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suggest you drop her. better believe there's more hiding in her closet.
NT: I need some relationship advice.
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true story RKO..
i aint insecure...
but tell me how i went to this chick (uncommitted) i'm talking to house for a get together and there was like 4 chicks and 8-9 dudes...me and my squadincluded....def not a good look.. i swear she had trains run on her for some odd reason..just cant label it.
i aint insecure...
but tell me how i went to this chick (uncommitted) i'm talking to house for a get together and there was like 4 chicks and 8-9 dudes...me and my squadincluded....def not a good look.. i swear she had trains run on her for some odd reason..just cant label it.
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I wish I had the gif with Barksdale wagging his finger at Lt Daniels on the Wire!
I couldn't do it man. You might have more tolerance than 90% of NT. She got a DONK and you probably don't wanna lose it, but that is not a favorablesituation for you. Dude had time with that and still gets to talk with her and hang with her. I would just tell her to dead that.
I had been with my girl for like a month when I found out that her ex (1 yr relationship) had been emailing her. I told her it aint nothing for them to talkabout, if it was, they'd still be together. And honestly, the few ex gfs that I still talk to, I do try to hit. Some of them are just good and faithful.Others....well you know
I couldn't do it man. You might have more tolerance than 90% of NT. She got a DONK and you probably don't wanna lose it, but that is not a favorablesituation for you. Dude had time with that and still gets to talk with her and hang with her. I would just tell her to dead that.
I had been with my girl for like a month when I found out that her ex (1 yr relationship) had been emailing her. I told her it aint nothing for them to talkabout, if it was, they'd still be together. And honestly, the few ex gfs that I still talk to, I do try to hit. Some of them are just good and faithful.Others....well you know
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Females lost their way. Remember when you used to hear females complaining about this now dudes are? Its crazy. And we don't agree oneverything but you got a pretty good outlook on how people operate. I like for people to be REAL. Too many people B.S. around nowadays. Fellas if your girlused to fool around with someone and they chill with each other even though your together, wake up! These dudes don't care about you. If they think theyare a better fit for your girl they really gon put her to the test. Now I'm not saying don't trust your girls, but don't be stupid either.
And don't buy that "Females keep up too much drama, dudes are chill" crap. Dudes gossip and backstab just as much as girls. Some of them are onlyacting chill to impress you, believe me. I know dudes who act like chicks with the gossip.
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Lets highlight some of the variables in this situation:
-Attractive Girl
-Friend
-Sexual activity between the two in the past
...Assuming he's straight, whats his motivation for not trying to get at her?
-Attractive Girl
-Friend
-Sexual activity between the two in the past
...Assuming he's straight, whats his motivation for not trying to get at her?
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dont trust her further than you can throw her.
she's lost b. dudei s STILL hitting that...
honestly, never trust a big butt and a smile. it's that simple.
she's lost b. dudei s STILL hitting that...
honestly, never trust a big butt and a smile. it's that simple.
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QFT.
and there are no ifs, and's, or but's about this. I wish i would find out my girl been chillin wit sum dude that she used to mess with. She'd getdropped so quick she wouldnt even know what happened
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Get another girl its that easyOriginally Posted by CL552k1
Well... I just found out that my girl and her friend(whom is a dude) used to fool around 3 months before we hooked up. I taught nothing of him before, but after finding this out I'm kinda buggin' out. Is it wrong to start trippin' when she talks to him on the phone and/or wants to hang out with him. She swears there is nothing between them and that they're just good friends now. What should I do in this situation?
Oh yeah we've been together for two years now and live with each other and the whole nine.
Since you cant get a reply w/o pixs... Here is my girl(sorry for the blurry pix):
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Good job on getting the pics homie
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No wait. Don't forget about the dude acting like he care for real... "Maybe we should chill out"
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Your girl got a fat booty no disrespect.
Thats all I have to say. I'm sure your homie said the same though
Thats all I have to say. I'm sure your homie said the same though
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You already know if dude single he probably looking and having flashbacks (word to Will in 7 pounds).Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000
Your girl got a fat booty no disrespect.
Thats all I have to say. I'm sure your homie said the same though
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i've learned women are creatues of habit...
this outta pocket #!% prolly been going on for a while and you aint check it.
this outta pocket #!% prolly been going on for a while and you aint check it.
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Make a pros and cons list. It shouldn't be a big deal if you trust her. If you have a little problem with trust then you should do something aboutit....idk its hard to say. One of my close friends is a guy I go to school with. Our first year he mentioned he liked me but he just left that out when I toldhim I can't go with him. But I can tell him anything nd he'll have something to say nd keeps it 100. Prolly the only @+%+@ I trust.
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exactly. thas y u gotta nip that #+#% in the bud as soon as you find out about it
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Try before you find out
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Some of yall really generalize females...That being said she is cheating on you, at the very least emotionally.
If your girl is discussing "YOUR" problems with a man somethings wrong.
If your girl is discussing "YOUR" problems with a man somethings wrong.
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There are guys that don't do anything, and then there's guys like me, the bastard who's just asking for it (karma).
My best female friend had a bf and I pretty much ended up beating those buns when she was in the relationship.
Investigate. Tell her you want to meet him, maybe double date or some *%+! like that. Unless he is related to you by blood, 100% ##*!, or paraplegic with twomissing arms, don't give her the benefit of the doubt. Another scenario would be if you had a best female friend and you still hung out with her, then bydefault she is allowed to see her best guy friend, or maybe you guys have 110% trust in eachother then you should be okay.
One thing I want to point out is that if any of you have a girl who has a guy friend that she goes to for emotionally, then there is something wrong with yourrelationship. A girl should be able to tell her boyfriend anything and not need an "emotional tissue" aka cuddle-%@@!%.
My best female friend had a bf and I pretty much ended up beating those buns when she was in the relationship.
Investigate. Tell her you want to meet him, maybe double date or some *%+! like that. Unless he is related to you by blood, 100% ##*!, or paraplegic with twomissing arms, don't give her the benefit of the doubt. Another scenario would be if you had a best female friend and you still hung out with her, then bydefault she is allowed to see her best guy friend, or maybe you guys have 110% trust in eachother then you should be okay.
One thing I want to point out is that if any of you have a girl who has a guy friend that she goes to for emotionally, then there is something wrong with yourrelationship. A girl should be able to tell her boyfriend anything and not need an "emotional tissue" aka cuddle-%@@!%.
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your first mistake is coming to NT for relationship advice
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Investigation is a must in your situation
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i can see where the issues may come in at.
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don't say that...
NT is the best, most realest relationship advice you will ever get.
with that being said, don't trip on whether dude is smashing, cause you smashing too, right?
just make sure you got the upper hand in the relationship, and take all her money.
i mean CLEAN THAT BANK ACCOUNT OUT.
seriously, do it.
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IMO, if she didn't feel the need to bring it up after 2 years... AND she lives you (assuming you ain't paying ALL the bills) Her feelings for him arelacking....
BUt dude maybe lurking on the grmlin tip... So If it really bothers you like that, address dude respectively, on some "So she told me ya'll used tofool around, what happened between ya'll? Do you still have feelings for her?" (Even though he may lie, but you can tell when bammas be lying) Andregardless of the answer, tell dude that constantly being around YOUR girl is kind of bothering you...
And judging by that body... tighten the reigns... Word to "Horse from the waist down"
