Why Is Sex/sexuality so taboo?

Discussion in 'General' started by shortydoowopp, Mar 10, 2009.

  1. shortydoowopp

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    I was watching TaxiCab Confessions one day and a guy dressed like a woman hopped in the backseat and was telling the driver about his life. Turns out he ismarried and his wife is ok with him dressing like a woman and performing oral sex on other men. He didn't tell her until after they were married that heliked to dress as a woman and be a male escort. He said that she said she loves him so she accepted him as he was. I'm sittin here watching like "ifa _ ever said some *#$@ to me like that after we got married i'm goin off." I was thinking how embarrassed I'd be knowing my husband dressed likea woman and liked having oral sex with men and having sex with women. My question to NT is why is stuff like this looked down upon? I remember when it cameout that Will and Jada could be swingers people weren't really to happy to hear that. If people are taking care of business at home and everyone isconsenting why are these types of "lifestyle" looked down upon? Maybe its an American thing maybe not. Either way why? This is like the 4th postI've ever made on NT.
     
  2. blackmagnus514

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    i meant: Hard to believe, BUT America is based on Judeo Christian values
     
  3. failedtakeover

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    its alright man we know its you and you just posted "your" problem hoping to get advice
     
  4. shortydoowopp

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    Some crazy stuff is on that show, but maybe its just me being sexually sheltered or something.


    failedtakeover you got me homie...i'm not sure how to tell my girl...
     
  5. im cool c

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    To the OP your whole paragraph is one big contradiction.
     
  6. dr spaceman

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    Religion.
     
  7. shortydoowopp

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    ^how?
     
  8. ogmikey

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    Because you don't want to see a majority of Americans naked.
     
  9. club29

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    I dont think I could ever be a swinger.

    Knowing that someone else is putting their hands on my lady would drive me nuts.
     
  10. datznasty

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    Yep, and the irony is that despite being the most prude, hypersensitive society when it comes to sex, we have the most sex related problems (STDs,Teen pregnancy, etc.) compared to other developed nations.

    Go to Germany, they put the nude girly mags right in front of the register by the kid's candies, and with no covers over the nasty parts or anything. Theygot Cinemax style porn on in the day time, skinnydip even in public pools, kids running around drinking Laugers, and have no problem at all with profanity.There's this one song matter of fact, no idea what it's called but when the chorus gets to the part that goes, "Alice! Alice! Who the !@!% isAlice!" they go wild over there. I swear on everything you'll see 4 year old standing on the table reciting that part in front of their parents, noproblem.
     
  11. bjamez20

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    yup, and that's what keeps me from messing around behind my girls back - i wouldnt want her to feel that way either
     
  12. ev209

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    i could care less about the man next to me just dont tell me about it because stuff like that is just gross[​IMG]
     
  13. shortydoowopp

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    I'm not talking about being promiscuous because alot of people have got that down. I'm talking about transvestites & swinging or that type ofstuff. In all honesty as long as everyone is consenting safe why is this stuff kept behind closed doors?
     
  14. sn00pee

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    because [most] people are afraid of what they dont know/dont understand.
     
  15. ericberry14

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    No... its not
     
  16. young dr0

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    I promise when I got to the end of her post I was thinking the same thing.
     
  17. shortydoowopp

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    how is it a contradiction...
     
  18. jordanhead2

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    *looks at sn*


    failed
     
  19. joshhassolex

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    this country was founded by prudes
     
  20. upstateboibeats

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    because of pee pees and who hah's.




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    this is yours 1350 post, not 4th. But i know u meant thread...just wanted to be THAT guy.
     
  21. fear the ibis

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    You thought NT would be a good place to discuss this topic Sheena? [​IMG]
     
  22. jomitm

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    yeah...i mean, sure the "NT easy answer" is "hell yea i'd be a swinger i'm a pimp like that sonnnnn!!!!11,"
    if you're in a real loving relationship, wouldn't it bother you that other dudes be all up on your girl like that?

    i don't know bout y'all but i sure damn would.
     
  23. pr1nts

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  24. three6mafia2007

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    yep
     
  25. an dee 51o

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    In all honestly, it's not really even that much of a taboo subject any more. I mean, look at the type of things they have on TV nowadays. You have a showlike Gossip Girl basically centering around the promiscuity of high schoolers. The only thing that continues to be off-limits is probably incest.