- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
I'll write what happened when I get on a computer.
It appears as though I wasn't the only one trying to get at her.
It appears as though I wasn't the only one trying to get at her.
- Status
- Mar 22, 2003
- 30,360
- 19,098
And ur surprised?
- Jun 13, 2012
- 659
- 257
You snooze, you lose.
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
How it went down.
I got to class a little early (~ 30 minutes before class started). I was sitting at some benches near the entrance. TA walks by, I'm assuming she's going to sit in the empty seat near me. Nope.
She continues walking and sits way at the other end. This is when I posted "Nice blow to my self esteem."
I was like you know, forget it. She maybe didn't see me (it would be hard not to notice me since I was sitting directly in front of the stairs, but oh well).
Go on to class.
Class ends, I walk up to her and ask her if we're still meeting after class. She tells me to wait for a few minutes while she says bye to the professor (last day of class).
We're walking upstairs looking for a place to sit. We end up finding two empty chairs. This whole time we're talking about something off topic. She starts telling me how she's really busy and has no time for anything else. This comes off as weird since the other times I had chatted with her, she took her time.
We sit down, I ask her some BS questions about the assignment. She gives me her advice. She starts writing on my paper. At this point, I'm about to say, "Just put your phone number on there," but resist. I'm still thinking I'll give her my number once our conversation ends.
Before I'm even done with my questions, she starts packing her stuff up to leave. So I do the same. I walk her over and say "You've been a lot of help, let me get you some coffee" (or something along those lines). She makes some excuse about having to go home or being in a rush.
I'm like okay. I rip of piece of paper I have in my backpack and start writing my number on it. She notices and says, "I really have to go bye." I say, "Let me finish real quick." At this point she's like ten feet away and she just says bye.
So I'm standing there like an idiot holding a piece a paper.
She was acting a lot different than the other times I had spoken to her. I'm not sure if she had a sudden change of heart or what.
Feels batman.
She continues walking and sits way at the other end. This is when I posted "Nice blow to my self esteem."
I was like you know, forget it. She maybe didn't see me (it would be hard not to notice me since I was sitting directly in front of the stairs, but oh well).
Go on to class.
Class ends, I walk up to her and ask her if we're still meeting after class. She tells me to wait for a few minutes while she says bye to the professor (last day of class).
We're walking upstairs looking for a place to sit. We end up finding two empty chairs. This whole time we're talking about something off topic. She starts telling me how she's really busy and has no time for anything else. This comes off as weird since the other times I had chatted with her, she took her time.
We sit down, I ask her some BS questions about the assignment. She gives me her advice. She starts writing on my paper. At this point, I'm about to say, "Just put your phone number on there," but resist. I'm still thinking I'll give her my number once our conversation ends.
Before I'm even done with my questions, she starts packing her stuff up to leave. So I do the same. I walk her over and say "You've been a lot of help, let me get you some coffee" (or something along those lines). She makes some excuse about having to go home or being in a rush.
I'm like okay. I rip of piece of paper I have in my backpack and start writing my number on it. She notices and says, "I really have to go bye." I say, "Let me finish real quick." At this point she's like ten feet away and she just says bye.
So I'm standing there like an idiot holding a piece a paper.
She was acting a lot different than the other times I had spoken to her. I'm not sure if she had a sudden change of heart or what.
Feels batman.
Learn from my mistake.
In the walk of shame from where she left me standing to my bike:
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
I wasn't really worried about the other guy. This dude was ugly; like ugly. Looked like he was 30+ years old.
- Apr 30, 2010
- 73,373
- 114,809
Lesson I was trying to tell young Rare is that there are older more mature wolves out there who've refined their game and will push it into overdrive when they realize they might lose their prey. Smh at spending time worrying about how he looked.
- Jun 25, 2011
- 474
- 36
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
He was trying to get at her after class, but failed like I did.
Critiquing dude on his looks was me being mad.
- Jul 31, 2012
- 5,892
- 6,287
Last edited:
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
- Mar 3, 2012
- 23,082
- 8,730
I'm not going to say anything negative about your situation, just live and learn homie.
you cant wait take action...
On a deeper note, No one is promised tomorrow.
To think about the past or the future is not living.. you live today. day by day, hour by hour , min by min, sec by sec.
don't miss out on anything because you may never get a chance to do it.
Live life to the fullest, you only have 1.
you cant wait take action...
On a deeper note, No one is promised tomorrow.
To think about the past or the future is not living.. you live today. day by day, hour by hour , min by min, sec by sec.
don't miss out on anything because you may never get a chance to do it.
Live life to the fullest, you only have 1.
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
I am completely at fault for what happened. Not pointing fingers.
Live and learn.
Live and learn.
- Apr 12, 2011
- 4,903
- 1,147
A wise man who might have been on weed or codine once said
"Girls are like buses, miss one next 15 one coming"
"Girls are like buses, miss one next 15 one coming"
joepac12
Banned
- Jul 20, 2012
- 3,969
- 658
Damn gray. Next time don't think so much and act more. Women can sense confidence and love it.
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
I'm not going to lie. I'm pretty bummed.
Not bummed at the rejection, but bummed as to how it went down.
The "I should have..." thoughts are killing me.
Confidence was high all day, then it was gradually knocked down to where we are now.
Not bummed at the rejection, but bummed as to how it went down.
The "I should have..." thoughts are killing me.
Confidence was high all day, then it was gradually knocked down to where we are now.
- Sep 10, 2009
- 6,182
- 1,951
I'm not going to lie. I'm pretty bummed.
Not bummed at the rejection, but bummed as to how it went down.
The "I should have..." thoughts are killing me.
Confidence was high all day, then it was gradually knocked down to where we are now.
next time don't take an entire semester to build your confidence for ONE broad.
you were in here telling us how you thought she was feelin you while she was out there
remaining unplucked. i'm 99.9% sure another dude got in her guts or made his move
and now she has no desire to mess w/ you. lesson learned bro.
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
next time don't take an entire semester to build your confidence for ONE broad.
you were in here telling us how you thought she was feelin you while she was out there
remaining unplucked. i'm 99.9% sure another dude got in her guts or made his move
and now she has no desire to mess w/ you. lesson learned bro.
I wasn't trying the entire semester.
This was only the past few weeks.
Last edited:
- Sep 10, 2009
- 6,182
- 1,951
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
Now I know.
- Sep 10, 2009
- 6,182
- 1,951
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
- Mar 3, 2012
- 23,082
- 8,730
I think a good confident building exercise is just making small talk with strangers. mainly girls at stores. don't have to shoot shots at them, just say something jokingly.
Everytime i go to Wal-mart or the grocery store, I usually say the same thing all the time, just to get the girls talking.
"Damn that's the price, you got this for me...........Never gets cheaper does it"
never fails for a smile, and you can just pay and go about your business. just a confident builder to actually talk.
so next time you're presented with an opportunity for something you actually want, you have that confidence
Everytime i go to Wal-mart or the grocery store, I usually say the same thing all the time, just to get the girls talking.
"Damn that's the price, you got this for me...........Never gets cheaper does it"
never fails for a smile, and you can just pay and go about your business. just a confident builder to actually talk.
so next time you're presented with an opportunity for something you actually want, you have that confidence
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
To change the topic --
How do you guys react when a woman approaches you and asks for your number?
I've had a few sub-par women ask me for my number. It usually catches me off guard and I just give it to them.
What are your defensive strategies?
How do you guys react when a woman approaches you and asks for your number?
I've had a few sub-par women ask me for my number. It usually catches me off guard and I just give it to them.
What are your defensive strategies?
- Jun 1, 2013
- 8,715
- 5,392
1. Give number
2. Wait for her to text
3. Set something up
4. Smash
5. ???
6. Profit
Last edited:
- May 9, 2008
- 8,779
- 495
I'm talking about the uglies.
Should I just ignore the question and walk away (like they did to me)? .
Should I just ignore the question and walk away (like they did to me)?
.
Last edited:
- Status
