So I knocked up a girl

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  1. undefinedinc

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    And shorty wants an abortion but I'm not trying to kill my seed. It sucks how men have no say what so ever in this situation. She already has a baby fromanother dude so she is not trying to have multiple baby daddys but why should a child suffer for our stupid mistake? I think both parties should man up...Discuss..
     
  2. sherwin100s

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    How old are you?



    And pics of the BM
     
  3. ericberry14

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    if she wants to get the abortion, there is nothing you can do to stop her

    EDIT: PICS
     
  4. jayhood23

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    If she plans on getting married and having kids later on down the road she will have multiple baby fathers but she must have plans on getting withher other kids father to avoid that.
     
  5. yungmatt

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    So, you want to have a kid with a chick that already has a kid from another dude to have your seed even though she doesnt wanna have multiple baby daddies??

    As much as you want her to, she aint having that kid
     
  6. noneofyours25

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    Sit down and discuss with her all the pros and cons of the situation
     
  7. nawth21

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    Well she can always carry to term, terminate her parental rights and you can "adopt" and have full custodial rights and have the baby in your carefor 24/7 [​IMG] That's always an option. You should suggest it.
     
  8. undefinedinc

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    I'm 26 and she is 23. I told her I'm willing to take the child, she does not have to put a penny towards the child. But "its her body, herchoice" so I know there isn't anything I can do about it. I just wish this never happened. I'm not putting a cent towards the abortion though
     
  9. bryanne2210

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    You should have a long talk with her, but maybe the reason why she doesn't want the kid was because she was creeping and fell into deep and landed on toyou...I mean, I agree with everything you're saying except I think you should reconsider the highlighted part.
     
  10. pmighty

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    are you sure its yours??
     
  11. jawn piece

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    its funny cuz its usually the girl that wants the baby and the dude who pushes for the abortion..but ultimately its her choice

    besides im guessing this is her second unintentional pregnancy and at just 23 yrs old it doesnt seem like shes learned to use her vag responsibly so both ofyous just gotta consider this a learning experience
     
  12. waylon

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    Could u see yourself marrying this girl?
     
  13. thug lyfe

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    you should be dancing like the dude in "you are not the father" .gif that she wants an abortion and not saying she wants to keep it althoughthat's what you think you want.
     
  14. lnmymind

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    Let me get this straight...chick gets pregnant...and the DUDE wants to keep it and the CHICK wants to abort it?

    Most guys would consider you to be lucky...hell you complaining about?
     
  15. parada45

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    RIP
     
  16. mangudai954

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    ...Because he wants to keep it.
     
  17. eeibaby

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    Hope it works out for you, good to see a dad want the baby but sad that the BM doesn't.

    In the end I hope she allows you to have the baby
     
  18. wanksta23

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    damn...kudos for your decision...not many dudes these days re willing to do that
     
  19. Al Anastasia

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    ^^^ Truth
     
  20. ajchick23

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    True..it's not often you see a guy who wants to keep the child.
    But at the same time you need to fall back OP...you aren't the one carrying around a baby in you for 9 months.

    You act like you were shooting blanks before [​IMG] and finally got a swimmer.
    Just wait till you find somebody you love to settle down with and have children with them.
     
  21. Al Anastasia

    Al Anastasia formerly mrbluprint

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    ^^^ Truth sorry didn't mean to do that.
     
  22. depast

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  23. biggie62

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    I have no problem with abortions personally. I mean if she wants one you really won't be able to do much. GL in trying to get her to actually try to givebirth to it. Just be careful that once she does actually give birth that she doesn't try to get custody and try to get child support. Have it in writingthat once she gives birth you get full all out rights to the child.
     
  24. nktran001

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    [​IMG]

    "Momma gon' knock you out!"
     
  25. ill legal operation

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    Women have too many rights.