NT...what to do when unattractive girl like you...HELP ASAP!

[delete1234]

Mann...I have no idea what to do in this situation...I work at footlocker and this girl across the way at the ladies like me...her friend/coworker came up to me saying text her...I'm not a mean person so I was like ok...so now I'm stuck...what tf do I do to get outta this mess?? The last time I was in this situation was 8th grade and I ended up dating the chick and breaking up with her a week later during christmas break when she tried to come over my house....NT help!!

 

[troymcclure]

Be real.

 

[mangudai954]

 

[b smooth 202]

yeah thats happened to me a few times in life...you just gotta keep it 100% and just say you're not feeling her like that...

just think about what a girl will say to a guy who approaches her that she isnt feeling

 

[1nyceballa]

how ugly?...is she atleast beatable?

 

[keepzdasneakz]

Be real, but just make sure you don't flat out dump on em. If they text you and all that stuff, just decline and eventually she should get the picture. If not, well then you're gonna have to resort to a more direct means of conveying your thoughts. If she's one of those clueless girls who needs you to outright say it, then make sure you sandwich your statement with some compliments and remember to apologize....even though there's nothing to apologize for.

 

[lstylez23]

play it cool

and dont be an !%% about it..

thats it, she'll appreciate that..

 

[vendetta]

*insert dave chappelle in club gif*

 

[gumbottombandit]

just tell her you're kinda seeing someone.  she doesn't have to know it's you.

 

[antonlavey]

I just say that I'm gay

 

[stonedface]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

I just say that I'm gay

this. or I'm not looking for anything right now, wildebeast season already passed

 

[celticspride34]

Hit it raw... jizz on face... put on draws... bounce...

 

[godie]

Acquire head.
Disregard texts.

 

[cant break the unbreakable]

Be high maintenance and keep making her do stuff for you until she gets tired of it.

 

[sooperhooper]

It is mad awkward and uncomfortable I know. Its all about knowing how to word things.conversation rules the nation.

Last year, a girl I used to work with was coming on to me hard, talking about when are we going to hangout. At the time, I was too nice to just say 'not interested' so I kept making excuses:
Her: so when are we going to go out?
Me: "I'm on a budget, I'm not trying to eat out"
Her: "I'll pay"
Me: "Nah I can't let you pay, I won't feel right"

The whole time in my head I'm like "just tell her No, I don't want to". I know its tough and you don't want to hurt her feelings, but you've gotta just nip it in the bud to avoid further confusion and frustration. I should've just said something like "thanks, but id like to keep things with us the way they are now". It just comes with experience.

Sounds like you're the type that wants everyone to like you so you're nice to everyone, a people pleaser. The thing with that is, people will probably like you, but they won't respect you much. Stop being so cool, B. I've made those mistakes before. Just have the mindframe "I don't care if everyone likes me".

How old are you op?

 

[boi]

All I can do at y'all 

Post pics, OP. you know this 

 

[cubanref]

Just tell her your seeing someone else right now

 

[cobra kai]

Use her for practicing my stroke for conquering future endeavors.

 

[chicagokid23]

1 word responding text
same in person

 

[kilojules64]

Unless she actually makes a move, just stay friendly. If she asks you out tell her you aren't interested. If she's that forward and that ugly, it's nothing she hasn't heard before.

 

[bratz dos]

happened recently. luckily she was alot younger than me so i used that.

 

[carver]

Easy..I got a girl sorry

 

[AZwildcats]

At the rate I'm going, pretend she is a dime and live happily ever after

 

[ins]

Tell her you like guys. That excuse got me through all of highschool.

 

[zoomgp]

Smash her better looking friend or.co worker, then use that as an excuse