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Man...speaking of AKA's...

Went to an apartment party last Saturday, (went with my boy, didn't know anyone there except one chick)

Saw one chick I knew in the joint, (an AKA) and started talking to her. We always talked in class but I never got at her. I never paid attention to those letters. Always talked to her like any regular chick, not on some groupie ****.

I had her giggling and what not, the conversation was flowing. Long story short I end up getting her number and we end up kicking it on Sunday at my place to watch the Cowboys/Giants game.

I'm in the UC (university center) today on campus and dude walks up to my table. (An Alpha)

Homie BLATANTLY says,

HIM: "I heard you and _____ got real familiar at the kickback. Don't think nothing of it though lil' homie, she needs an Alpha man."

ME: "Nah, obviously not since she was in my text messages. Fall back."

HIM: "If you're not A-Phi-A you're not worthy lil' *****."

ME: "Bruh...the first mistake you made was pledging Alpha. The second mistake you made was coming to my table. Fall back."

Dude looked like he wanted to punch me from there, but made no moves since security was around.

****** clown.
I feel u on that son u stood your ground to the lame.

There this 5'10 AKA number I need to get before the semester is over.
 
Man...speaking of AKA's...

Went to an apartment party last Saturday, (went with my boy, didn't know anyone there except one chick)

Saw one chick I knew in the joint, (an AKA) and started talking to her. We always talked in class but I never got at her. I never paid attention to those letters. Always talked to her like any regular chick, not on some groupie ****.

I had her giggling and what not, the conversation was flowing. Long story short I end up getting her number and we end up kicking it on Sunday at my place to watch the Cowboys/Giants game.

I'm in the UC (university center) today on campus and dude walks up to my table. (An Alpha)

Homie BLATANTLY says,

HIM: "I heard you and _____ got real familiar at the kickback. Don't think nothing of it though lil' homie, she needs an Alpha man."

ME: "Nah, obviously not since she was in my text messages. Fall back."

HIM: "If you're not A-Phi-A you're not worthy lil' *****."

ME: "Bruh...the first mistake you made was pledging Alpha. The second mistake you made was coming to my table. Fall back."

Dude looked like he wanted to punch me from there, but made no moves since security was around.

****** clown.
Those fraternity dudes actually act like that in college? :lol If I ever run into one of those type of dudes in college, and they try to talk down on me like that, I'm definitely standing my ground. Give a damb about some greek letters.
 
Use to date a AKA..
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Rare, it depends on the person.

Aside from today I've had nothing but good experiences with people involved in Greek life, so I respect it.

But you will come across someone in a fraternity/sorority that you may or may not have disagreements with, just as you would any other person in life.
 
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possible unpopular opinion

"good girls" are the worst, they have no self respect, no confidence. They treat themselves like a cow, some specie of live stock that needs to be persevered and sold at its fattest.

its an uncouth opinion and I never say it in mixed company, but i could give a **** about a good girl, how many sexual parters a girl has had before me, if shes a "****" or not, all irrelevant.
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In a public setting like a bar or club what is ya'll takes on the amount of conversation before making a move? I feel the sooner you attempt to pull the number, the better 

you pull to early, you wont get a response, you`ll get a flake, you get the number when you get her to feel some feeling of investment, how long it takes to get that level is up to you and your conversational skills.


you don`t get that attachment the number is worthless.

when your young young you value how many numbers you pick up, but experience you learn, quality. all you will get is flakes if you just try an pick up numbers.
 
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a chick told me this while we were having sex once...I took of the condom and demanded head right there. lol sloppy top was given


From my experience many females say that to be "GOOD GIRLS". when we all know they do. :lol

Ask them where they want you to finish while they reach their O. 9/10 they'll say the mouth.
Man I remember the first time I asked, I wasnt even close to finishing til she said that. Couldnt even make it to her mouth :lol
 
In a public setting like a bar or club what is ya'll takes on the amount of conversation before making a move? I feel the sooner you attempt to pull the number, the better 

you pull to early, you wont get a response, you`ll get a flake, you get the number when you get her to feel some feeling of investment, how long it takes to get that level is up to you and your conversational skills.


you don`t get that attachment the number is worthless.

when your young young you value how many numbers you pick up, but experience you learn, quality. all you will get is flakes if you just try an pick up numbers.

Will not dispute that quality >> quantity

But getting a # quickly doesn't mean that you have to end the convo or can't talk to her later

I like asking early bc it let's her know the deal and I can find out if she is available/interested
 
Will not dispute that quality >> quantity

But getting a # quickly doesn't mean that you have to end the convo or can't talk to her later

I like asking early bc it let's her know the deal and I can find out if she is available/interested

See but in my mind, you MAKE them interested throught your actions and conversational skills, I guess your right in a sense when you ask it it is not as important as did you put in the charm.

ultimately the point im trying to make is the # is not the goal, seeing outside the club/bar is the goal.

the # is worthless, without the charm/game to make her see you again.
 
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I definitely feel that aspect.

But I don't want to waste time trying to charm a chick if

1) she has a boyfriend
2) she's not interested physically

Don't they say women decide very early on if they are interested? It's just our job not to blow it
 
Maybe it's just the schools I attended but fraternity guys are clowns and so are the women in the sororities. I just never saw a point in jointing such an organization. I don't need brotherhood and all that.
 
When done right, frats/sororities are legit and can do a lot of great things. When done wrong, you get the stereotypical stuff that most people hear about. I wasn't in one, but had a lot of friends who joined, and dated a chick from before her rushing, all the way through her becoming a member and so on.
 
I definitely feel that aspect.

But I don't want to waste time trying to charm a chick if

1) she has a boyfriend
2) she's not interested physically

Don't they say women decide very early on if they are interested? It's just our job not to blow it

1. No way, imo, if you act right, are funny/charming/know how to tell a good story they will become interested, girls say that **** because 90% of guys who approach them, approach them with basic **** so they need an excuse to blow them off.

2. a girl in a serious relationship will let you know, if she doesn't let you know and is in a club sans boy friend then it doesn't matter, very pretty girls are rarely just straight up single they don't have the self confidence for that, they move from guy to guy.
 
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1. Idk man. If the girl is attracted to you then it's pretty much up to you not to mess it up. You really don't have to do anything special. I say this from experience as I don't consider my mouthpiece that strong yet I have no problems pulling and smashing. If they find you attractive just don't be weird and you're good

Of course having game helps especially for those who don't stand out physically.

2. Chicks like attention and many will not bring up their man until you ask for the digits.
 
When done right, frats/sororities are legit and can do a lot of great things. When done wrong, you get the stereotypical stuff that most people hear about. I wasn't in one, but had a lot of friends who joined, and dated a chick from before her rushing, all the way through her becoming a member and so on.
They definitely change afterwards. Like they become a whole new person
 
The one I was dating didn't, but I saw a hell of a lot of women (and dudes for that matter) turn into a whole completely different people. Always found that interesting knowing somebody the 1st year, they pledge, and you see them lets say junior year, and more often than not, they're somebody else
 
Don't they say women decide very early on if they are interested? It's just our job not to blow it

that is true. now women can be on 50/50 side about you. and that's where the charm and funny can help you out. but yes a woman knows if she wants to continue what you're trying to achieve with in 5 mins of convo
 
Maybe it's just the schools I attended but fraternity guys are clowns and so are the women in the sororities. I just never saw a point in jointing such an organization. I don't need brotherhood and all that.

agreed

sorority chicks are usually the finest ones out here though, I will say that
 
Man Friday I had this 36 yr old come through, legit squirter. Talks too much and over stayed her welcome.

Then Saturday comes and I meet this girl at Wet Willies and go in for literally 4 minutes just for her and her friends to decide they're leaving. So we leave (I take my car and she rides with her friends) and go to this hookah that's no bigger than my apt. So after about 6 minutes there me and her leave and I convince her to go back to my spot to watch a movie. Nothing happened....she fell asleep on one couch and me on the other
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As you already heard separate couches is a no no.  If you didn't really want it, why have her come back to your place.  You just wasted your time, could of been at the Cougar spot getting another one.
a chick told me this while we were having sex once...I took of the condom and demanded head right there. lol sloppy top was given
DAMN, said you "demanded" head on the SPOT.  LMAO.
Man...speaking of AKA's...


****** clown.
Yeah some of the dudes do be takin it a little far when they join a frat.  The same can be said about any organization dudes join, some military guys are like that as well.
agreed

sorority chicks are usually the finest ones out here though, I will say that
They also are a little crazy, one did pull the kitchen knife out once.  DAMN crazy AKA's, now we are cool and friends on FB.  SMH.
 
:rollin @ the frat/sorority talk


I know all about that **** and at an HBCU! **** some letters, stepping, and all that other foolishness. **** was lowkey like a 21st century School Daze. My junior year, I was talkin to this chick who just crossed as a Delta, broad thought she was thee ****. She swore I was head over heels in love with her, but nah. I talked to her about 2 or 3 months, but never got the draws. It's something about that aura that some people get when they cross, when ain't **** change, they're still a lame.
 
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A lot of em let it get to their head but some don't change....the ones who change is kinda funny :lol
 
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