My girl dad and sister are in town, her sister is cool but her dad is annoying. So we already fist fought, he was drunk and said some disrespectful things. His wife of 30 years died and he's taking bipolar meds, he decides not to take them thos trip. He also decides he wants to smoke and fit in with the "cool crowd", I do not smoke and rarely drink. Anyway, I lost my cash in a cab ride, $800 and my girl was pissed. So she said she'll have to get her bank card from upstairs, meanwhile the cabby asks if anyone else has money, her sis paid for the cab ride earlier which was $35 she gave me two 20's. So when I ran to the atm I grabbed her $35. Back at the cab now I ask sis for the $5 back to make it an even $35...Dad didnt understand. Father gets riled up "why are you asking my daughters for money?"...this after $200 in lunch and dinner meals, walking around Wall Street and Chinatown all day in the cold after he complained every step of the way...even though it was his idea....so flash forward back to the cab tangent I snapped and told him "shut the f up" and threw the money in his face and went for a walk. My girl calls me and I shoot her to voice mail, then she texts me and tells me he's tearing up my apartment. Apparently he broke my office door, threw his daughter suitcase down the steps and told her he'd slap her is she didnt get her **** cause he's leaving. I tried to remain calm, then I find out he called my brother the n-word for trying to break up the argument between my girl her sister and him. Still remaining calm for about 40mins while he stomps around MY apartment throwing **** and swearing scaring my neighbors...after it was clear he didnt respect anyone's opinion and the liquor and herb has him feeling mighty, I just snapped and pieced him up then hemmed him up. He broke down cried and went on about his wife and how it's stressful doing Christmas without her and he's all alone. I felt bad but I was heated because some of the stuff he couldnt take back. Then, he has Hep-C...this whole week he's been trying to offer everyone food he ate off of, using my shavers, trying to kiss my girl on the lips, coughing and hacking all over my diabetic table full of lancets and what not. Now I'm laying in the bed as I type and look out in the living area and he's opening the Dolce I bought my girl sniffing it, playing with my headphones, drinking my almond milk out the carton...I am beyond heated...cant wait until tomorrow. Gonna miss my girl sis cause she super cool but this guy is wearing me down. Sorry for the long read, feel free to share your rants in this thread...even after the holidays.