Do you deal with your own problems ?

xcrskim · Apr 23, 2009

am I the only one here that deals with their own problems ? all my friends go and talk to somebody about their problems, but nope..not me.

like.. i'll be listening into peoples problems and I can't help but think how minuscule your problems are compared to mines and I don't even botherto
tell anyone about it.. not even my close friends or my family. I do my own thing so I owe no favors. Real talk.

rsdplaya · Apr 23, 2009

same with you, i usually figure out problems myself.

mytmouse76 · Apr 23, 2009

i woudn't say my problems are bigger but i do tend to keep them to myself while everyone else comes to me with theirs...

la213espg · Apr 23, 2009

Originally Posted by rsdplaya

same with you, i usually figure out problems myself.

jehlers02 · Apr 23, 2009

Same here, i rarely talk to ppl bout my problems cuz i just dont wanna be that guy or a debbie downer for that matter.
I sulk when im alone.

acidicality · Apr 23, 2009

Originally Posted by Jehlers02

Same here, i rarely talk to ppl bout my problems cuz i just dont wanna be that guy or a debbie downer for that matter.
I sulk when im alone.

tmukg21 · Apr 23, 2009

but mostly i deal with it but...

sometimes i generalize my situation, insert into random conversations, see how they would handle it, take notes

ex: if my school work is slacking one week, i'll be like "mom, the kids i tutor are slacking. how to motivate them"

tyeung53 · Apr 23, 2009

i try to deal if i cant then i ask friends for help or for clarity

951guero · Apr 23, 2009

yup, i keep everything to myself

just suck it up, and keep it moving

blackmagnus514 · Apr 23, 2009

I usually keep them to myself. most of the time they're minor anyway. people always tell me their problems like i care though.

vctry20 · Apr 23, 2009

I push them way down, sometimes they come out after some tequila

brooklynnyc3000 · Apr 23, 2009

- I feel you OP. I tend to keep everything to myself as well. But sometimes it's too much to handle and I have to let some of that
negativity out by writing it down on paper. I don't know if I'm the only one that does this, but I know it helps me.

Family and economic situation are getting worse and worse at my house with every passing moment. FML
And that's not adding stress over school.

keithahundred · Apr 23, 2009

hell yeah I deal with my own problems.....I figure if my problems don't involve you then it you should not worry about them

ig0tfreshin05 · Apr 23, 2009

isn't that what NT is for ...?

queencitysneakerqueen · Apr 23, 2009

Originally Posted by rsdplaya

same with you, i usually figure out problems myself.

dhrealtalk · Apr 23, 2009

I think it depends on what type of problem it is. We are social animals, there's no need to keep everything to yourself.

SUSHI AND GRITS · Apr 23, 2009

of course... but communication is dope to me so i talk about it.

finnns2003 · Apr 23, 2009

Originally Posted by Jehlers02

Same here, i rarely talk to ppl bout my problems cuz i just dont wanna be that guy or a debbie downer for that matter.
I sulk when im alone.

this. it's better to just keep things to yourself.

mecks · Apr 23, 2009

i actually like to turn to random people sometimes, and not anyone close becaue they will give an honest and unbiased opinion on the situation...

other than that, i hardly turn to anyone. just put my 2pac on, vibe to it... if I'm feelin really low ill pop some pills n doze off...

doosta45 · Apr 23, 2009

im a private person and i dont really like people in/knowing my business. so i always deal with stuff myself.

my gf said she was going to help me with my credit card bills, but i told her that they are my problems that i caused so i got to deal with them. plus iwouldnt want to use the money she worked hard for to pay for stuff i caused

psykho · Apr 23, 2009

I'm not the type that like to put my biz out there with so called "friends"
I manage to deal with my own problems

habitual linestepper · Apr 23, 2009

I have two friends I talk to about my problems. I dont NEED to talk to them about my problems but its good to get an outside opinion on certain situations.

dendanskesimon · Apr 23, 2009

Originally Posted by xcrskim

am I the only one here that deals with their own problems ? all my friends go and talk to somebody about their problems, but nope..not me.

like.. i'll be listening into peoples problems and I can't help but think how minuscule your problems are compared to mines and I don't even bother to
tell anyone about it.. not even my close friends or my family. I do my own thing so I owe no favors. Real talk.

thats me, if i need motivation or whatever just put on Rich Folk (plies) or chasin my dream (boosie) or losing out (Black Milk), and then im straight

ziostilon · Apr 23, 2009

Originally Posted by iG0TFRESHiN05

isn't that what NT is for ...?

ryair max 1 · Apr 23, 2009

Originally Posted by xcrskim

am I the only one here that deals with their own problems ? all my friends go and talk to somebody about their problems, but nope..not me.

like.. i'll be listening into peoples problems and I can't help but think how minuscule your problems are compared to mines and I don't even bother to
tell anyone about it.. not even my close friends or my family. I do my own thing so I owe no favors. Real talk.

same with me. i usually like helping people and always willing to listen if they need someone to talk to but my issues are my issues to deal by myself. I feellike a more complete person if I handle my problems alone.

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tyeung53

951guero

blackmagnus514

vctry20

brooklynnyc3000

keithahundred

ig0tfreshin05

queencitysneakerqueen

dhrealtalk

SUSHI AND GRITS

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mecks

doosta45

psykho

habitual linestepper

dendanskesimon

ziostilon

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