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Thread is sad
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I went to school to study psychology and I have seen the LIFE CHANGING benefits of talk therapy
(I had a session where me and my shrink cried together bros. Real talk it was amazing)
But there are so many negatives that can come with a diagnosis
Some ppl use it as an crutch
- they'll never live up to their true potential bc when the going gets tough "I'm depressed"/ I'll never be happy anyways will always get in there way
Other ppl use it as an excuse to act out
- I've been diagnosed as bipolar, so when I do have freak outs or whatever, they're fueled by the subconscious principle that- this is the correct thing for me to be doing
And other ppl are sel fulfillin prophecies
- so when a doctor tells them they're crazy, they kinda hit em with "oh. I'll show you crazy. "
**** a doctor
Ppl have been "mentally ill" for centuries, but only now does it hinder ppl
I'd recommend readin a book called A First-Rate Madness: Uncovering the Links Between Leadership and Mental Illness
BY a guy named Nassir Ghaemi
My mom got it for me for my birthday last year. And man.
I just never looked at it like that, yaknow?
Like a gift. We can do things other ppl can't.
When I was a teen dealing with whatever the **** "ADD" means, some dude told me it's his "ADDvantage" he's the best at what he does bc of this thing he was given
@lolcomin- why do you say that?
Talk to us , young buck
What's goin on
(I had a session where me and my shrink cried together bros. Real talk it was amazing)
But there are so many negatives that can come with a diagnosis
Some ppl use it as an crutch
- they'll never live up to their true potential bc when the going gets tough "I'm depressed"/ I'll never be happy anyways will always get in there way
Other ppl use it as an excuse to act out
- I've been diagnosed as bipolar, so when I do have freak outs or whatever, they're fueled by the subconscious principle that- this is the correct thing for me to be doing
And other ppl are sel fulfillin prophecies
- so when a doctor tells them they're crazy, they kinda hit em with "oh. I'll show you crazy. "
**** a doctor
Ppl have been "mentally ill" for centuries, but only now does it hinder ppl
I'd recommend readin a book called A First-Rate Madness: Uncovering the Links Between Leadership and Mental Illness
BY a guy named Nassir Ghaemi
My mom got it for me for my birthday last year. And man.
I just never looked at it like that, yaknow?
Like a gift. We can do things other ppl can't.
When I was a teen dealing with whatever the **** "ADD" means, some dude told me it's his "ADDvantage" he's the best at what he does bc of this thing he was given
@lolcomin- why do you say that?
Talk to us , young buck
What's goin on
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I wish i would ever lose my girl to a "friend" 
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Thread is sad.
Yeah but it's even more sad that ppl think they have no one to talk to.
Especially men, in our culture
Like bruh I don't actually know any of y'all
But I swear to god we could really talk about any issue you're having
In here, PMs, it doesn't matter
But yeah god, sad thread is sad
I'm just sayin. My best friend hung himself in '10
I have a history of suicide in my family
I've been at that point where I'm standing at the ledge all I gotta do is jump and then? I wnt feel a thing. It'll all be over
So I know that Life is just too damn much sometimes
And for a lot of my guy friends it's hard to get them to have a real conversation that leaves them vulnerable
So you know what? I'll take what I can get. I'll take this w my NT brahs. This is my favorite thread on this site bc it's real. It actually doesn't get any realer than life/death & that struggle to see the beauty in both and in all
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Hope peeps not trolling but my PM is open at all times.
Just talk to me.
Crazy I see some you kats in other threads I usually visit than I come here.
Just talk to me.
Crazy I see some you kats in other threads I usually visit than I come here.
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I use to feel like this but it's been months since I've been in "emo" mode (knock on wood). I think me learning where all these feelings steam from is what changed things, the toughest part for me is getting over things that have happened in my life from youth especially since those things involve the actions of other people or lack there of. It might just come to the lack of closure for certain things but that's just me. My only advice is trying to figure out the root of your feelings, take some walks and try finding something that you enjoy doing alone because sometimes you can focus on what you appreciate about life without the distraction of others.
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Damn... No response from M4rioL?
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I smoked cocaine after me and my ex girlfriend broke up.
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Why did you smoke it?
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1. I thinking may like porn more than actual sex. I haven't been a fiend for sex in the last year or so. At one point I didn't have sex with my girl for a month because I just didn't feel like it >_> Other times I'll be horny the whole week. Weird.
2.I think a lot of girls are basic and dudes hype them up beyond what they actually are.
3. I sent a **** pic to a girl I was messing with at my gym but instead sent it to my aunt with the same name....who lived in my complex...and braided my hair. Talk about awkward.
4. Smashed my boys brother girl a whole summer but so was our other boy. I didn't know though until our other boy told me. The dude found out...Awkward.
5. I took Molly 2x with my girl. Amazing.
2.I think a lot of girls are basic and dudes hype them up beyond what they actually are.
3. I sent a **** pic to a girl I was messing with at my gym but instead sent it to my aunt with the same name....who lived in my complex...and braided my hair. Talk about awkward.
4. Smashed my boys brother girl a whole summer but so was our other boy. I didn't know though until our other boy told me. The dude found out...Awkward.
5. I took Molly 2x with my girl. Amazing.
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Remy LeBeau
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Ok, I'm not sure if this is much of a confession but whatever. I have a female friend that I've been knowing for about 7 years now, I met her at the first college I attended but we didn't really become friends until after I transferred. We were more like mutual friends before I left so we weren't close or anything. About a year after I transferred we became friends on FB and would talk every now and then when we were both on, after awhile we'd talk via text then by phone. We've become really good friends now and we can talk to each other about ANYTHING, she's a very smart girl and overall a very beautiful person. At this point we've talked about our feelings for each other and how things would be if we dated, however, we both kinda feel like it would never happen. Yall probably thinking "what's the big deal?" but like everything there's a catch, we live in two completely different states 
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honestly you might wanna think about not watching porn
have read that too much pron can make you impotent in real life because the fix is polarized & different
that is if you once liked real sex better than pron
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Heard that tons of time...Don't care. When it comes down to it my **** has never failed me. I just so happen to love porn Lol. Man, keep it real, every other day something we do is bad for us...F it. Just gotta do as you please.
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hey man - do you - literally
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Happened to me in college accidentally with my boy's girl. Same situation as Mario, minus then extra stuff. Dude treated her so bad he let another one of his boys slap her.I have finally found probably the best girl I've ever met!!!Interests are similar (which is a big thing since I'm weird as hell
), she offers intellectual conversations, something I've never found in a woman, respects my opinions and visa versa, completely understanding, I don't have to put on a front to other girls as if I'm on my best behavior on a first date, she understands my jokes, knows im a Troll King and fires it right back at me. We've shared stories of emotional tales that got us to become who we were and shaped us as humans. Deep emotional connection. truly beautiful in my eyes, most of the time she's not wearing makeup and is
still. Effing gorgeous when she gets ready to go out. Been on dates and had have amazing times together. She makes me happy, she tells me I make her day better as she does mine. spend almost everyday together and both know that this is growing love for each other.
but....
there has to be a catch right?....
she's my best friends girlfriend...
I'm not here to judge but snakes in the grass man
once that's my boys property she's completely off limits, like how do you bring yourself to fall in love with your boys girl? I don't get it, I'm just not even built like that. My advice is step your life game up and go find you a woman of your own, way too many girls out here for you to be coveting over the next mans especially when the next man is supposedly your mans 100grand smh
Crazy huh?
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I HANDLED THAT EARLIER BRUH
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Keep your head ups fellas.
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I was in a bad part in my life. A friend had a Newport and he stuck the coke in the Newport. I figured by smoking I would finally understand what the hype was about... It did nothing to me, my pupils closed and I felt good actually. I even woke up early for work the next day. I had nothing else to do and all hope was lost. Once we put the flame to it ... Whew the high took off. It was great. I never did it again.
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Damn, Mario I did not see that one coming.....
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Damn near any substance can be used responsibly, recreationally, and depending upon the person, beneficial...
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True Story. Cocaine is a helluva drug. Said well by the late Rick James. Believe It.
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Not a fan of it... Only times I've really enjoyed it, I was doing some raw, pure ****... Cut the hell outta my nose lol, but such a good high... Very, very clean, and ZERO cravings for more...
With that being said, only drug I'd spend money on again, is mdma.. Herb and occasional hallucinogen don't count lol...
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Pretty much. Done hella coke but all I need is tree.
I'll mess with molly like twice a year and usually my crew does acid once a summer. I outgrew all the others.
Tree just makes me feel normal. I can't smoke for another month for legal reasons. But I'm tired of being a grumpy *******. I have no patience and can't sleep.
I'll mess with molly like twice a year and usually my crew does acid once a summer. I outgrew all the others.
Tree just makes me feel normal. I can't smoke for another month for legal reasons. But I'm tired of being a grumpy *******. I have no patience and can't sleep.
