serious topic...what kind of a relationship am i in?

Discussion in 'General' started by hyphy101, Dec 21, 2009.

  1. hyphy101

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    so i got this girl at my work.. i pretty much work with her everyday mon to fri.. she gots kids.. i got kids.. she broke up with her man.. im still with mylady.. but its been a year since we been messing around or whatever you guys want to call it.. basically we started from kissing in the cheeks to now for thepast 3 or 4 months.. to kissing in the lips.. I think i have feelings for her.. but i dont understand her though.. ive tried to broke it off about 1 month agoand she didnt like the idea but it seem like she didnt care on whatever i thought... we would stil be kissin when nobody is in our back office even after wefight and argue about our situation.. basically i would get all butt hurt when she be talking to other guys..i mean i know im suppose to careless because weaint even together.. but damn.. its annoying when she be talking about her other "friends" which she says that she just very friendly to guys but shedont kiss them like she kisses me.. she never did say that she liked me or she has feelings for me.. but why the hell would we be kissin like we together andalso we've gon to 2 dates and it turned out cool..SO NIKETALK.. what should i do with this chick? i want to end it completely so i can stop feeling allbutt hurt whenever she tells me or talks to me about her guy friends.. i guess you guys can say i got feelings but i want to lose the feelings and just let itbe.. btw.. the chick i would say is 8/10 and maybe a 9 on her gud days lol.. any opinions will help.. thanks guys.. and pls.. no flames..lol..
     
  2. nawth21

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    And this is why they say office relationships (of any kind) are not a good idea. Sorry, you need to get a new job, hire a hitman or murder suicide.
     
  3. youngflykidchris

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    no pics?

    but smash.. it seems like she wants the D
     
  4. 951guero

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    pics
     
  5. 2seatport

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    This is one of those things that is cured as soon as you find and smash someone else imo
     
  6. durden7

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    An adulterous one.
     
  7. blaz3n

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    Why the hell do you care about her if you are still with your lady, and have children??[​IMG][​IMG]
     
  8. hyphy101

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    guys.. ill try to get a pic of her..lol.. but yeah fellas.. ive been looking around for jobs..lol.. actually got a couple of interviews and during that timewhen i thought i was gon get the job.. i was already warning her like "female dogg, when im gone.. you gon miss me." lol..but the site that i wassuppose to work on was too far for me so i passed.. so im still on this wreck at work.. lol.. dont get me wrong.. the chick is cool as a friend.. but just gotthis feeling attached..lol.. keep it comin guys.. i need expert advice on what to do.. besides ignore.. i mean i tried to do that but after a day or 2.. whennobody was in the back office.. we went at it again.. kissing like we've never kissed before lol..
     
  9. dunksnjordans1992

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    sounds like shes a $++! dude, shes tryin to play you or something mind games. sounds like she has mental issues.
     
  10. shady4life

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    exactly!
     
  11. p mac one

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    First of all, Pics?

    Secondly, so lemme get this straight. You have a kissing-only relationship with a girl you work with, and you catch feelings over guys she describes as onlyfriends. But you have a lady and kids of your own on the side anyways. (you didn't say if that lady was the bm)
     
  12. ramzs8906

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    *Rock handclapping GIF*
     
  13. an dee 51o

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    Pics?



    Also,








    YNS.
     
  14. manny1

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    this is true. plus all you are doing is KISSING. [​IMG][​IMG] tell me this isn't true? if you haven'tHIT yet then drop it like a bad habit and move on to the next one.













    Still[​IMG] at the KISSING part.
     
  15. clevelandsprince23

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    [​IMG]
     
  16. mangudai954

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    So basically so just kisses you and you two go on dates? Sounds to me like she's sleeping with someone else but likes the attention you give her so sheeggs you along. *shrugs*
     
  17. j23s

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    Ok first off "butt hurt" is one of the wackest thing a human being can say and by using it your IQ justdropped by 27. Second you're only kissing and catching feelings, I can't imagine what would happen if you smash which I doubt you will, because after 3or 4 months of only kissing YNS. And last, she's using you to make herself feel good. Leave it alone and keep it moving
     
  18. p mac one

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    For the record, I thought some NTers were on one before.

    Now we got dudes makin relationship threads about being attached to a girl they only kissed.

    I'm speechless
     
  19. T0INE

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    You *@%!*@$ up on so many levels OP. [​IMG]

    And all of this drama over some kisses? [​IMG]
    You need to get her out of your life because the situation is only going to get worse.
     
  20. dontsteponmyshoes

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    Im too Immature I cant even finish reading the topic all i can think of now is this
     
  21. cabron james 23

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    PHOTOGRAPHIAS,
    ADONDE ESTAN???
     
  22. hyphy101

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    you right guys.. but i forgot to mention.. i got in a little boob action and some finger section lol.. but no smash yet.. hahah but yeah.. yall is right.. justkeep em movin huh? but it is kinda hard since i work with her everyday guys.. but yall is right.. im listening..
     
  23. renarene

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    To answer your question you're not in any sort of relationship with this girl. You have a woman and kids, and have the nerve to stress over her having"friends", and "not caring" when you broke it off?

    And why you kissing in the office? Keep that outside or don't do it... @#$^ is wrong with you?
     
  24. neighb0rh00d

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  25. hyphy101

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    ^^its been a while since i had something like this..lol.. being with my lady for 6 years and those 6 years was just all kids and with my lady.. so i was kindacurious how it felt to have something on the side..lol..