NT: My warning to those who don't use protection

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i bought my first pack of condoms in years just a week ago. I though I may have been addicted to sex, but maybe I'm just not to that point.
 
Man my eyes been opened. I used to be a member of team raw but I hung up my jersey a long time ago. I lost my virginity to my 2nd girl and we went raw every time (5 times)

I went raw for a few months with my next girl. I wasn't even worried about stds. I was worried about pregnancy. 3 pregnancy scares and that was it for me. I never am goin raw until I'm having a baby

I shared your story to my friend and he's off of team raw for good. Op Im sorry to hear that
 
I hate condoms. Go raw but very selective and its never random. Thanks for posting.
 
My man, I hate to hear what you're going through. My heart goes out to you because that does suck that this will be with you for the rest of your life. However, c'mon my man. What in the world did you think was going to happen? You went TOO hard. Worst part is you endangered the lives of so many others. I'm not putting on my cape, I'm just saying some women enjoy having a good time just like us. We don't want to get burned and neither do they. The fact that you were willing to have sex with multiple women raw in close time frames is ignorant and selfish. As moronic as this next statement may sound, it's good that this happened to you and you've FINALLY learned your lesson. God forbid you got HIV and started a snowball effect in your city.

Furthermore, you're not exactly giving us any new info. Anyone who goes as hard as you deserves to have this happen to them. It's the equivalent of me saying "Guys, heed my warning. Do NOT take an entire bottle of pills vol. Almost died" or "Guys, take it from me. Do NOT stick your arm in an alligator mouth! PICS *WARNING!!! GRAPHIC* " It's hard to have pity when such stupid acts are performed.

But your warnings did not fall on deaf ears and I will definitely always keep this in mind. Once again, I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you...

*EDIT* Let me clean this up a bit because it does sound like I'm putting on my cape. Suppose you meet a chick and you're contemplating on doing her raw and you end up going for it. You later find out that she is a full time prostitute that works the corner every night. You'll be a bit angry at her for not alerting this to you earlier. You said you went raw on big time sluts which is triflin and ridiculous. You also went raw in pregnant females and other chicks. To bang big time sluts raw and then go bang some other random chick raw without getting tested is foul my man. I'm sure if you tell a girl "BTW, I banged a couple well known sluts raw" that you wouldn't be having sex that night. I'm not putting on my cape because any female who lets you go raw without being in a committed relationship with you in the first place is a *** just like me and you, but to do it KNOWING how you get down is pretty low. Like I said, it's best this happened before you caught HIV...
In all fairness, I think a lot of the girls he was with are just as guilty. Sexual responsibility is a two way street.  Really gonna let a dude you just met raw dog you? Trust no one, let alone someone that was a complete stranger 24 hours ago.
 
Damn. Hopefully everyone takes your advice and uses the right head when making decisions about sex.
 
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Damn op sorry to hear that bro, I too hasn't had sex with many women unprotected but thank god I've never been burnt. Ive been very lowkey the last few years cuz I found a girl worth changing for but trust ive been tested upwards of 15 times. Every time is nerve wrecking n I slap myself for even being in the situation but when I get the good news I do it again. I applaud u op cuz u young ****** need to hear this.
 
I'm gonna read the rest later, but what I did read made my stomach turn and my whole lower body itch.

I've only went raw after a chick I've dated became a steady chick. Using condoms is just second nature to me honestly, like breathing, or putting on shoes. And I'm always leery of chicks who are either pushy to me not using condoms, or act like it's second nature to them for dudes not to use condoms. The words "I just want to feel you inside me" screams trapaholic.
 
After reading this thread, it really made me speechless. But I have to say you deserved what you got and much more x infinity but that doesn't mean I don't feel bad for you. Hope you turn your life around OP.
 
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No he's still right. If you don't want STDs it makes more sense to use protection when you have sex and it makes more sense not to have sex with any chick that'd let you hit raw. Your situation isn't really addressing what's being criticized. Yeah you can catch an STD even with protection but after getting several STDs using no protection you pretty much deserve to get it if you didn't learn the 2nd or 3rd time.

To pass judgment and call homie names, naw he is not right.  Rubbers aren't a hundred percent, and every girl that makes you wait isn't always STD free. I got mine from a girl that refused to give it up at my first advances even tho we had known each other for months before hand.  A rubber ain't stopping a thing if you don't use them properly, and even then there's still a chance you can loss.  Passing judgment on someone because you think your doing it the way it is supposed to be done is not cool at all, because on any given sunday you could find yourself in that persons shoes.  Saying to yourself, "but, I did everything right".
I didn't see the judgment in the person you quoted. He starts off saying he "hates to say it". OP clearly detailed his experiences with STDs and his continued practice to go raw. Saying he deserve it is pretty apt given that he did it to himself. He literally went through this several times and it took a permanent STD for him to make a thread about it. As far as calling him a moron, the definition fits along with a bunch of other words you could call him.

The person you quoted did not imply he was doing it right and OP was doing it wrong. Again I've already agreed with you about condoms and their rate at successfully protecting someone from STDs. I'm not arguing that. We're specifically talking about OP who unlike you (unless you say otherwise) has claimed to be a sex addict, had several curable STDs before, and continued to go raw on random women and rarely used protection until he got HPV.

Your story isn't the same and if I were to smash a homegirl I've known since I was 7 with protection who I knew wasn't getting around and had a low body count and still caught something it'd be no way the same as OP and the person you quoted wouldn't say something along the lines of "you deserve it" or "you're a moron"
 
I'm not even reading it.  When I see someone who just signed up and has a few posts, if they post some outlandish story, I just don't believe them.
 
there is still hope OP, and as a previous member posted....life is not about sex. i am pretty sure u will find a  partner to show u that...as long as u change ur ways.....

also....rubber does not guarantee u dont contract an std
 
I'm not even reading it.  When I see someone who just signed up and has a few posts, if they post some outlandish story, I just don't believe them.
ok....not hypocrisy ....but still sounds off when you're in the same boat with posts and join date. 
 
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