Whats with females not wanting to share their husbands last name, though?

[phil le0tard0]

Where did these two females come from? Which one of you suckas brought them over here?

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.

Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.

Is it really THAT serious though?

I don't understand this response to my post. Exactly what about my post implied seriousness? Or is somebody looking like a sucka "serious" to you?

Why does a woman not (or half) taking the man's name a sign of the man losing any sort of machismo

 

[rudemiester]

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.

Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.

Is it really THAT serious though?

I don't understand this response to my post. Exactly what about my post implied seriousness? Or is somebody looking like a sucka "serious" to you?

Why does a woman not (or half) taking the man's name a sign of the man losing any sort of machismo

Its an outside looking in thing. Because of tradition when we (men) think about marriage, its ideally the man being...a man. Being the sole breadwinnerbasically, while the woman plays the housewife role. Of course in todays society things are way different and most women make as much or more than most malesbut men still see the future in that way.. No man looks forward to being emasculated.

 

[julian wright]

Originally Posted by cocolicious

I can buy my own ring

 

[Master Zik]

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.

Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.

Is it really THAT serious though?

I don't understand this response to my post. Exactly what about my post implied seriousness? Or is somebody looking like a sucka "serious" to you?

Why does a woman not (or half) taking the man's name a sign of the man losing any sort of machismo

Didn't say that.

sucka (sucker)
n. (Slang) One who is easily deceived, gullible person, dupe; generic person or thing (used to specify an object without calling it by name)

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by Rudemiester

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.

Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.

Is it really THAT serious though?

I don't understand this response to my post. Exactly what about my post implied seriousness? Or is somebody looking like a sucka "serious" to you?

Why does a woman not (or half) taking the man's name a sign of the man losing any sort of machismo

Its an outside looking in thing. Because of tradition when we (men) think about marriage, its ideally the man being...a man. Being the sole breadwinner basically, while the woman plays the housewife role. Of course in todays society things are way different and most women make as much or more than most males but men still see the future in that way.. No man looks forward to being emasculated.

I guess if that's you feel.
If you're taking care of business though and you know you're a man. That shouldn't be an issue.

 

[los benjaminz]

If I get married my wife def. needs to have my last name I'll b damned.

 

[mangudai954]

Lotta people catching feelings in here

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.

Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.

Is it really THAT serious though?

I don't understand this response to my post. Exactly what about my post implied seriousness? Or is somebody looking like a sucka "serious" to you?

Why does a woman not (or half) taking the man's name a sign of the man losing any sort of machismo

Didn't say that.

sucka (sucker)
n. (Slang) One who is easily deceived, gullible person, dupe; generic person or thing (used to specify an object without calling it by name)

You know doggone well that when a man is being called a "sucka", it's meant to imply emasculation to a certain degree.

 

[j dilla himself]

Nyota, what do you look like?..pm me a pic or something, though

 

[queencitysneakerqueen]

It's not a big deal to me I'll take his last name

 

[kim1]

Originally Posted by thytkerjobs

the only way i wouldnt take his last name is if it rhymed with my 1st name. No way in hell im gonna be called alyssa salissa or somethin like that for the rest of my life.

I agree
I'll def take my husband's last name
If it rhymed with my first name, then we have to come up with something

 

[Johnny_Cakes]

My family, my name, my rules.

 

[jordanpheen]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

I met this lady off here and she said if she gets married, she would want to keep her last name i stonefaced her and realized its been a trend. What are some reasons they would want to keep their last name since its been a known tradition to take the last name of thy husband

Originally Posted by cocolicious

I don't see why someone has to change their last name, what's wrong with keeping it.

If you guys are trying to keep things a secret, youre doing a horrible job.

right

 

[bonafide hustla]

pretty lame how chicks be trying to play both sides of that independent women ishh. its really biologically ridiculous to talk about a woman being outrightindependent. these emotional creatures are not wired/built for it.


then we get to talkin about double standards and chicks only want to talk about ishh that benefits them. men gotta be chivalrous and this and that. well getyo #%# out there and cut some grass. lay that expensive #%# jacket in the mud, whenever someone threatens the family, pull out that heat and ride on em withno hesitation. $@%*+ ridiculous. we talk about double standards all the time but only the ones that benefit women. end of the day shut up and deal with it.

 

[lrrr]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Lotta people catching feelings in here

It almost feels lite its moar than teh internet.

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by bonafide hustla

pretty lame how chicks be trying to play both sides of that independent women ishh. its really biologically ridiculous to talk about a woman being outright independent. these emotional creatures are not wired/built for it.


then we get to talkin about double standards and chicks only want to talk about ishh that benefits them. men gotta be chivalrous and this and that. well get yo #%# out there and cut some grass. lay that expensive #%# jacket in the mud, whenever someone threatens the family, pull out that heat and ride on em with no hesitation. $@%*+ ridiculous. we talk about double standards all the time but only the ones that benefit women. end of the day shut up and deal with it.

Wow. You're serious?

 

[Master Zik]

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.

Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.

Is it really THAT serious though?

I don't understand this response to my post. Exactly what about my post implied seriousness? Or is somebody looking like a sucka "serious" to you?

Why does a woman not (or half) taking the man's name a sign of the man losing any sort of machismo

Didn't say that.

sucka (sucker)
n. (Slang) One who is easily deceived, gullible person, dupe; generic person or thing (used to specify an object without calling it by name)

You know doggone well that when a man is being called a "sucka", it's meant to imply emasculation to a certain degree.

Yall stay re-inventing words

. It's just a commonnegative word similar to a loser, or a stupid person. Like a chick getting you to eat her box and she doesn't return the favor. Sucka

Emasculation isn't what I thought of when I saw "I'm Gonna Git You Sucka"

Females can be suckas too.

 

[mytmouse76]

Originally Posted by Th3RealF0lkBlu3s

My family, my name, my rules.

 

[Master Zik]

Originally Posted by Kim1

Originally Posted by thytkerjobs

the only way i wouldnt take his last name is if it rhymed with my 1st name. No way in hell im gonna be called alyssa salissa or somethin like that for the rest of my life.

I agree
I'll def take my husband's last name
If it rhymed with my first name, then we have to come up with something

What if his last name is "Blows" or "Gettsoff"???

I knew a Julie Gettsoff in JHS

She legally changed her name.

 

[kim1]

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Kim1

Originally Posted by thytkerjobs

the only way i wouldnt take his last name is if it rhymed with my 1st name. No way in hell im gonna be called alyssa salissa or somethin like that for the rest of my life.

I agree
I'll def take my husband's last name
If it rhymed with my first name, then we have to come up with something

What if his last name is "Blows" or "Gettsoff"???

I knew a Julie Gettsoff in JHS

She legally changed her name.

I would hope he would legally change his name like Julie did or I'm not taking that

 

[myhandstank]

i swear the new age woman is confused

 

[mytmouse76]

confused about what?

no one is saying they won't take on what are considered wifely duties...we're talking about a last name...

FTR i don't care...i'll take the last name...

 

[diego]

Im willing to bet that the women who argue the most against taking their husband's last name are the ones that are the most subservient to their man inreal life.
They just get on the internet to turn a blind eye to their reality.

 

[cocolicious]

^ not me