i think you should take charge and tell her whats next.. i would take her to a movie on the first date.... id take her to get some food at a nie restaurant because that tells her that shes worth it/special...(do it if she is) cause you actually talk to her as opposed to a movie where you watch something in silence and very talk is exchanged.. i went on a date last week and i took her out to lunch to a very nice rastaurant and she told all her friends she had a good time cause we talked and jokedaround but at the movies, you cant really do that..
You're never supposed to take a female to see a movie on your first date Also you need to have plans, you look real amateur with the "so what do you want to do now?" line.