So my friend tells his gf everything I tell him

Discussion in 'General' started by kingjames23, Dec 21, 2009.

  1. kingjames23

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    So me, my boy, and his gf are all really good friends. Even before they started dating they would talk all the time and in conversations with me she'dmention things I never told her but my boy knew. It was minor stuff and not a big deal so I just blew it off, it didn't bother me. But now it's gettinga lot worse, he's telling ther stuff that gets her pissed at me, or things she won't keep her mouth shut about that end up blowing up in my face.

    A short story that sums up everything, this is just one example. One day I'm waiting in the union to meet up with my group for a project. I got there kindof early so I'm just sitting there and I'm texting my friend since I'm bored. It was crowded and I was at a table by myself and a girl (that Iknew) sat down next to me. I told my friend some girl sat down and I was gonna "talk" to her. Literally 2 minutes after I tell him this his gf textsme about what I'm doing and the girl I'm smashing but not dating (her friend) texts me too *****ing at me. It took one minute for him to run and tellhis girl about what I was doing, when he knew it was gonna be trouble. He's even told her things that I specifically told him not to tell her .

    Am I right to be pissed off, or is it no big deal?


    Cliffs even though it isn't long:
    Me, my boy and his gf are all friends
    He tells her small things about me
    They start dating
    Anything I tell him she know knows, and he tells her things he knows are gonna get me in trouble
    Example: It took him literally 1 minute to tell his gf something that got me +@##%%% at.


    Pic of girl I'm smashing (on the left). Not the best pic though:
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    The "other girl" and go ahead and say "yns".
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  2. knightngale

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    I belive you are smashing the girl in yellow on the left cause she is [​IMG]
     
  3. dakingii

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    smh your homeboy is **$#*-whiped and ##!$!-made

    I would stop having conversations with dude if i was you.
     
  4. daproblem53

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    okay i will go ahead and say it YNS
     
  5. Johnny_Cakes

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    I'd be pissed.
     
  6. jesusinjordans

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    Did you confront him about it? Tell your boy to throw his salt on the sidewalk.
     
  7. jamergrady

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    Looks like you got quite a big problem on you're hands. [​IMG]
     
  8. godofwar

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    I would have lied in my post and said I was smashing the girl on the right.
     
  9. spidermachine916

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    you sure that your boy had his phone? she could have read it while she held his phone.
     
  10. aj fanatic

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    I don't tell my wife nada that my friends talk about. She'll hear about it later and try to update me and I'll be like I know so and so told me. Soshe gets upset (not really upset). I can understand your frustration with your friend. Just stop telling him. But he is probably getting pressed from his girlabout everything so he has to choose!
     
  11. coolnificent

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    On the left?
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  12. lilstarz07

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    i think i know "the other girl" soooo whats this all about again?
     
  13. imsods

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    I hated when puff said this but... B****assness is runnin rampid..
     
  14. kingjames23

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    It really has nothing to do with her.

    But I'm kinda curious, who you think she is. Initals?
     
  15. mrdoeboi

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    U better stop telling him stuff before it really hits the fan and than u wanna hurt him
     
  16. ryda421

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    post the n00dz
     
  17. mytmouse76

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    you should be trying to get at the girl on the right in the yellow...she's cute
     
  18. lazy b

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    Cut him off. Like MrDoeBol said, you are goign to tell him something that is going to set it off.
     
  19. ihavemyownopinion

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    Your friend is the female in his relationship.
     
  20. spidermachine916

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  21. neighb0rh00d

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    he is your friend but just tell him to kinda stop telling his gf everything even though you and his gf are friends.
     
  22. dipsetgeneral

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    Why don't you simply ask him

    "Why do you tell (whomever) the things I tell you man?"
     
  23. miketysonthekiller

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    He's not your friend anymore. Cut that %$%*% made dude off ASAP. You'll be much better off without that kind of person in your life.
    DO NOT FORGIVE HIM BRAH, HE HAS DONE THIS TOO MANY TIMES.
     
  24. renarene

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    What is she doing with her hand?

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  25. kingjames23

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    I do that and he's gonna tell his gf to keep her mouth shut. It seems like he made his choice.

    From everything that's happened in the past between him and her, when it comes to her my friend is incapable of telling the truth. If I acted like him andtold her everything (before they started dating) he never would have had a shot.