Open Discussion: Why are men so damn clingy?

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Yesterday I was making some bowls and this chick in my class has her boyfriend watching her throw pots. He's just sitting there watching the wheel turn. It was type pitiful. What's even more sad was that he was four years older than she was.

I've been clingy in my days, but I've since cut it out.

Why are (some) men so damn clingy?
 
- Because these dudes have been
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in' for sooo long, once they finally start gettingsome real
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, they're terrified of returning to lame
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sessions. Solo status = Fail x humiliation
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usually, its because they overacheived chickwise and wanna hold on 4 dear life 2 their greatest acheivement...which, ironically, speeds up the process of thegirl leaving/cheating about 74% of the time...its really sad...
 
It just seems like he was chillin. Girls do the same thing. If you really love someone you can just sit and watch them do pottery and be alright with it. Notsaying I would do that I'd probably try and participate, but just saying don't judge him because he found someone worth just watching do pottery andyou haven't.

I thought this thread was about dudes that don't get that you don't really want to hangout with them. Like the dudes that keep calling you and textingyou on some girl type #*%. I kinda understand it, a big brother type thing in my case because I was dating his cousin, and I'm the only person up here hereally knows.Same time it's like man GET YOU SOME and keep it moving.
 
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

I wonder how you surmised simply by him watching her do pottery that he's clingy
co-sign... Maybe she asked him to go with her to pottery class... There is such a thing as spending time with your significant other...
 
Keyword is some and from the info u gave I can't see how he clingy...I would be doin the same thing if I was asked to go somewhere that I didn't wantto be...and if u that afraid she gonna mess around on you, cut the %+!%* loose...its not that serious...too many women out here to be hung up on one no matterhow good the snappy nappy is
 
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

I wonder how you surmised simply by him watching her do pottery that he's clingy
When he left the room she told me he is very clingy. She even told him to leave numerous times to no avail.
 
Originally Posted by eye see soles

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

I wonder how you surmised simply by him watching her do pottery that he's clingy
When he left the room she told me he is very clingy. She even told him to leave numerous times to no avail.
well then that's a different story... dude is just clingy.... if she really had a problem with it then she'd leave him...
 
i didnt even know what you were talking about (throwing bowls) til i read the responses
 
Originally Posted by eye see soles

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

I wonder how you surmised simply by him watching her do pottery that he's clingy
When he left the room she told me he is very clingy. She even told him to leave numerous times to no avail.
a little clingy
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Originally Posted by eye see soles

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

I wonder how you surmised simply by him watching her do pottery that he's clingy
When he left the room she told me he is very clingy. She even told him to leave numerous times to no avail.


Well then whose fault is it to put up with a dude who's so clingy in the first place!?
 
This is a general question, not just specific to this one incident.

Yea he was clingy, but there are many like him.

Ladies, from your experience why have your past bfs been so clingy?

Sorry if I struck a chord with any of you guys.
 
The worst type of dude is those dudes that can't take no for an answer from a female word to bamma in this pizza shop
 
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