NT, Am I in the wrong for this situation? VOL. My boys ex (PICS)

imixedi · Dec 30, 2008

I've been dating this beautiful chick for the past three months. The chick used to be my boys ex. He wasn't my BEST boy but he defiantely was a dudeI'd hang with and we would holla at shorty's together. Well before me and ol girl start talkin they have been broken up for almost 4 months and hemoved on and started dating another girl and they have been together ever since. The girl and I start talkin and realize we have a lot in common and things gofrom there. Before I even hooked up with the girl I told my boy STRAIGHT up that I was startin to have feelings for his ex and we were gonna most likely hookup. From that point on my boy never talked to me again. Now comeon that is some selfish %%#$ right? He moved on and got another pretty girl on his side and hegonna get mad at me when I try and move in on what he %%%%%$ up on. So am I in the wrong NT?

Oh also you wanna know something ironic, The girl I'm with now..my ex and her used to be best friends

That's a whole different story though

mdwst9 · Dec 30, 2008

u aint never supposed to mess wit ya boys ex man........even tho i did it too lol but i regret it. bros b4 @#$% playa.

thagreatj · Dec 30, 2008

you made him aware of it...thats respectful.

you prolly could go for someone else but if yall got like chemistry...go for it.

suprastar · Dec 30, 2008

you wrong so kill yourself

snaggykicks · Dec 30, 2008

Originally Posted by mdwst9

u aint never supposed to mess wit ya boys ex man........ bros b4 @#$% playa.

fixed

posite fiend · Dec 30, 2008

all those coincidences? i say you live in a small as hell town or you just dont get out of the neighborhood much lol. i know its a small world but cmon.anyways, comin from my experiences and im 99% sure my homies feel the same way. its cool to talk to the same chick if you or your boy wasnt serious, but icould never try to get with a chick that my dude was goin out with for a long period of time. unloyal IMO.

yungmatt · Dec 30, 2008

Well first off it sounds like your using the term "my boy" too lightly... Doesnt sound like yall were that close so....

IMO you didnt do anything wrong if thats your cup of tea

But WHY the hell would you wanna wife "your boy's" ex???? Sort of like sloppy seconds dont you think??

b smooth 202 · Dec 30, 2008

One of my homies has a GF that looks good. But I'd never try anything, even if they broke up.

dakingii · Dec 30, 2008

Hmmm... i dont know man, unlike the other dude in the other thread u told your boy that u were feelin her. well since u and your boy aint talkin to u no moreit shouldnt matter i guess

solefood229 · Dec 30, 2008

Atleast you told him, but that's still your boy don't make him mad cause he gon tell you all the nasty stufff she used to do to him then you gonna bebutt hurt

million dollar stacks · Dec 30, 2008

jeyel · Dec 30, 2008

normally .. i would say youre wrong .. but you told him straight up beforehand .. so he shoulda told you if he had a problem with it.

but the fact that shes your ex's old best friend makes me wonder why youre even messing with that girl if you know you're gonna hurt your friend ANDyour ex

imixedi · Dec 30, 2008

We've already been together for almost 4 months now so what's done is done I can't change that. We are happy together then both of us were in ourprevious relationships. Like I said, I told him before anything started going down that I'm about to hook up with her, and he was just like"Whatever" "Do you". We was cool but we wasn't best of friends like I said. I guess ya'll can say I'm in the wrong but the waymy girl and I look at it...If we weren't dating the people we were dating before, we would have never met each other.

jay pesos24 · Dec 30, 2008

your not wrong, you did the right thing by telling him first. Some dudes are selfish.. smh

dirtylicious · Dec 30, 2008

From that point on my boy never talked to me again.
whatever...let him be...

you don't know how he truly felt about her...maybe that's just his way to cope.

like you said... you're happy...she's happy. Why worry about him?

imixedi · Dec 30, 2008

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

From that point on my boy never talked to me again.

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whatever...let him be...

you don't know how he truly felt about her...maybe that's just his way to cope.

like you said... you're happy...she's happy. Why worry about him?
The response I was looking for, Thanks. What I was thinking.

For the beasts, I Pics of her at the top. Nothing to hide

yungmatt · Dec 30, 2008

Originally Posted by iMixedi

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

From that point on my boy never talked to me again.

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whatever...let him be...

you don't know how he truly felt about her...maybe that's just his way to cope.

like you said... you're happy...she's happy. Why worry about him?

The response I was looking for, Thanks. What I was thinking.

For the beasts, I Pics of her at the top. Nothing to hide

But why make a thread asking for opinions if your ONLY looking to hear someone say what you already feel ?

Like I asked, Do you feel kinda lame wifing "your boy's" ex?

dontsteponmyshoes · Dec 30, 2008

lookin at those pix im sure yall aint the only two dudes shes "talkin" to anyways. After you're done might as well let the next homie get on imsure she'd be down.

iluvjordanxi · Dec 30, 2008

You got his sloppy seconds. Jk bro, Just tell him to deal with it or do something about it.

daytona 5000 · Dec 30, 2008

I didn't even read what you wrote.
I just came in for the pics.

imixedi · Dec 30, 2008

Originally Posted by yungmatt

Originally Posted by iMixedi

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

From that point on my boy never talked to me again.

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whatever...let him be...

you don't know how he truly felt about her...maybe that's just his way to cope.

like you said... you're happy...she's happy. Why worry about him?

Click to expand...

The response I was looking for, Thanks. What I was thinking.

For the beasts, I Pics of her at the top. Nothing to hide

But why make a thread asking for opinions if your ONLY looking to hear someone say what you already feel ?

Like I asked, Do you feel kinda lame wifing "your boy's" ex?

No, I was feeling a lil guilty for the first 2-4 weeks but since then I've been fine. I was just wondering if their was anything I needed to feel guiltyabout.

And to the dudes who talkin about the sloppy seconds, most girls these days already have been smashed by somebody so no I don't feel lame for throwin herdown. If anything I already knew she was clean so I was clear to sail the sea from that point on

crossisom · Dec 30, 2008

Why is it that newer members are more likely to provide pics and older ones don't?

ericberry14 · Dec 30, 2008

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by iMixedi

I've been dating this beautiful chick for the past three months. The chick used to be my boys ex. He wasn't my BEST boy but he defiantely was a dude I'd hang with and we would holla at shorty's together. Well before me and ol girl start talkin they have been broken up for almost 4 months and he moved on and started dating another girl and they have been together ever since. The girl and I start talkin and realize we have a lot in common and things go from there. Before I even hooked up with the girl I told my boy STRAIGHT up that I was startin to have feelings for his ex and we were gonna most likely hook up. From that point on my boy never talked to me again. Now comeon that is some selfish %@*! right? He moved on and got another pretty girl on his side and he gonna get mad at me when I try and move in on what he %%#@$# up on. So am I in the wrong NT?

Oh also you wanna know something ironic, The girl I'm with now..my ex and her used to be best friends

That's a whole different story though

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so you don't mind your "kind of boy" used to beat that?

i bet he could tell you countless things about your new chick that you have no idea about...

infact, even after you date her for a year, i bet he would STILL know stuff you didn't...

lol

i don't understand dudes like you.

"shes really fine"

how many really fine girls exist that HAVENT gotten busy with your "kinda friend"?

So basically you would never talk to any girl that had any sort of interaction with any dudes you know? Well then that drastically reduces thenumber of girls you have an opportunity with. But seriously as long as he's aware of her past with his boy, then what is the problem with him messin withher.

Sidenote: are you still with your girl?

posite fiend · Dec 30, 2008

Originally Posted by iMixedi

We've already been together for almost 4 months now so what's done is done I can't change that. We are happy together then both of us were in our previous relationships. Like I said, I told him before anything started going down that I'm about to hook up with her, and he was just like "Whatever" "Do you". We was cool but we wasn't best of friends like I said. I guess ya'll can say I'm in the wrong but the way my girl and I look at it...If we weren't dating the people we were dating before, we would have never met each other.

so why the hell make this thread? lol

your killin me smalls

ericberry14 · Dec 30, 2008

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by iMixedi

I've been dating this beautiful chick for the past three months. The chick used to be my boys ex. He wasn't my BEST boy but he defiantely was a dude I'd hang with and we would holla at shorty's together. Well before me and ol girl start talkin they have been broken up for almost 4 months and he moved on and started dating another girl and they have been together ever since. The girl and I start talkin and realize we have a lot in common and things go from there. Before I even hooked up with the girl I told my boy STRAIGHT up that I was startin to have feelings for his ex and we were gonna most likely hook up. From that point on my boy never talked to me again. Now comeon that is some selfish %@*! right? He moved on and got another pretty girl on his side and he gonna get mad at me when I try and move in on what he %%#@$# up on. So am I in the wrong NT?

Oh also you wanna know something ironic, The girl I'm with now..my ex and her used to be best friends

That's a whole different story though

Click to expand...

so you don't mind your "kind of boy" used to beat that?

i bet he could tell you countless things about your new chick that you have no idea about...

infact, even after you date her for a year, i bet he would STILL know stuff you didn't...

lol

i don't understand dudes like you.

"shes really fine"

how many really fine girls exist that HAVENT gotten busy with your "kinda friend"?

So basically you would never talk to any girl that had any sort of interaction with any dudes you know? Well then that drastically reduces thenumber of girls you have an opportunity with. But seriously as long as he's aware of her past with his boy, then what is the problem with him messin withher.

Sidenote: are you still with your girl?

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