TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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datkidfiasco said:
keep thinking about what my Ex did and i cant get over it, im such a *****
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Don't let this eat you up my dude...
Once again nothing wrong with mourning but talk to somebody, play video games, hoop, run, let the emotion out in a constructive way, just don't hurt yourself and please Cut That ***** Off..
Also don't be afraid to come in here to vent..
But by all means, let that chick go...
Don't become bitter, it's okay to be angry, but don't become bitter over one triflin female..
Peace
 
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datkidfiasco said:
keep thinking about what my Ex did and i cant get over it, im such a *****
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It'll take some time but you will get over it but you must also put in effort. Start working out, pick up a hobby, change your routine, say yes to more things. I remember when I went through my deal I just did my best to keep my mind busy so I wouldn't have to think about it much and focus on new things. Time does heal all just make sure you're doing something with that time.
 
How would ya'll go about in a "nice" way to tell a girl, your girl, she needs to stop being so damn comfortable...

when we met she was on her ****, kept herself well maintained (physically, and emotionally?)

now it's like she don't care
 
I need some advice y'all.

So me and my my girl got in a heated argument on Friday and I walked out and spent the night at my moms. Keep in mind that I'm constantly doing this when a simple argument goes sour. So that same night she hits me up saying that she can't be doing that anymore and that she wants to split. She usually always does this and we end up working it out. Not this time. She says that she doesn't have the energy to this anymore and she wants to break up. Obviously this isn't what she wants or what I want but she's going through with it. I got my stuff from the apartment yesterday and got settled back into my moms. I spent most of yesterday trying to talk her out of it and in a way she's slowly realizing that it's the wrong move. She asked me for a little space this morning because she has a lot to think about but it's driving me crazy just thinking that she might go trough with it. Any advice TAY famb?
 
Once my ex tried to play me back in feb I was out of commission for like two solid weeks. Then I stopped feeling sorry for myself. Started taking classes for grad school, got a raise, moved to a way better apartment, hit the gym and started playing basketball again, raised my kill death ratio above 2.0, and got a new gf who's better than my ex in every way. Last I heard from her she moved back home working for her parents and dating some dude who can't dress. 6 months later I won.
 
JOEYxFRESCO said:
I need some advice y'all.

So me and my my girl got in a heated argument on Friday and I walked out and spent the night at my moms. Keep in mind that I'm constantly doing this when a simple argument goes sour. So that same night she hits me up saying that she can't be doing that anymore and that she wants to split. She usually always does this and we end up working it out. Not this time. She says that she doesn't have the energy to this anymore and she wants to break up. Obviously this isn't what she wants or what I want but she's going through with it. I got my stuff from the apartment yesterday and got settled back into my moms. I spent most of yesterday trying to talk her out of it and in a way she's slowly realizing that it's the wrong move. She asked me for a little space this morning because she has a lot to think about but it's driving me crazy just thinking that she might go trough with it. Any advice TAY famb?
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It sends the wrong message when you keep leaving, she can't depend on you. Just hope she gets over it and realizes what yall have is worth more than the frustration.
 
joeyxfresco joeyxfresco out of my experience, you just need to let the relationship breathe. My girl and I were going at each other's necks over nothing. It was seriously bad. Then we just agreed to break up, have our space and the relationship we had stopped stressing us out. We felt like we could breathe and though it hurt it was for the better. However we stayed together as friends. Worked out our own personal issues and took a lot of time. The beautiful thing is we were able to rebuild what we lost and broke into a better way. If you love her and you let her go, then it is meant to be if she finds her way back to you. Sorry for the mushiness all. :lol: but I know for a fact that space and time has worked out for me. Short term it hurts, but long term it's for the better.

hennessy hennessy :nthat: +1.
 
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Hennessy said:
Once my ex tried to play me back in feb I was out of commission for like two solid weeks. Then I stopped feeling sorry for myself. Started taking classes for grad school, got a raise, moved to a way better apartment, hit the gym and started playing basketball again, raised my kill death ratio above 2.0, and got a new gf who's better than my ex in every way. Last I heard from her she moved back home working for her parents and dating some dude who can't dress. 6 months later I won.
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NT is always WINNING...

I saw the come up coming when you stated that "ghetto" backdrop was changing in the DBT.
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GInfante said:
 
How would ya'll go about in a "nice" way to tell a girl, your girl, she needs to stop being so damn comfortable...

when we met she was on her ****, kept herself well maintained (physically, and emotionally?)

now it's like she don't care
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Just be honest with her.
 
JOEYxFRESCO said:
I need some advice y'all.

So me and my my girl got in a heated argument on Friday and I walked out and spent the night at my moms. Keep in mind that I'm constantly doing this when a simple argument goes sour. So that same night she hits me up saying that she can't be doing that anymore and that she wants to split. She usually always does this and we end up working it out. Not this time. She says that she doesn't have the energy to this anymore and she wants to break up. Obviously this isn't what she wants or what I want but she's going through with it. I got my stuff from the apartment yesterday and got settled back into my moms. I spent most of yesterday trying to talk her out of it and in a way she's slowly realizing that it's the wrong move. She asked me for a little space this morning because she has a lot to think about but it's driving me crazy just thinking that she might go trough with it. Any advice TAY famb?
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Just let her be, bro.  Give her that space. If she yours, she won't go far.

Future advice. You're not a little boy anymore. Running to your mom because an argument went sour?  Bro, just wait until the argument dies down and then talk to her.  Just go for a ride and then come back..Sleep on the couch. But running away every time is not a good look.   As a man you have to keep your cool and control of your emotions. Learn to talk things through.
 
marmourjr said:
NT is always WINNING...

I saw the come up coming when you stated that "ghetto" backdrop was changing in the DBT. :lol:  
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Lol yeah dude. It was hard work getting where I'm at and getting over her. But now I'm sitting here transformed and hardly think about her any more. Don't even care if she knows how well I'm doing because I'm good on my own now. An I hope she's doing alright. No hard feelings any more.
 
Needed a night out so I took a trip to one of my favorite strip joints.
Henny straight all night and saw a few new dancers.
Flashed cash like it was going out of style
& Exchanged numbers with a bartender and a couple of strippers.
Hoping at least one bites bc I need something to pound out when I'm bored or just in the streets late night.
I'm not texting any of them first.
 
I always thought, I maybe wrong, that those strip clubs broads be always on some "pay to play" somewhere down the line...

Anybody had any success with this?
 
GInfante said:
How would ya'll go about in a "nice" way to tell a girl, your girl, she needs to stop being so damn comfortable...

when we met she was on her ****, kept herself well maintained (physically, and emotionally?)

now it's like she don't care
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This may sound a lil harsh or risky...but simply show a lil less interest sexually. She knows she's kinda let herself go, and after turning down sex here and there...she'll naturally start to question herself and then ask you if you're still attractive.

The key when she asks you if she's still attractive to you...is to acknowledge that you are...but in a subtle way let her no there's room for improvement.
 
marmourjr said:
I always thought, I maybe wrong, that those strip clubs broads be always on some "pay to play" somewhere down the line...

Anybody had any success with this?
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90% of them are in my experience. I remember being green and excited to book a bad stripper....only to be hit with $$$$ when I asked to hang out lol.
 
WavyCrocket said:
This may sound a lil harsh or risky...but simply show a lil less interest sexually. She knows she's kinda let herself go, and after turning down sex here and there...she'll naturally start to question herself and then ask you if you're still attractive.

The key when she asks you if she's still attractive to you...is to acknowledge that you are...but in a subtle way let her no there's room for improvement.
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You trying to build insecurities with this...
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No woman like REJECTION on any level...from my experience.

The best way is to just be honest.  Shouldn't have to play games when it comes to your mate.
 
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marmourjr said:
You trying to build insecurities with this...:lol:

No woman like REJECTION on any level...from my experience.

The best way is to just be honest.  Shouldn't have to play games when it comes to your mate.
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Lol that's true. I see that. But it's worked for me, and she said she was glad I was honest.
 
marmourjr said:
I always thought, I maybe wrong, that those strip clubs broads be always on some "pay to play" somewhere down the line..

Anybody had any success with this?
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All those broads have a price man.
They're not dancing nude bc they want to,
But bc they have no other skills to utilize in the real world.
I have a happy home, but monogamy gets boring sometime.
I got no problem knocking out a utility bill or something along those lines to knock down a stripper at my leisure lol.
 
when you in a commited relationship and the argument get rough womendont want you to leave .. if anything sleep on the couch STAY at home because if you go away then it will look sus because the mind creates scenario for them. Especially in the REAL HOUSWIVE LOVE HIP HOP TMZ FACEBOOK GENERATION OF GIRLS
plus if you feel like y r in the right make your point and shut up .. not shut down... talk super calm... I say stuff like Ive made my point you don't have to yell anymore and I shut up.... once they aren't mad its business as usually .. you cant deny the emotion women have if you do they go to someone who allow their emotions
 
I would turn it down a few times and have a talk with her. She should be receptive of constructive criticism
 
marmourjr said:
WavyCrocket said:
This may sound a lil harsh or risky...but simply show a lil less interest sexually. She knows she's kinda let herself go, and after turning down sex here and there...she'll naturally start to question herself and then ask you if you're still attractive.


The key when she asks you if she's still attractive to you...is to acknowledge that you are...but in a subtle way let her no there's room for improvement.
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You trying to build insecurities with this...:lol:

No woman like REJECTION on any level...from my experience.

The best way is to just be honest.  Shouldn't have to play games when it comes to your mate.
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Yeah that negative reinforcement stuff is no go for a sensible woman.
 
WavyCrocket said:
Lol that's true. I see that. But it's worked for me, and she said she was glad I was honest.
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Rejecting her until she questions whether you still find her attractive isn't being honest though. That's just messed up.

You can either tell her straight up (if she has thick-ish skin) or start trying to workout together or buy healthier food. Trust me, she knows she's gaining weight. A lot of girls (people in general actually) are naturally skinny - so when they start gaining weight as they age, they don't actually know how to get back in shape. It's why stupid fad diets and workouts are so popular.
 
Day 4 of my 8 day vacation with my girl in Taiwan. PRAY for me brothas of TAY. Lol.
Its not going bad only had one argument and in that she realized all sorts of stuff and was def for her own good. Next 3 days is pure ealking around in heat though lol test from God here.
But this trip is good for us
To see if this has true potential so far so good.
Plus that makes 3 countries public sex has been had h
 
Get on doing you things son, don't stop.


Thinking about making a trip to San Francisco next weekend. See how I feel when the dates get closer.
 
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