- Mar 5, 2005
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i forget the exact aphorism but its something like
the magic of ones first love is the ignorance that it can ever end.
the magic of ones first love is the ignorance that it can ever end.
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Was with my ex for 5 years and a half, my first everything. Did me quite dirty. Had a sidepiece for a year and a half on and off without me knowing at all, until she told me. He wanted to make it work. I refused to give another chance to such an act for betrayal and such disrespect.So I left him. Well, he then fell back on her.Originally Posted by PRIME
We were together for 3 years and she cheated on me. I was young, so I tried to forgive her and give us another shot, but then she turned on me again but the next time it was with a female. I never looked at women the same way again.
Even now, after being in some serious long term relationships I never really got over that first real love I found myself consumed in, and I never gave a girl 100% of me. I'm always defensive and making sure I'm not being played. I cannot allow myself to be consumed by a girl or her box.
Originally Posted by Young Handsome
I never had one...
Originally Posted by JordanHead718212
I still think about her from time to time, I wonder if she does the same![]()
Three months and you was in love.Originally Posted by ksteezy
Originally Posted by SpeakUp23
Originally Posted by ksteezy
i married her....lol
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This girl I dated about 2 years ago. Probably the most perfect girl (for me). Everything I could want. Light skinned Dominican chick, smart, mad chill, funny, dorky, similar interests, beautiful little short body, cute little butt. Honestly if I could have ANY girl on this planet, and I mean ANY, before Rihanna, before Lima, it would probably be her, I kid you not. But yea, I think I was lightweight in love with her. We dated for about 3 months but I guess I wasn't good enough for her and in the end she broke my heart (twice). I cried and cried and all that stuff. Took me about a year to get over her. Now she has a boyfriend and he is the luckiest man on the planet. I hope he knows that
Originally Posted by 8PM at MSG
We don't even speak anymore. I do miss her from time to time though.
Originally Posted by ksteezy
NO bro, shes the most unluckiest woman on the planet to have left you!Originally Posted by SpeakUp23
Originally Posted by ksteezy
i married her....lol
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This girl I dated about 2 years ago. Probably the most perfect girl (for me). Everything I could want. Light skinned Dominican chick, smart, mad chill, funny, dorky, similar interests, beautiful little short body, cute little butt. Honestly if I could have ANY girl on this planet, and I mean ANY, before Rihanna, before Lima, it would probably be her, I kid you not. But yea, I think I was lightweight in love with her. We dated for about 3 months but I guess I wasn't good enough for her and in the end she broke my heart (twice). I cried and cried and all that stuff. Took me about a year to get over her. Now she has a boyfriend and he is the luckiest man on the planet. I hope he knows that![]()
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Lightweight. I THINK I loved her. She was perfection in my eyes. I was like a guy who got exactly what I wanted. When I was with her was the first and last time I said out loud that life was great.Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Three months and you was in love.![]()
Can't expect women to confront situations like this son....a good number of women are simply cowards, nothing more.Originally Posted by Girl Thats Drob
Yeah it sucks![]()
Dated for 8 months and we were obsessed with each other. Malaysian/Cape Verdean (I think that's how you say it?) she was pretty
.The P was![]()
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. We were dating/seeing each other for 8 months.![]()
Took her out to dinner before she went back to school a month ago (she goes to school out of state) at this fancy %%% restaurant ended up dropping a bill. Turns out her fam is moving back to Boston and I probably won't ever see her again. Sent her a text and even called when she went off to school and she left me in the dust.... but its whatever. Karma does bite you in the butt I suppose....![]()
I was going to roll my eyes at you but I saw some episodes the other day and I actually think they are for realOriginally Posted by yngSIMBA
Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby
Three months and you was in love.Originally Posted by ksteezy![]()
I gotta say that I once dated a girl who was married before and pretty much had the same sentiments towards him that you do your ex. Even though she never wanted him back in the relationship/marriage type way, it was frustrating for me to get along with. I learned a lot about that relationship and now understand where she was coming from, but just saying to be wary of how quick you might bring that to the forefront because it will probably scare most dudes off. It's immature, but unless a guy fully understands the reasons you feel this way, he probably hasn't matured in that sense. You probably already know this though...Just reminded me of my ex.Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey
Was with my ex for 5 years and a half, my first everything. Did me quite dirty. Had a sidepiece for a year and a half on and off without me knowing at all, until she told me. He wanted to make it work. I refused to give another chance to such an act for betrayal and such disrespect.So I left him. Well, he then fell back on her.Originally Posted by PRIME
We were together for 3 years and she cheated on me. I was young, so I tried to forgive her and give us another shot, but then she turned on me again but the next time it was with a female. I never looked at women the same way again.
Even now, after being in some serious long term relationships I never really got over that first real love I found myself consumed in, and I never gave a girl 100% of me. I'm always defensive and making sure I'm not being played. I cannot allow myself to be consumed by a girl or her box.He is still with her 4-5 years later. He says I am the one that got away. But, I forgave him. Him and I still talk here and there. He was my best friend. I think also for someone who had such an effect on you and was such an important part of you, I will always have a soft spot for someone like him. I sometimes miss the hell out of that man. I was there for him at his worst, when he hit rock bottom, and took such good care of him. He exhausted me and drained me. That is why I am still single (5 years later). I am making up for all the life he sucked out of me. Just need to do me. I think I am ready to settle now though. I loved him with all of me, my heart and soul. But, I really do wish him nothing but the best. I will always love and care for him. I am glad to say I forgave and we patched things up and we can move on with our lives. P.S. He still tries to get at me, but that is a whole other story.![]()
Originally Posted by BroComeAtMe
i'm dating her