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Y'all go to the club wit y'all girls? Why would you bring sand to the beach?
What Do You Think of Letting Your Girl Go Clubbing Without You?
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Originally Posted by PUSHA x Vinsanity
You can say you're giving your chick freedom and letting her go out and dance with whoever she wants, but even if SHE knows she's not hooking up with any other dude, them thirsty mother #+*!@+# at the bar and on the dancefloor aren't thinking that. No, sir. They think they got all the money and game in the world to still score some action. However, if you start overdosing on the cuffing and demands, then she's gonna go against what you're requesting even more. And maybe she'll even start going on purpose with the intention of finding a new man. And THAT'S when the "dancing" can get interesting. Because you know she'll eventually start with the "I'm just trying to have some fun and get away from relationship stress" to some dude, and he'll reply with the "Well you need a new man." And like someone else said, then she'll be "going over to a friend's house" way more often...I swear there's literally no right answer for this subject.
On a sidenote, the dudes that DO tick me off are the ones who know damn well that your girl has a man from the jump, but they'll still bug her for that phone number all night long, and finally resort to the "Well lemme just hit you up to go dancing another time then" speech. Then those late-night texts start comin' in each weekend when you and the woman are laying in bed. Those ones she glances at over edge of the bed at a certain angle so you can't read it, in case it's inappropriate. Talkin' bout, "Hey babe! I'm drunk at the club and you're not here. I miss you! We need to see each other again!"
The club got too many lames and beasting dudes to be completely fine with your girlfriend going and mingling with friends. Even when they're out for a "Girls Night," there will always be some cat who thinks he'll sweep a girl off her feet. And I guess that's the little ounce of "what if..." running through your mind. You never know what could happen if alcohol is involved. It's just up to your girlfriend how to address these dudes and send them packing, or prove that she's trustworthy. I suppose the club really can expose the genuineness of a relationship, in a sense. Just don't let it RUIN one either, by overthinking situations.
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My girl has gone out to clubs without me.I don't mind at all.I hate the club scene and I don't really like to dance.
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if you "let" your girl do things without you, then you have a problem. you can not have a problem with her doing things without you though.
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depends on how she was in the past
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damn son, you aint never danced with a chick without a hard on? as a rule i keep the beast at bay when dancing with a lady until i know shes down.
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Go.
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when i had a girl i didnt like it but i trust my d game was enough to keep her not wanting to go and get it anywhere else.
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You've never touched a female outside of your family in your entire life tho
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i tell my girl to go cause going to a packed club is not my idea of fun. she usually goes with her best friend - if she wants to be around sweaty folks andloud music then more power to her. i'll stay at home in my pj's watching basketball, football or whatever.
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Yeeoooo, your girl shouldnt even want to go to the club if shes down with you, that is unless youre doing it wrong. I dont know how other chicks do it thesedays, I'm an old head but thats a definite no no. same goes for him.
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Tagged pics of you in the club
ham city
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Nah keep the pics.
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How old are you? You don't look old.
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this is exactly what im thinkin man.Originally Posted by JuJu
damn son, you aint never danced with a chick without a hard on? as a rule i keep the beast at bay when dancing with a lady until i know shes down.
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what do you want him/her to say??? I would side with Big Dreams on this.....but then again I could careless if my girl steps out of the house andcheats on me, I would rather find out now than find out down the road.....
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lmao at "letting"
anyway, i hate clubs...but i feel like trust is key.
anyway, i hate clubs...but i feel like trust is key.
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I let my girl go to clubs when she wants. I trust her, sometimes she'll say stuff that makes me not cool with it but its whatever. I can't live my lifeworring about dudes trying to take my girl.
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i hate going to the club. but since when is permission to be requested?
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I'd be cool with it if I knew I could trust her and her friends. I mean, I'm not a jealous person anyway.
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I D0NT PASS wrote:
as long as she aint going to no west indian club then its all good
You'd be madder than a mug if she was tagged in a facebook vid getting worked like this
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^
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You'd be madder than a mug if she was tagged in a facebook vid getting worked like this
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