Whatsup NT bros, I had the most bizarre POF date I've ever had last night:
I'll try to keep it concise. I've been on and off POF for a few years now, and have been on countless first dates with girls from the site, nothing comes remotely close to what I experienced last night.
This past Sunday afternoon we run into each other on the site, I saw her profile, I messaged her first. A 27 year old girl, works in HR. Yes a girl I've never met before. My profile has some recent face and full body (clothed) pics. A few messages back and forth on the site, then she drops me her number. She says that night that we should meet up this week. So. ..We text a bit on Monday and Tuesday, I sent her another face pic, she says I'm cute, she also sends me a pic of her. I ask to see her Wednesday night at a casual bar downtown. She agrees. Our date is for 7pm, I get off the subway right at 7, the bar is steps away. I text her where she is. She says she's inside. I go in, I walk up the stairs as it was there, and I see her. She kinda avoids eye contact, and not much dialogue is exchanged, but we agree to get a table. We go to the waiter and he seats us. ...We get to the table, I begin to take my jacket off like normal, I see her pause for a second, then she sits down not taking her jacket off. So I sit down with my jacket still on.
I'm not kidding, about 1-2 seconds after we are seated she says she has to use the washroom. She barely put her bag down, I don't even think she did actually. She goes to the "washroom," and doesn't return for a few minutes. I begin thinking, did this really happen? Sure enough, she left.
I texted her 15 mins after, an hour after etc, asking for a reason. She messaged back 15 mins after she left saying "Sorry its not gonna work out." That's all I ever heard back from her. I was absolutely stunned lmao. Bros I approached this date the same way I've approached all the others and have had numerous successful dates off the site in the past. I'm still thinking about it this afternoon, I'm still shocked by what happened. Not really hurt, just shocked. Both caucasian if it matters.
Any comments or thoughts about this?