She is spot on when she say girls should stop nagging. Seriously, it goes nowhere... In my past relationships; I just get fed up and don't want to deal with it. It also makes the girl seem clingy. I rather eat a home cook meal then to receive an anniversary gift and there is never a bad timing when it comes to getting top offd.
Even with the lack of eloquence and the primary suggestion of daily fellatio (for which some girls may not feel inclined to).
She's got a point though. Just be yourself, learn about your partner and take care of him/her instead of frivolously wasting energy complaining about irrelevant stuff.