Niketalk...my girlfriend broke up with me on Christmas Eve vol. HO HO HO

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Originally Posted by MarleysProtege

sorry to hear that ... i can only imagine what it would be like to get dumped on xmas eve ... especially when i read that line about telling your family about being solo cuz my folks love my girl too ...

funny cuz my girl is the same way with money ... but she always tells me she appreciates the fact that i keep our finances in line cuz without me shed be in major debt ... maybe she just wast the girl for you ...

better to cut bait now so you still have your life ahead of you ...
atleast we can agree outside the sports forum
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thanks for the words...real talk
 
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

Originally Posted by areyouin729

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

you cant take it with you as long as you arent putting yourself in debt and what not
just curious...what are you doing about saving for retirement?
do you plan on working for the rest of your life?

did you break up with her or she break up with you?
she broke up with me

right now I have an IRA and my 401K from work...I dont spend money like it would seem, I'm actually pretty good with money...im just trying to pay off my student loans right now, I have about $45k but I have it down to about $28k in a year and a half

I've only been out of school 2 years in May, I didn't start until I was 21
ah..good for you then. But you should also look into other retirement strategies.
Paying off your student loans is a wise choice. Make sure that any extra is going towards your principle though








Dirtylicious
How come U always know what to say & U ALWAYS give the best advice?? JESUS CHRIST I never seen nothing likeit...
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Originally Posted by lurkin2long

you areyouin729......................your girl is buggin. i dont really feel this is the reason why she dumpin you out the blue...........something is not adding up? maybe she just havin one of those moments right now how girls do sometimes an shell be say sorry very soon or there is something else going on.

you got dumped for no reason on xmas eve at that. fishy imo
i feel you, i think her personal issues are maybe clouding her judgement b/c I have a more sturdy head on my shoulders

if she calls me today to say sorry, im not even sure how I feel anymore after this is sinking in

my buddy's gf told me she thinks she didnt appreciate me like she should which kinda surprised me b/c they were always friendly and became friends so thatmakes me feel better
 
not to down play anything dirty said ... but his advice could have been formulated by anyone with half a brain ...
 
Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

ah..good for you then. But you should also look into other retirement strategies.
Paying off your student loans is a wise choice. Make sure that any extra is going towards your principle though

How come U always know what to say & U ALWAYS give the best advice?? JESUS CHRIST I never seen nothing like it...
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Originally Posted by areyouin729

Originally Posted by lurkin2long
i feel you, i think her personal issues are maybe clouding her judgement b/c I have a more sturdy head on my shoulders

if she calls me today to say sorry, im not even sure how I feel anymore after this is sinking in

my buddy's gf told me she thinks she didnt appreciate me like she should which kinda surprised me b/c they were always friendly and became friends so that makes me feel better

women....................smh

thats what im thinking exactly
 
Man forget her. Take those gifts back, get some new gear, hit the mall and pick up some of these single home from college chicks.
 
dirty if you dont mind me asking, what exactly do you do???

you seem like a pretty intellectual dude
 
Originally Posted by lurkin2long

Originally Posted by areyouin729

Originally Posted by lurkin2long
i feel you, i think her personal issues are maybe clouding her judgement b/c I have a more sturdy head on my shoulders

if she calls me today to say sorry, im not even sure how I feel anymore after this is sinking in

my buddy's gf told me she thinks she didnt appreciate me like she should which kinda surprised me b/c they were always friendly and became friends so that makes me feel better

women....................smh

thats what im thinking exactly
you arent kidding

im just not looking fwd to having to tell everyone over and over on Xmas what happened...i throw text to my sister to warn the family that I just wanna enjoyXmas and not be asked a million questions
 
sounds like your about to save a lot of dough for Christmas.
at least she did it before and not after
 
not to down play anything dirty said ... but his advice could have been formulated by anyone with half a brain ...
lol. indeed... most of my "advice" is really just common sense.

back to the OP...really though..sounds like this is for the best.

sucks to be single but you'll find someone else who'll be a much better fit for you.
 
Holidays are either the best times or the worst times for people. There usually isn't an in between. Sounds like something wasn't working right forawhile, and with the holidays, she just decided to cut it off early before the new year. Best of luck to you, never had that sort of thing happen to me.I'm sure it looks grim right now, but try not to sulk in your misery for Christmas. Enjoy the time you have with your family and talk to her again afterChristmas. This time of year can also be a time for forgiveness. Maybe you can settle your differences on December 26th.
 
areyouin729, sorry to hear about your situation. Losing your girl on Christmas Eve, going to lose your sn on New Years day.....damn
 
Originally Posted by FIRST B0RN

areyouin729, sorry to hear about your situation. Losing your girl on Christmas Eve, going to lose your sn on New Years day.....damn
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PSU 35 USC 34
 
Originally Posted by FIRST B0RN

Originally Posted by areyouin729

Originally Posted by FIRST B0RN

areyouin729, sorry to hear about your situation. Losing your girl on Christmas Eve, going to lose your sn on New Years day.....damn
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PSU 35 USC 34

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ill make the official RB thread in a few days...in the meantime i'll think of possible new SN's just incase USC pulls off the miracle
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i'm actually a lil annoyed with my alma mater handled the Pat Devlin situation
 
sorry to hear that man...

it's ok you can buy your new "girlfriend" in 09 (370z)
 
All I can say is, it is only a matter of time until you feel better. Until then, keep yourself occupied - which shouldn't be too hard for you. The nextgirl you find and this seems to always be the case for me, will always be better than your last, so at least look forward to that. Try to be happy during theholidays - which is going to be hard for you.. but at least you have family around and warm spirits, try not to think about her. Remember, "out of sight,out of mind".
 
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