hand jobs are given in lieu of other, better, things. Never in my adult life have I heard anyone talk about getting a hand job and being happy about it. Unless a girl is mid-herpes outbreak, never be happy with a hand job. She's doing that because she doesn't want to do something else.

Truthfully, girls need to know that hand jobs aren't necessary. I can do those by myself. It being someone else doesn't really add much to the equation. We masturbate when we aren't with a girl or to not have to be with a girl. A hand job-giver of a girl is a girl that's stepping into my territory.
 
My new girl is big on giving handies, I couldn't do it if I tried famb

Sorry :smokin

that's a girl who's big on not liking you. I haven't gotten a hand job from a girl since like high school. No one truly "gets" hand jobs, hand jobs are given in lieu of other, better, things. Never in my adult life have I heard anyone talk about getting a hand job and being happy about it. Unless a girl is mid-herpes outbreak, never be happy with a hand job. She's doing that because she doesn't want to do something else.

Truthfully, girls need to know that hand jobs aren't necessary. I can do those by myself. It being someone else doesn't really add much to the equation. We masturbate when we aren't with a girl or to not have to be with a girl. A hand job-giver of a girl is a girl that's stepping into my territory.

Really famb, relax. :rolleyes :lol:

You outchea going Dr. Phil on my sex life.

First, I get topped off at a regular. I wouldn't accept handies in lieu of mouf, no self respecting man would

When we are chilling on the couch watching tv that's how sex pops off. We start making out, I start feeling her up, I get a quick beef shake and were off to the races.

I was just cracking a joke, damb :lol:
 
My new girl is big on giving handies, I couldn't do it if I tried famb

Sorry :smokin

that's a girl who's big on not liking you. I haven't gotten a hand job from a girl since like high school. No one truly "gets" hand jobs, hand jobs are given in lieu of other, better, things. Never in my adult life have I heard anyone talk about getting a hand job and being happy about it. Unless a girl is mid-herpes outbreak, never be happy with a hand job. She's doing that because she doesn't want to do something else.

Truthfully, girls need to know that hand jobs aren't necessary. I can do those by myself. It being someone else doesn't really add much to the equation. We masturbate when we aren't with a girl or to not have to be with a girl. A hand job-giver of a girl is a girl that's stepping into my territory.

Really famb, relax. :rolleyes :lol:

You outchea going Dr. Phil on my sex life.

First, I get topped off at a regular. I wouldn't accept handies in lieu of mouf, no self respecting man would

When we are chilling on the couch watching tv that's how sex pops off. We start making out, I start feeling her up, I get a quick beef shake and were off to the races.

I was just cracking a joke, damb :lol:

I was just joking too, Rusty. I saw that it was you who posted the handy praise and thought "I bet Rusty could use some over-analysis on his relationship that I know nothing about."
 
My new girl is big on giving handies, I couldn't do it if I tried famb

Sorry :smokin

that's a girl who's big on not liking you. I haven't gotten a hand job from a girl since like high school. No one truly "gets" hand jobs, hand jobs are given in lieu of other, better, things. Never in my adult life have I heard anyone talk about getting a hand job and being happy about it. Unless a girl is mid-herpes outbreak, never be happy with a hand job. She's doing that because she doesn't want to do something else.

Truthfully, girls need to know that hand jobs aren't necessary. I can do those by myself. It being someone else doesn't really add much to the equation. We masturbate when we aren't with a girl or to not have to be with a girl. A hand job-giver of a girl is a girl that's stepping into my territory.

Really famb, relax. :rolleyes :lol:

You outchea going Dr. Phil on my sex life.

First, I get topped off at a regular. I wouldn't accept handies in lieu of mouf, no self respecting man would

When we are chilling on the couch watching tv that's how sex pops off. We start making out, I start feeling her up, I get a quick beef shake and were off to the races.

I was just cracking a joke, damb :lol:

I was just joking too, Rusty. I saw that it was you who posted the handy praise and thought "I bet Rusty could use some over-analysis on his relationship that I know nothing about."

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Teach me the ways I went 3 months and relapsed hard while getting steady yambs I like the feeling of busting too much
 
Teach me the ways I went 3 months and relapsed hard while getting steady yambs I like the feeling of busting too much

Meditation and yoga is what works for me. Helps me to understand the way my mind works and what influences it.

Also, realizing that most of my fapping was mostly caused by boredom and unfulfillment helped. Started using my life's energy in more creative ways; writing, painting, drawing, learning a new language, graphic design, cycling.
 
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But you don't get that "high" from meditating that you definitely get from fapping

It's that drug that you gotta feed yourself

Well I guess the experience is different for everyone but other than the sploog masturbation never really gave me anything and after I started meditating the last days of masturbation had a strong feeling of disgust after the deed was done.

I think it's more so about the porn than the actual act of fapping. Porn ***** with you psychologically big time.
 
Been clean of porn and faptation since Oct 2014. Probably wouldn't have ever stopped if it weren't for the NT challenge. Plus my woman takes care of me, so its easier to resist
 
The first two or three weeks are the toughest. After that it gets easier and easier.

One thing I did was take pics of my face every few days or so. My face has gotten leaner since I started.

It's pretty dang cool to see this progression, so this motivates me to keep going.

My eyes also changed a bit. They shine a little brighter than before. Part of it I think is placebo but the other part

is that I'm feeling more aggressive so I gotta let it out at the gym or by running. Just do whatever you gotta do to 

keep busy.
 
The first two or three weeks are the toughest. After that it gets easier and easier.
One thing I did was take pics of my face every few days or so. My face has gotten leaner since I started.

It's pretty dang cool to see this progression, so this motivates me to keep going.
My eyes also changed a bit. They shine a little brighter than before. Part of it I think is placebo but the other part
is that I'm feeling more aggressive so I gotta let it out at the gym or by running. Just do whatever you gotta do to 
keep busy.

nah bruh, its real...on no fap your body forms strongly...like you kinda do actually get muscle, you are healthier all around. and your eyes do get brighter, more alive, and the limbic rings in your eyes get bigger/darker. 350% more aesthetic :smokin
 
Yeah you're right, I've experienced all the things you mentioned as well @SOFA KING AWSM

My energy levels are up and I feel like I recover a littler faster.

I think my biggest motivation thus far has been my increased confidence with women.

Especially attractive women. I actually had the huevos to randomly sit next to the hottest chick in one of my classes last week and

probably the hottest chick I've ever talked to, period. Worked on an assignment together. Made good eye contact.

Actually heard her stutter a bit when talking to me, when usually it was me who would do that when talking to chicks
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There's no way in hell I was ever gonna do that before I started nofap. I was too shy and lacked the confidence.

I failed at this many times so I know how hard it is to stick with, but I guess I just finally got tired of settling with mediocre women and mediocre accomplishments.

I only want the best. And nofap has helped tremendously.

So yeah I'd say it's worth doing.
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