Today I saw a very very young mamacita witha much older guy at this hotel. Why would she be attracted to him?
i know 2 chicks that were like that at the time, 1 girl was 17. the guy was 25 another one, girl was 20. dude is 33
Men and women enter the intimacy stage of development at different ages. Women much younger than men, hence age differences in a lot of relationships. It doesn't have much or anything to do with money. See Erik Erikson's theory
I disagree with these respectfully... Men and women are in different places socially as they progress thru life... 22 year old man is looked at differently from a 22 year old woman.... Men gain status with money .... And money comes with career advancement... And career advancement GENERALLY comes with age.... I think it's less about looking for a daddy.. And more looking for a provider.
Not always about money. Older dudes been around the block a few times so they know exactly what younger birds want to hear. And most importantly how they want to hear it.
Immersing opinions. I think the younger woman feel the older man can protect and provide for them especially if they have a good career
Best way to get in some drawers is talk a good game. Older you get, if you had game as a teen it just gets better with age. Also SD/SB situations which is not romantic generally, escorts, or unofficial SD/SB setups where it's just a chick who likes a guy to buy her stuff and dates him for it. Also maturity/confidence. Older I get the less I hit on women. The more women tryin jump on my jock. They can just sense that 'i could give a ****' attitude and want to chase after it. When I was 20 wildin' after every coed at every party I was just making mistakes left 'n right and didn't know how to close. I'm 32 now. I don't even open the conversation with most dimes, body language/eye contact and they bit the hook and are comin to say hi to me, I never said a word. Just a tip. Never hit on a girl at a bar. Not AT the bar at least. If she dogs you then most of the other girls at the bar/party saw that and now you're damaged goods. Play above the game like you don't need it or get her to come to you by flirtin with eyes and then you avoid that situation. Girls don't wanna go home with the guy that just got shot down by 3 girls straight (a. you look like a tool. b. she'll feel second rate since you're workin your way down the line of quality most likely) aight i'm done. note: SD/SB is sugar daddy/sugar baby
There is truth in both of these. I hear it from young females all the time. It's like these young dudes have nothing for them. On any level. Young Dominican girl I used to work with has a crush on Rakim all of a sudden after whatever award show just "honored" him. She's like "no one under 25 even has swagger like that".