TAY: thread about yambs...

[usabasketball08]

Did this before, for over a year. I had fallen completely off & needed to regain control of my life. I literally went ghost on everyone except parents & my friends since childhood.

My productivity spiked, & it put me where I needed to be, but I completely underestimated how rusty I was when I was ready to pursue again.

It came back quickly, but I still fumbled while pursuing that first shorty . It's all good doe.

I think that deters a lot of dudes from taking a break from yambs.

For some, even taking a short break from pursuing women could mean that they lost any game they once had.

 

[airphilippines]

It's crazy but It's like my desire to pursue yams has just evaporated. Let everyone on the team go without a second thought, and I'm about to embark on a self imposed drought and I don't even care. It's like I'm tired with having to deal with all the extra **** that comes with yams. No energy for it. Have any of y'all ever reached that point.

Feel like I reach that point when I over analyze stuff with chicks who I'm working on.

 

[Mark Antony]

Stuck in between them wanting too much or not wanting anything can wear on your emotions around this time, could lead you to use the wrong chick as a crutch, did that last year. One treated me like ****, the other i treated like **** in turn. This year I'd rather just shore up my emotional maturity and be happy and free.

 

[coolgraymemo]

Trying to figure out how to get at my TA, without endangering the grade from my class.

 

[alp]

Wait until u finish the class

 

[youngdoc]

So I hit this girl up I'm trying to smash to go out to a lounge Friday and she wants to invite her friend that I smashed last week. ...

I have no idea whether she knows I smashed or not. I was trying to be slick but no dice

 

[coolgraymemo]

Wait until u finish the class

I don't think I'll see her around campus when the class ends (big campus).

I use the class as an excuse to kick it with her right now. It usually starts off about class material and ends in something completely different.


Once the class end, I have no idea how I'll casually bump into her.

 

[mugen81]

I don't think I'll see her around campus when the class ends (big campus).

I use the class as an excuse to kick it with her right now. It usually starts off about class material and ends in something completely different.


Once the class end, I have no idea how I'll casually bump into her.

So how will this effect your grade if the conversations are presumably ending in a good fashion/your favor.
Why don't you try the simple approach of asking her out for coffee or if she is available for a review before your final. Something non-threatening breh and work from there.

 

[coolgraymemo]

So how will this effect your grade if the conversations are presumably ending in a good fashion/your favor.
Why don't you try the simple approach of asking her out for coffee or if she is available for a review before your final. Something non-threatening breh and work from there.

That's my plan. She asked me out for lunch last week (after having talked to her for over an hour), but I declined the offer. In hindsight it was a stupid move. We were caught up in the conversation and I declined without even thinking about it (I had other plans that I should have cancelled)

I don't know how she will react (as a TA) if I give her my number.

 

[Mark Antony]

What the **** wrong with y'all ******?

 

[mugen81]

That's my plan. She asked me out for lunch last week (after having talked to her for over an hour), but I declined the offer. In hindsight it was a stupid move. We were caught up in the conversation and I declined without even thinking about it (I had other plans that I should have cancelled)

I don't know how she will react (as a TA) if I give her my number.

Breh, I am so confused...
She asked you out for dinner, so why wouldn't she mind you giving her your number???
Look next time you see her say something to the effect..
" Sorry I had to cancel(insert a believable lie using a good friend or your family. Can I make it up to you with a lunch/cup of coffee/dinner on me."
This clearly is a slam dunk, stop over analyzing this breh.. Just because she is a TA doesn't mean she doesn't get lonely...
I would be more concern if you blew her off like you did, a woman scorned...lol

 

[coolgraymemo]

Breh, I am so confused...
She asked you out for dinner, so why wouldn't she mind you giving her your number???
Look next time you see her say something to the effect..
" Sorry I had to cancel(insert a believable lie using a good friend or your family. Can I make it up to you with a lunch/cup of coffee/dinner on me."
This clearly is a slam dunk, stop over analyzing this breh.. Just because she is a TA doesn't mean she doesn't get lonely...
I would be more concern if you blew her off like you did, a woman scorned...lol

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I have no idea why I did that. We were walking together and she was talking about what she was going to order. Then there was a break in the conversation and the first thought that came to mind was "I have an appointment at x." And then we split ways.

The "women scorned" part is true I think. I tried hitting her up before class and she kind of just avoided the conversation.


Yes, I tend to over-analyze things.

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

But seriously, the conversation I had with her that day was . Finally a young woman that talks like an adult.
I usually find it easy to keep eye contact, but I was having a lot of trouble that day. Looking at her straight up made me nervous .

When I was talking I kept noticed little mannerisms she had. Kept biting her lip, made weird faces when laughing, etc.

She brought up her age really early into our conversation (which had nothing to do with age); I have no idea what to think about that.

 

[tdogg2k]

so Now when i go out, i walk with the aura positive, feeling like I can do me . (which everyone around you naturally picks up from you)

This to me helps when you do see a chick you may want, youre in such ease mode, you don't psyche yourself out. You literally go in like.. well if it works cool, if not f it.
f.

Funny how after i typed this, i went out to go buy a suit. (going to holiday party next friday at a big company, going for the professional yambs)
So i'm in the store to go to the changing room. i try on the suit.. the girl there asian girl. keeps looking through the clothes at me.
(I'm in full confidence mode) gave my self a fresh cut and finally shaved my movember beard off.

so I call her over and just like. how does this look. this is the right grey right..
shes like "you look fine....i mean it looks fine"
i smiled say thank you young lady (she may of actually been my age or older, Asians look good for their ages)
go back in and change.. come out.
Say thank you. ask when can i get it taylored
she starts fumbling with the words while looking me dead in my eyes.

was too funny..
but I kept it moving, didn't ask for the number or anything..

Like i said. no point in being in Limbo during this QTR of the year. plus she didn't wow me, so no point of wasting her time and mine .


Just remember, people can feel your aura, if you walk in a place defeated people feel that. if you walk in like hey life is good and even if things are down they'll get better.. people feel that.

 

[jay are]

@coolgreymemo you dropped the ball on that one...go get those yambs man!

Yesterday I saw the discussion about having a solid 6 on your roster. I definitely reccommend it, its so much positive benefits from it.
- she is always ready to f*** no matter the time of day.
- she will cook for you with no hesitation
- doesnt nag about you having other chicks
- clean your place up

Tips, dont let her know she is a flatout 6 but dont treat her too nicely, do simple things for her at times and she will spoil you.

 

[coolgraymemo]

@coolgreymemo you dropped the ball on that one...go get those yambs man!

As soon as I realized what happened, I knew it. She was too far for me to casually catch up.


at myself in hindsight.

 

[mugen81]

Funny how after i typed this, i went out to go buy a suit. (going to holiday party next friday at a big company, going for the professional yambs)
So i'm in the store to go to the changing room. i try on the suit.. the girl there asian girl. keeps looking through the clothes at me.
(I'm in full confidence mode) gave my self a fresh cut and finally shaved my movember beard off.

so I call her over and just like. how does this look. this is the right grey right..
shes like "you look fine....i mean it looks fine"
i smiled say thank you young lady (she may of actually been my age or older, Asians look good for their ages)
go back in and change.. come out.
Say thank you. ask when can i get it taylored
she starts fumbling with the words while looking me dead in my eyes.

was too funny..
but I kept it moving, didn't ask for the number or anything..

Like i said. no point in being in Limbo during this QTR of the year. plus she didn't wow me, so no point of wasting her time and mine .


Just remember, people can feel your aura, if you walk in a place defeated people feel that. if you walk in like hey life is good and even if things are down they'll get better.. people feel that.

 

[coolgraymemo]

Spoiler: tl;dr

NT brahs,

Y'all really got me thinking.

I done messed up.

While I was talking, she would keep biting her bottom lip and making faces at me when I said something funny. It would catch me off guard and I'd stare at her lip.

I hate over thinking things.

 

[mugen81]

Spoiler: tl;dr

NT brahs,

Y'all really got me thinking.

I done messed up.

While I was talking, she would keep biting her bottom lip and making faces at me when I said something funny. It would catch me off guard and I'd stare at her lip.

I hate over thinking things.

 

[coolgraymemo]

Learn how to insert images brah.

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

[COLOR=#red]One thing I've had a lot of in my life is fine yambs....a few things I've never had are Lambs and Rari's. Yesterday I saw a pearl white Lambo driven by what seems to have been a regular everyday dude, and today I saw a Black Ferrari driven by a regular looking non-athlete type dude.

One of the reasons why I moved here was to eventually get into the social elite movers and shakers get money crew. I give myself 5 years to make that happen...I can see myself putting a little less into Yamb acquisition and more getting into the inner circle. Then of course when that happens The yambs will be more bountiful than ever.


Evolve my dudes...get better, never stay the same, dream big, work smart, achieve goals.

I'm out.[/COLOR]

 

[mugen81]

Learn how to insert images brah.

I guess you can't see it brah...
Don't be tight because u messed up...
If you take life too serious it will pass you by, plus if you are going to post in here make sure you aren't sensitive, it's all love in here and crying gets no sympathy from me....
CHUURCH
Edit: think I dropped to much advice/info for the past two days, lol
*back to the batcave*

 

[Coromanti]

 

Learn how to insert images brah.

Are you on chrome? It may be that because I can't see them either.

If you right click open new tab you can see it.

 

[coolgraymemo]

I guess you can't see it brah...
Don't be tight because u messed up...
If you take life too serious it will pass you by, plus if you are going to post in here make sure you aren't sensitive, it's all love in here and crying gets no sympathy from me....
CHUURCH
Edit: think I dropped to much advice/info for the past two days, lol
*back to the batcave*

I wasn't being sensitive.

I was just replying to your second post on this page in which the image does not work.

I had to right click to view the image.


Should work now:

Your welcome.

 

[joepac12]

Some of you guys need to master the seize the moment technique. A lot of fail due to overthinking and not acting. Count to 3 and make a move. Don't psyche yourself out over something really not that serious.

 

[BALH ENH]

Some of you guys need to master the seize the moment technique. A lot of fail due to overthinking and not acting. Count to 3 and make a move. Don't psyche yourself out over something really not that serious.

Ive froze up sooo many times. One time tho, it was just........man, i dont know what was wrong with me 

Hotel room. 3 *******. me plus 2 of my dawgs. They came from richmond just to chill with us. No shirt shawty, said i was fin licc her chest.....2 inches away and 5 seconds later, im up putting my pants on and rolled a blunt. Dude.....i just dont know what was wrong with me that night. She was baaaaaaaaaaad and small too. I wouldve thrown her tiny *** all around that ****. My first time talking about this since that night. The pain of feels is real.