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Couldn't agree more
Couldn't agree more
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This!That's a fair point, I was just specifically addressing the comments about all single moms trying to trap dudes for $ or have them raise their kids. I knew what I was getting in to, but her ex was gonna be in jail for the next 20 years, so I said @#$% itFound out about the mood swings a lot later.
I mean, you can't say every single mom is a JO. Are single mothers whose partners have died, abandoned them, gone to prison for something horrible (like my ex), etc. all JOs? Think logically before you call them all @#$@@#
A lot of NTers post about not having their fathers in their lives and how their mothers busted their @#$ off to raise them. I guess they're all JOs now too
The blanketing statements made about single moms is absolutely tragic in this thread. I know most of these cats have better sense and are just doing it for the lulz.
That being said every mans ideal is to start a traditional family of his own, I doubt anyone goes out specifically looking for single moms to date.
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its just as rediculous as guys thinking it isnt in the realm of possibility, and somehow older generations of women....ohs,jumpoffs etc...didnt exist. Lets face it there is going to be a bias seeing its your mom, sister, aunt, grandma etc.. Like i said nothing new is under the sun. As things seem different, they are more the same.
This notion of women being promiscous, making bad choices etc... just started is the true foolish blanket statement. And the sad thing about it, having a bias, non neutral view of it is the absolute tragic in our society, thus why we have the "generational curses" that run rampant today. This idea of my mom was perfect, my dad was this horrible guy etc...my mom was angel, then girl goes out and repeat same actions/behavior, and/or dudes ignore it and go out and knock up a chick subconciously thats like his mom. And it goes on and on and on and on.
How can you correct, change a ongoing problem, if ppl are going to ignore the past, and not accept history and acknowledge things for what they are? Things are going to get worse...(which is proven by our society) so long as ppl make excuses, refuse to accept truths, be defensive and dissmissive? As long as we got ppl saying/thinking oh that wasnt my insert mom/sister/aunt etc...the oh im going to ignore the overwhelmingly majority of women who do fall into these catergories because i know this one chic, or because that wasnt/couldnt been my mom, Or my dad falls in the minority. Or my mom could have been, or was in that category but i see her in rose colored glasses so imma based on hurt,repressed feelings etc...ignore the fact. Things are just going to keep on keeping on.
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i swear if you put as much effort into thinking, as you do into punching keys...you'd be a smart m**#*((^^(.
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If you want real advice. PM me.
Those on NT already know about me and the women I've dated....including my lady who has a son. That's my little man and I'm cool with the Pops. We just went to WV last weekend and played ball/hit the casino/watched the game.
Dating a Single Mom (Woman) that is classy and has a good head on her shoulders takes a strong, secure, confident man....which is quite rare on NT.
You knowwwww!
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Those on NT already know about me and the women I've dated....including my lady who has a son. That's my little man and I'm cool with the Pops. We just went to WV last weekend and played ball/hit the casino/watched the game.
Dating a Single Mom (Woman) that is classy and has a good head on her shoulders takes a strong, secure, confident man....which is quite rare on NT.
You knowwwww!
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You got back with the chick with the son, or is this another one?
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LOL!
That will always be my little man and she has a lot of growing up to do and maturing (but I understand he had a kid at 19 and didn't have the same opportunities as me).
She hit me with a marriage ultimatum a couple months ago and wanted a second child.
I don't respond well to orders and ultimatums....so I bounced on Christmas Eve.
Her family is PR and they are not the best communicators or most intelligent of people. They see me doing well and her doing well when I'm around and believe it or not....they get jealous. They try to control her with the Bible and manipulate her. I put strength in her and tell her to make her own decisions and be confident in herself....quit bending and breaking for other people's approval that aren't raising your son or taking care of you relationship.
It is what it is.....who knows how the story will end.
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There are single moms who have just been burned by guys.
I smashed one who was cheated on by her fiance.
I don't judge her or consider her damaged goods.
But a kid is just extra hassle and with a lot of options why would I choose the harder road?
I smashed one who was cheated on by her fiance.
I don't judge her or consider her damaged goods.
But a kid is just extra hassle and with a lot of options why would I choose the harder road?
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The cast of WE tv's Pregnant & Dating. They are all pregnant. Also dating.
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Anyway you chop it up, if you compare 2 women with the same attributes one with a child one without, the woman without the child will always be more desirable.
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Went to a wedding the other day. Pretty sure all the bridesmaids and maids of honor had kids, no rings on their fingers, and no men in their lives. Cole world.
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Perception + reality = disappointment
I'm pretty sure those chicks thought they were gonna be wifed up by now with their baby father .
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The new normal, eh?
Yup, that's it.The cast of WE tv's Pregnant & Dating. They are all pregnant. Also dating.
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That escalated quickly.
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wheres there husbands?
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When I was like 20 I linked back up wit a girl from hs. She invited me over so I slide thru her apt n its jus her and her son. We chop it up while she cleaning something in tge other room, so its jus me n little man in the room. He was like 18 mths n didn't have any male figures in his life n I jus felt bad for lil man. I kinda pulled a airboxing move on him playing around n he loved it. Kept trynna play n airbox my whole time there. She comes back we talk etc n he keeps running up hugging on me, even kissed my cheek. I was very uncomfortable and that **** kinda scared me away lol. Ever since then I kinda stayed away from them
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It's more to the story bruh...
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........and most if not all of those chicks are going to stay single and without a man for a very long time. Whether they really want to admit it or not most of these females in today society would rather be a baby momma instead of a wife or a wife with a kid/kids.
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This is the truth, what's the point of making the situation harder dealing with a women with a kid.
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I hope you guys see the underline message (agenda) that these shows are putting out. Shows like this, house wives of whatever, whatever sport wives, love and hiphop and teen mom are sending a clear message that these bahaviors have no consequences. I know for a fact that black women eat this BS up.
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i say let it go, a women with 2 kids means only one thing ''she's fertile'', so you play in it all you want but soon enough you might be playing daddy for real!
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NT is not a great place to get real credible advice or guidance from people (the majority) of whom have no real world experience.....what could they possibly know at the ages of 14-19 about such a real mature issue? Really....you are going to take advice from a bunch of people who browse Ebay all day looking for "steals" or "heat" and take 10939430 IG pics of sneakers and "fits"....come on my man, you are better than this.
I've dated all kinds of women different ethnic backgrounds/cultures/situations/etc.....Nuclear Engineers from Spain in the Navy who make six figures, mixed girls studying to become Nurses, a lawyer in DC, etc. (No humble brag), but the one I could relate to the most was the girl with the son because that is how I grew up and she was the only female I've ever dated that was in my realm as far as drive/determination/hustle.
She wasn't the most intelligent by any means or the best looking/in shape....but one day it will make sense to you who are selfless or not the typical self-absorbed/self-centered person walking this Earth.
Why would someone give jobs and stuff away on NT for free....
Why would someone do nice things expecting nothing in return.....
Exactly.
Peace.
I've dated all kinds of women different ethnic backgrounds/cultures/situations/etc.....Nuclear Engineers from Spain in the Navy who make six figures, mixed girls studying to become Nurses, a lawyer in DC, etc. (No humble brag), but the one I could relate to the most was the girl with the son because that is how I grew up and she was the only female I've ever dated that was in my realm as far as drive/determination/hustle.
She wasn't the most intelligent by any means or the best looking/in shape....but one day it will make sense to you who are selfless or not the typical self-absorbed/self-centered person walking this Earth.
Why would someone give jobs and stuff away on NT for free....
Why would someone do nice things expecting nothing in return.....
Exactly.
Peace.
