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Man, I cant wait to get the boob again...
Official NT dad thread: can the dads get love
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My wife was on bed rest for a month with our first born.
Nurses had some fly mouths so I had to check them and their boss.
Told them don't say anything to my wife unless it has to do with her treatment.
Had to let my kids first pediatrician know she needed to acknowledge my presence in the room when discussing my kids.
Chick would just talk my wife like I was invisible or something, and I'm the one paying the insurance.
I feel this . Like why would I show up to not ask questions and be present.
When my oldest got his first shot the nurse was like let mom hold him it's better... foh
This is why mommy martyrdom is huge. My best friend check his girl for posting on social media like she was a single parent, one of the kids was sick and she was posting pics about the doctor visit. My dude was like I was up with the baby too.
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Man I've been lucky. All dr visits I've been in since before birth all the nurses and Drs addressed us both. I held her for her shots and there wasn't any issue.
For Christmas our daughter will be 6 months so we're getting her this
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You can configure it multiple ways. So if your kid is crawling you can change it all up when they move up to walking. Should last a year or 2.
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could be they are so used to it just being mom and the kids they speak directly with the mom by default
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Man my wife works in the AM and I work later in the day so I be the one going to all her appointments. Mother's and doctors looking at me like I'm Jesus 
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Speaking of how many kids we want...
Think my shortys preggo, been a week since she missed her pd. Im happy yet nervous...financiallyLowkey excited for my daughter to have a sibling if she is, but then again she gets mad jealous when other kids are around me and her mother so...
We shall see bros, ill let yall know whats up soon
guys....guys...GUYS...FELLAS HEAR ME OUT!
IM GONA BE A DAD AGAIN
Man what a feeling...truly made this year end on a positive note.
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Congrats homeboy.
How you and your chick takin it?
How you and your chick takin it?
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Thanks fam.
At this point were happy...we ready
. She came up with the idea of not knowing the sex till the baby arrives....idk if id be able to do it. Anyone here did that?
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Stuck at the hospital overnight to monitor my girl and baby... Everything seems to be good so far, but still worried...
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Im sure everythings fine, think positive man. I understand youre worried but keep in mind to be strong for your girl, her stressing out wont help.
When we were 3 months pregnant with out first one, my girl started bleeding bad and we didnt wanna admit it but thought it was a miscarriage for sure. Rushed to the hospital and got her checked out and the DR was shocked herself how my daughter was still alive...
So basically moral of the story is be positive
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Thanks fam.
At this point were happy...we ready
Congrats, man. I wouldn't be able to do that but I'm not really the type to like surprises either. My wife and I would rather spend those extra few months to prepare for the right sex baby. We're not the type to go neutral with clothes, room paint, etc
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The doctors are concerned he doesn't move during ultrasounds... He does move a lot, so just camera shy laugh.gif... But it's still nerve racking... My girl is scared but she's hormonal AF... I'm more annoyed more than anything else really ...
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Yo them hormones are no joke.
Keep us updated tho.
Thats exactly how i am, but i guess shes feeling spontanious since this is our second lol
Keep us updated tho.
Congrats, man. I wouldn't be able to do that but I'm not really the type to like surprises either. My wife and I would rather spend those extra few months to prepare for the right sex baby. We're not the type to go neutral with clothes, room paint, etc
Thats exactly how i am, but i guess shes feeling spontanious since this is our second lol
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My kid is bout to turn 2 and he usually gets his DHA vitamins from them enfagrow toddler milks but I kinda wanna start pulling him away from that. He's just not feelin it as much since he started drinking real milk
What vitamins are y'all giving your kids? Not really trying to go through a bunch of experiments cause they're hella expensive
What vitamins are y'all giving your kids? Not really trying to go through a bunch of experiments cause they're hella expensive
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The doctors are concerned he doesn't move during ultrasounds... He does move a lot, so just camera shy laugh.gif... But it's still nerve racking... My girl is scared but she's hormonal AF... I'm more annoyed more than anything else really
They said the same thing about my boy. He was always on the move but would always be camera shy.
Keep positive vibes especially wit your girl, shes under the most stress.
Side note- i think this is the best place to ask.
Would yall take a job, not a job offer, but take a open job with a 100% chance of hiring in the oil field 3-5 hrs away full time, workin 60+ hrs a week in an oil field town?
With the opportunity to see your wife and kid on an off weekend?
Im thinkin bout it only cuz im tryna build a more secure financial foundation.
My son is 1.
I will be missing out on a lot.
My girl has a good paying job.
Mine is decent compared to hers.
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I just gave my daughter regular milk one day and she was good
Getting her to want it out of a sippy cup instead of a bottle is a chore though
Getting her to want it out of a sippy cup instead of a bottle is a chore though
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The doctors are concerned he doesn't move during ultrasounds... He does move a lot, so just camera shy laugh.gif... But it's still nerve racking... My girl is scared but she's hormonal AF... I'm more annoyed more than anything else really
They said the same thing about my boy. He was always on the move but would always be camera shy.
Keep positive vibes especially wit your girl, shes under the most stress.
Side note- i think this is the best place to ask.
Would yall take a job, not a job offer, but take a open job with a 100% chance of hiring in the oil field 3-5 hrs away full time, workin 60+ hrs a week in an oil field town?
With the opportunity to see your wife and kid on an off weekend?
Im thinkin bout it only cuz im tryna build a more secure financial foundation.
My son is 1.
I will be missing out on a lot.
My girl has a good paying job.
Mine is decent compared to hers.
I could never do that personally...
It's one thing if your job takes you away on occasion... But that's just way too much IMO... Do what you feel is right tho obviously .
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+1
Kills me if I have an obligation in the evening and I miss bedtime with my kids. Nobody understands that I don't wanna go away and leave my kids even just overnight. If I'm going somewhere, the fam is coming with me!
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Basically this.
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How'd y'all come up with names for your kids?
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Been awhile. Princess just turned 11.
Her party. 40 kids showed up
Very popular kid. Odd because I was/still an introvert.
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Her party. 40 kids showed up
Very popular kid. Odd because I was/still an introvert.
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google --> baby names
+ good combo with surname? + other criteria
You'll have a short list eventually. Then discuss with bm, fam
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Depends...if your family is truly in need of financial security. You have to do what you have to do.
Hell I'll rob someone or sell dope before I let my family starve. Atleast you're taking the legal route.
Just stack your paper, make sure you got FaceTime/GoogleTalk on sight.
This is all apart of being a parent/husband. You have to make sacrifices to secure a proper welfare for your family.
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Congrats!
We did that.... for our third. After finding out the first, and then the second, we decided to make the third a surprise. It was a fun experiment! She had her guess, and I had mine. From the experience of the first pregnancy (girl) to the second pregnancy (boy), I had a gut feeling that it was going to be another boy. Mood, temperament, appetite, cravings, all of things that you normally don't notice. I noticed.....
Good thing we kept everything from the 2nd child, so it wasn't too hard on us. Needless to say, when the 3rd child came out.... I had to say 'I told you so'. That was a great feeling, only because the wifey is never wrong... 
