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Yea I know for most of yall Nters yall smashing a dozen times a day and then a baker's dozen at night so yall lost on the subject and then for youfapoholics this thread title is just ridiculous but for yall(male & females) who know what I'm talking about I'd like to know what yall think aboutthis situation. I'm not in this situation now but I've been wondering/thinking/pondering.
Lets say you like a girl/guy and you haven't really gotten the chance or even make the chance to talk to them enough to get things rolling. At most is somefriendly flirty chit chat, some of those "looks", mutual friends, you know stuff like that. So lets say you're working on a group project, littlelate at the library and either the other ppl in the group don't show up or yall stay back a little longer and it's just you two. One thing leads toanother, yadda yadda and you end up smashing in the library. For the sake of another scenario, lets say it's group study. Nobody else shows up or the bothof you decide to stay back a little longer and then decide to go out for drinks or get something to eat, time flies by, you end up at her/his spot. One thingleads to another, yadda yadda and you end up smashing and then going back home.
If you like the person and they clearly like you(obviously at this point
) how do you go about pursuing a relationship after already smashing? How awkward can it get? What do you do and how awkward is it when only one of youfeels weird about the attempt of a relationship? I know for some it's not even an issue but how do people in that gray area go about overcoming thatproblem? Also lets say you don't try to pursue a relationship after the fact cuz it got so weird between the two of you and you give each other space butstill give the friendly hello. You grow tired/frustrated of that and want to try it a month or two later? What's the protocol for that? Any successfulsmash first, then relationship after stories?
I've never done it but like I said I've been wondering. It's hard when you use sex as the ice breaker
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Anway answer under these stipulations:
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Lets say you like a girl/guy and you haven't really gotten the chance or even make the chance to talk to them enough to get things rolling. At most is somefriendly flirty chit chat, some of those "looks", mutual friends, you know stuff like that. So lets say you're working on a group project, littlelate at the library and either the other ppl in the group don't show up or yall stay back a little longer and it's just you two. One thing leads toanother, yadda yadda and you end up smashing in the library. For the sake of another scenario, lets say it's group study. Nobody else shows up or the bothof you decide to stay back a little longer and then decide to go out for drinks or get something to eat, time flies by, you end up at her/his spot. One thingleads to another, yadda yadda and you end up smashing and then going back home.
If you like the person and they clearly like you(obviously at this point
I've never done it but like I said I've been wondering. It's hard when you use sex as the ice breaker
Anway answer under these stipulations:
- He/She is not a **%#%, skeezer, scallywag, harlot, wench, garden tool, etc.
- You both like each other enough to want a relationship
- The sex was good/great but the next day when meeting is still awkward
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