I was just wondering how often do you and your girl (or man) argue? Is it over stupid things, getting on eachothers nerves or what? I've been with my girl for 5 years this Christmas and we argue a lot over the dumbest things sometimes. When we're happy, we're really happy butwhen we argue sometimes we really get at eachothers throats. It really annoys me and I was just wondering if and other people in long term relationships argue or not.